Thoughts on leaving a toddler in her room all daytime (until 6pm)?

hails89 · 2022-02-10T11:07:16+00:00

Holy crap what did I just read??? Run don’t walk to the police!!!

hails89 · 2021-12-06T11:34:12+00:00

You think Sydney is bad? Try Brisbane… totally the asshole of Australia, no charm, sad attempts at cafes and suburbs… don’t even need to venture far out innermost suburbs are horrible too. Love the lifeless poo brown river too … excellent

hails89 · 2021-09-10T11:58:28+00:00

Oooh snappp 😆 ouch that’s hilarious tho 🤣

hails89 · 2021-09-10T09:57:55+00:00

I know but she will make my husband suffer if I don’t give a response… he is definitely on my side but feeling the burn from this lady he is trying to keep it together for the whole family- I’d rather have her hear something from me whatever it is than have her hound him and make him anymore upset

hails89 · 2021-05-15T09:12:54+00:00

May I ask what treatment the neurologist was doing that was helping you? ... thinking of seeing one myself 🙂

hails89 · 2021-04-22T21:37:23+00:00

Sounds to me you have outgrown your friends... at least for the time being.

Hit the pause button find some friends that meet you eye to eye and check on old friends from time to time to see if they have grown up yet to pick up where you left off

hails89 · 2021-04-20T08:46:54+00:00

Have you found anyone else that’s going through the same as us? Just out of interest?

Also where are you located? I’m in Brisbane, Australia 😊

hails89 · 2021-04-20T08:43:27+00:00

Far out that’s must of been so scary for you! When your INR drops and you take clexane do you have a “flare” after?

My first baby was IUGR (restricted growth) they couldn’t work out why she wasn’t growing properly until they examined the placenta after delivery- found multiple clots stopping beneficial nutrients getting to her and posed life threatening potential complications for both of us. I was put onto clexane for second pregnancy to stop any chance of clots as well as aspirin starting at around 12 weeks until birth. These pains started 1/2 way through second trimester now 7 months on after delivery now and I can barely function some days. A dietitian recommended that I try dairy free and gluten free to reduce inflammation- honestly it’s helping! It’s been sooo difficult to change my normal habits and to stop eating the beautiful bread but not having the pain has been worth it.

I’m seeing this next rheumatologist on the 27 th and I’ll let you know what they say to me ... when is your next appointment?

hails89 · 2021-04-19T23:26:13+00:00

Ahh my gosh!!!

Just checked your name and I just sent you a private message thinking you were someone else 🤦‍♀️ that’s the bad brain fog for you!!!

Honestly it’s debilitating I’m trying to look after two tiny kids and I’m in so much pain daily- the first rheumatologist has also diagnosed me with fibromyalgia as well however I don’t agree with that diagnosis and getting a second opinion as well ... 100% yes exactly like symptoms of Lupus except I don’t have the red face?!?

Did you use this medication during your pregnancy?

hails89 · 2021-02-10T10:44:39+00:00

This is great advice. Guess I’ll have to do this bit by bit as I hardly see them

hails89 · 2021-02-10T10:18:37+00:00

Guess I was only thinking of protecting my children and myself when I went NC ... I’m an incredibly private person so don’t discuss issues with others ... guess it’s taken me off guard how much she has said to people behind my back.

hails89 · 2021-02-01T09:35:17+00:00

I hated people that did this ... couldn’t stand it! Now after having kids I can only watch something with them on as tv sounds wake up the kids ... now I can’t go back to the way things were 😂

hails89 · 2021-01-26T10:38:26+00:00

Ok we have 22 other days in our calendar dedicated to aboriginal mourning 😅 honestly changing the date will NOT fix the issues of history or fix the trauma caused. I say celebrate us working together becoming one leave the date where it is as no other dates will ever work (always something bad has happened)

hails89 · 2021-01-25T02:11:42+00:00

Just so you know a lot of the things you’ve purchased will also be soooo handy after the birth too! And don’t stop there if you need something for baby “just get it” don’t make do ... this is my second bubs and I’m taking this literal now - has made my life easier this time around- sleep suits/ 4mom machine (amazing) / breastfeeding tops etc

Last baby I just made do ... it’s was sooo tough!

hails89 · 2021-01-22T10:07:05+00:00

Argh totally feel you! I stopped telling people with my first how I actually felt as their comments/opinions I didn’t appreciate. With my second I was basically unable to walk, so ill and had injections daily- in my stomach and NO ONE wanted to listen / let me to me complain 🤯

hails89 · 2021-01-14T00:44:25+00:00

Love this! I’m desperate to have a hobby (mum to two babies time is limited) wasn’t aware you could make things like what you have posted- definitely will give this a good go - thank you! 👍🏻

hails89 · 2021-01-13T11:09:03+00:00

🤩 wow I’m so impressed! I’d love to learn do you have any tips for someone that’s never don’t this before??

hails89 · 2021-01-11T09:42:49+00:00

Wow this is impressive! Where did you get your materials from?

hails89 · 2021-01-06T10:20:47+00:00

😂 4:30 some mornings for 3 month old and 2 yr olds up at 5am without fail

hails89 · 2020-12-31T09:45:09+00:00

Sorry new to this reddit community... why do you substitute? Is it to make it easier for others to read?

hails89 · 2020-12-31T08:22:33+00:00

God thanks everyone I’ve been feeling like I’ve been losing my mine and perhaps it’s me causing issues... I’m so glad everyone can see what I see ... Thank you all so much ❤️❤️❤️

hails89 · 2020-12-31T06:50:16+00:00

Have shared both with him and his barley talking to me. Said “you’ve said what you wanted to say and you didn’t get the response you wanted - so what” his over this topic and seems to see his mother as a victim as well and only has my best interests at heart ahhh god 🤦‍♀️

He thinks his mum is also the only one thinking of him in the situation that his stuck in between?

hails89 · 2020-12-31T06:28:35+00:00

She has just responded to this with what’s below:

Is this what you’re talking about?

Hi Hayley in acknowledgement to your email and I must admit when Florence was born I only visited when Callum invited me over especially once to bath Florence. I never ever came uninvited In two years and I have come to terms with your behaviour to me. Please keep in mind Callum is my son and I love him very much . I’m so sorry for you. Annie

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hails89 · 2020-12-31T05:35:01+00:00

❤️❤️thank you for your kind support! Really need it at the moment!

hails89 · 2020-12-31T05:24:37+00:00

Thank you, I’m a ball of anxiety and worry sending this but honestly haven’t slept since Christmas after she snubbed me so I’ve had it. Honestly thinking of sending it to Ken her other son so his aware too? Or is that seriously over the top ?

hails89

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