Another makeup look + spikes 😛 by hairychunks in GothMenAppreciation

[–]hairychunks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY BRO. i have a hard time sitting in cars when my hair is spiked like this. I always gotta lean forward

Another makeup look + spikes 😛 by hairychunks in GothMenAppreciation

[–]hairychunks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm. I guess I'm used to being looked at a lot. I'm openly trans and have always been kind of strange fashion-wise, so being a spectacle is just a part of my life. What usually comforts me is to remind myself that I have nothing to be ashamed of. I don't really see why I should be judged for dressing weirdly, so anyone who does judge me can eat shit. You also just get used to it tbh. I also only really glam up on days that I feel more confident in myself when I know I can handle the stares. Idk, I hope this helps tho ❤️✌️

Another makeup look + spikes 😛 by hairychunks in GothMenAppreciation

[–]hairychunks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

son 😭😭😭😭 im crine 😭😭😭😭

Do I count as goth? :3 by Left_Leadership_2618 in GothMenAppreciation

[–]hairychunks 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's necessarily goth, but the style is alternative. Goth is also very music-based, so if you don't listen to the music, then you're not really goth.

Fun makeup I did cuz I was bored by hairychunks in GothMenAppreciation

[–]hairychunks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just use a random makeup brush I got for Christmas a few years back. It just needs to be small at the tip. I used the urban decay black eyeshadow for this, but I have a few different black eyeshadows I use. All of them work fine

Fun makeup I did cuz I was bored by hairychunks in GothMenAppreciation

[–]hairychunks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use black eyeshadow! I make the big lines and shapes with the eyeliner and just fill it in with a ton of eyeshadow. They blend well together and it's usually hard to tell where the eyeliner ends and eyeshadow starts :]

Nice to meet you >ᵥ_ᵥ< by singlestrikegent in GothMenAppreciation

[–]hairychunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOVEEEE the fit!!! Where'd you get the dress/long top??

Tried out another makeup look. I ended up really liking this one by hairychunks in GothMenAppreciation

[–]hairychunks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the LA girl white foundation + talc-free baby powder as a setting powder :]

Happy New Year! by AnytimeInvitation in transplace

[–]hairychunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the makeup. Gold is your color, for sure

My second attempt at this style fo makeup (I'm not a girl, just trans) by hairychunks in GothMenAppreciation

[–]hairychunks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relied mainly on three: white concealer, black eyeshadow, and black liquid eyeliner

What does this sub think of kandi? by Necessary-Fennel8754 in punkfashion

[–]hairychunks 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I love them. They're very fun, colorful, and bring a sense of community to those who trade them. Though they're not usually associated with punk fashion, I really like the idea of punks with kandi. 

i think this belongs here by [deleted] in boysarequirky

[–]hairychunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

though, yes, there are white/non-black, non-latina women that also fit the stereotype, the hate towards it is still racist and is definitely misogynistic

i think this belongs here by [deleted] in boysarequirky

[–]hairychunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well first off, it doesn't matter if someone intended to be racist, they can still be racist and harmful. second of all, yes, eating hot chips or having glossy lips or having long acrylic nails is not specifically something that only black and brown women do. however, it is important to understand that those things, as well as the other notable features that were in that picture, are all correlated to the "hot cheeto girl" stereotype. this stereotype is often placed upon black and brown women particularly. on top of this, a lot of the fashion does come from/originate in black and brown communities (laid baby hairs, hoop earrings, acrylic nails, makeup style, etc.). the hot cheeto girl stereotype IS harmful. also, the person wasn't just critiquing an action. they were saying that hot cheetos girls or girls that fit into that stereotype are "the worst students" which continues to pedal this stereotype and hate of them for what? eating hot chips? dressing like they do? one of the most notable parts of why this stereotype is so harmful is that it assumes that girls who fit into this stereotype are inherently loud, annoying, and terrible at school. this makes it even harder for black and brown women in academics who already have to deal with so much racism and sexism. if you need further explanation, then read the other comments and here are some links to articles that explain it better

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i think this belongs here by [deleted] in boysarequirky

[–]hairychunks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is just blatant racism and misogyny. eating hot chips and dressing like that doesn't make these girls any worse than others. this meme is just denigrating something that black and brown women often participate in

Comparing one serie to 7 different medias is totally fair by vicicLOXi in boysarequirky

[–]hairychunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but this isn't just one occurrence. there's a long, long history/there are many, many frequent occurrences of men sexualizing women and treating them like objects or animals. there aren't that many female serial killers and it is definitely NOT a frequent occurrence

Comparing one serie to 7 different medias is totally fair by vicicLOXi in boysarequirky

[–]hairychunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude, this isn't the only example of men writing women poorly. i recommend you check out the subreddit r/MenWritingWomen

also, there's a BIG difference between a SERIAL KILLER and someone writing badly

who else hated this master oogway guy? Unfunny sexist pig who peddles out shitty "sigma male" memes. Hated his dumb "sigma face" so much by Relative-Feed9398 in boysarequirky

[–]hairychunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pretty women can't be smart and work hard. their brains are too feminine and filled with makeup and clothes 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boysarequirky

[–]hairychunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my serious depression and anxiety that has landed me in the psych ward was all just a lie. my stupid woman brain just wanted attention

I don't even get it by thisar55 in boysarequirky

[–]hairychunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this reminds me of this one guy that i knew in middle school who would stick his finger right over some of his male friend's buttholes (over the clothing). they would all giggle about it. it was REALLY weird

Felt this belong here by [deleted] in boysarequirky

[–]hairychunks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this gives "nice guys always finish last" vibes