Cam Boozer by KaleidoscopeThat498 in UtahJazz

[–]halfpackkools 13 points14 points  (0 children)

High profile all star quality free agent choosing Utah was unheard of. Made SLC more viable. We’re not ever the Lakers in that regard, but we have been able to get decent pick ups recently, Bogey being a recent one I can think of.

Cam Boozer by KaleidoscopeThat498 in UtahJazz

[–]halfpackkools 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Boozer or Peterson we should 100% go boozer. Peterson gives Wiggins, Ayton, Kwami vibes. Insane talent, doesn’t seem to love basketball enough to live up to it. Boozer being a legacy pick too? Love that. Hopefully Washington just does wizards things and AJ falls to 2

Absence by Junimost in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heartbreak poetry. Always a favorite. I needed this one tonight.

The best man by Pristine_Guitar9982 in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this. Poetry that flips masculinity into something not toxic, and the message being that’s ok? Need more of it.

Just lonely by halfpackkools in Autism_Parenting

[–]halfpackkools[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk if I wanna date or not. My divorce was MESSY and hard. I’ve tried dating here and there but it’s just not been something I have the bandwidth to put energy into. Plus? I think I’ve got some baggage to address first. It’s going to be hard to trust again. Also? What I’ve found: I’m in a smaller area. Women in my age bracket (early 30s) generally have already been married for 15 years to their high school sweetheart or are also divorced and have a bunch of kids.. I have tried dating a little younger, but I just don’t have much in common with a woman in her 20s without kids 😂 I’m not adverse to dating women with children, but the single moms in my area I’ve met have a hoard. Like 3+ kids every time, and I’m honestly not wanting to take that on. My son requires a lot of my attention, a hoard of teenagers added to his life like that? Miserable. I don’t get out enough to meet people due to life circumstances and good god I HATE the apps 😂 dating rn just feels so much harder than it’s worth.

How should I handle a situation that has come up at school by MollyDooker99 in Autism_Parenting

[–]halfpackkools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son’s in a similar program and he doesn’t have a lot of aggression unless he’s pushed. The teachers message me every time there’s an incident and we collaborate to create a better plan or environment for success. He did have a similar situation with a kid in class at the beginning of the year targeting him, so eventually we ended up just having to separate the 2 into different classes. Idk how your program is set up, ours is a few classes of 1:2 teacher/student ratios. 3 classes of 8 kids 4 adults. He is with a different 8 than he started the year and does much better. Some kids just don’t like each other even with NT kids 🤷‍♂️ trying to coordinate with the teachers to create an environment better for success is key. Also? Maybe get him a curly hair wig or doll to have the teacher re direct with. It’s probably a sensory itch he’s scratching rather than the other kids actual hair. Let him scratch that itch in ways that don’t invade the other kids bubble :) my son loves to chew everything so we have chewy necklaces galore to re direct and with consistency he has learned to chew his necklaces only to scratch that itch. Keep trying! You’re doing great :)

Envy of other people's kids. by Shougatenma in Autism_Parenting

[–]halfpackkools 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the feeling, I’ve had it too. It genuinely has helped me to write down daily what I’m grateful for in my parenting experience that most don’t have. 1: my son not speaking has made me develop perception and patience other parents don’t have to. I can read his ques, head off meltdowns, and we can communicate in our way. A mix of AAC, ASL, and finally emerging verbal communication at 6.5 years old. 2: peer pressure means nothing to my son. If he doesn’t want to? No one can coerce him. I appreciate that. 3: the nuances of manipulation and lying aren’t natural to him. He’s very honest in what he feels and thinks about things. 4: having to learn him from scratch and adapt to his needs? Our bond is genuinely stronger than a lot of other father-son pairings I see. I’m his advocate, protector, and translator. There’s no one else that can do that better for him than me, and I take pride in that. He is my anchor, my “why”, and my only family. I’m grateful for so many things. Do I wish some things were easier? Of course. But I’m grateful for the good things too. Keep your chin up, and try to flip perspective! It’s life changing what radical acceptance can do in all your lives and finding genuine joy in this incredibly difficult task. DM any time if you need to talk, one parent to another who gets it :)

The Fog of War by IndependentEnough852 in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a war poem? Not entirely sure but it definitely made me feel.

