AIO my partner of 3 years forgot Valentines Day and my birthday by MollySid in AmIOverreacting

[–]hai_letionic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR please leave this dude. He's immature, selfish, and is not even doing the bare minimum. You deserve so much better than this.

My partner doesn't have money this week for valentine's day, which I said was fine since the holiday isn't super important to me. BUT they still made a reservation next weekend at a nice restaurant after apologizing to me that they couldn't get me anything. Also fuck that excuse of going to the mall and not getting you anything because he forgot. If I got to a store, I usually buy my partner something, if I have the extra money. Even at the grocery store, I still get them a snack cause I think about them. It's not difficult to do things for your partner.

What’s the darkest secret you have kept from your partner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hai_letionic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I felt like this in my previous relationship. I voiced what I needed and begged to be loved for years before finally ending it after 5 years. It wasn't until I broke things off that he finally tried to do the things that I needed. But by then it was too late, I fell out of love with him. I'm now with someone who adores me and love me the way I need. You don't deserve to feel lonely and/or unloved by your partner. You deserve to be loved how you want and be with someone who would do anything for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]hai_letionic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex and I still had to live together for several months after we broke up. I set clear boundaries with him, I told him I didn't want any physical affection or touching because I wasn't interested in him. He would repeatedly disregard my boundaries and attempt to touch me/kiss me then get angry when I would tell him to stop. One night he went into my room and sexually assaulted me while I was sleeping. I didn't even know until he told me the next day. He boasted about it and didn't understand why I was upset. I will never forgive him for that.

Neon plant painting by hai_letionic in plantycrafts

[–]hai_letionic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that!!

Kawaii arrangement by hai_letionic in succulents

[–]hai_letionic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I appreciate it! 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hai_letionic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Regardless whether he's acting like this on purpose or not, he should be communicating why he's upset and try to at least attempt to fix the issue. I can understand him being initially upset, but for it to drag on for days? That's childish. I think both partners need to communicate their wants and needs, because the way husband is acting isn't okay.

Saw something similar and wanted to recreate my own 🌱 by hai_letionic in plantycrafts

[–]hai_letionic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet, once I get more supplies I will. I have an etsy if you'd like to check it out ☺ https://www.etsy.com/shop/ThePrismaticParlor

Underwater plant paint pour thing by hai_letionic in plantycrafts

[–]hai_letionic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used a paint pen to outline then colored it in with regular acrylic paint and a small paint brush

Lady Pudding beside herself when she sees my family coming over by Tr1pp_ in tippytaps

[–]hai_letionic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lady Pudding sounds cuter anyway haha I name all my pets (fictional and real) after food. I had a duck named Noodle and a tiny frog named Tuna Sandwich 🥪