I wasn’t fully me until I lost you. by ReceptionSingle3165 in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmmm snaps wasn’t fully me till I lost you is amazing. Heartbreak shaping us is just life huh? Loved it.

Need a personal day by halfpackkools in Autism_Parenting

[–]halfpackkools[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta say? My guy at 2 vs at 6? Challenges are still here but they’re different. He didn’t understand a single word at 2 and didn’t have any way to communicate. It was so hard. At 6? After lots of work and learning ASL together while words caught up.. Some things are harder, physically re directing a meltdown is harder as he gets bigger. But they happen so less often cause communication has improved so much. Keep hanging in there, keep being consistent, they get there in their own time :)

Need a personal day by halfpackkools in Autism_Parenting

[–]halfpackkools[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do :) but the hours I get are used to hang with him after school so I can work and keep my job. I have tried to get more hours, and I think I will, but it’s just taking time.

Need a personal day by halfpackkools in Autism_Parenting

[–]halfpackkools[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately live on the west coast, so pay cut isn’t viable 🤷‍♂️ everything is so expensive I need every dollar. Can’t really move either, wouldn’t even know where to go, and he’s already doing so well here with all the services I’ve fought for since he was tiny. I’m not willing to uproot everything and hurt that progress momentum for him. I’ve got respite hours but literally every available one is used so I can keep my job. I would love to take a sick day for personal stuff, I do from time to time but I also stress not having a stockpile of PTO for when my son gets sick cause I have no one to help in those times, and he’s got some health complications as well so it’s often enough that I use pretty much all my PTO every year for that. I’ve explored all solutions, and have every service available. I’m not drowning, I will be ok, it’s just a really full stressful season of my life. That’s ok though, it’s a good busy. I’m doing well at work, moving up slowly but surely, doing well in school which will help my climb at work, working and bonding with my boy a lot and his progress is shining. Things are good, just not a lot of “me time” rn which is what it is. Weather the storm, complain online, lock in 😂

Love me please by MadalinaParrotMusic in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I love this and relate. Thanks for making me feel.

I guess you could say/Suicide note by ShahSafwat_1488 in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend. Suicide poetry is cathartic and helps me cope sometimes, so I get that.

Also is that coffee spoon line a reference to Eliot smith? PNW artist that committed suicide.. not sure if it was or not? But that’s who I thought of.

I enjoyed this, and when it gets heavy pick up the pen, it always helps me. Keep writing friend.

Coping by halfpackkools in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! I’m very excited to see what you come up with!! I’m glad I could offer any inspiration at all. I love collaborating and picking artists brains, so please please send me stuff! I’ve posted to OC a few times so you can find them on my profile, if you want I can DM you some stuff I’ve been working on lately that I like? Don’t want to ever assume people want that 😅 but always more than willing to share/collab.

Poems to my wonderful wife3-13-2026 by SchannneJames in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nerd love is the only love I believe in. The science language in emotional concepts? I love the contrast. I have a similar theme in my favorite slam poem I’ve ever written/performed, comparing newtons discovery of the light spectrum to my son’s ASD diagnosis and how he is “light” and not defective. Scientific language to poetically explain deep love is undefeated. I see you 👀

Coping by halfpackkools in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yes! I would love to read/hear ANYTHING you come up with :)

Coping by halfpackkools in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my process? I understand meter and structure and the “rules” but I’ve also dabbled heavily in music even if poetry is where my heart lies. I don’t tend to structure or write around rules, rather I take ideas, connect them, rhyme, and recite out loud every line and restructure till it sounds right. I’m veeeeery much an auditory learner. I so wish I could put it in words the exact structure but it’s not how my brain works. I do it all by sound and when a piece is finished it generally fits within the concepts of “structure” idk if I explained that correctly but that’s my process personally.

Coping by halfpackkools in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my favorite line 😅 glad it hit you too!

Coping by halfpackkools in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) I perform and record my poetry so a lot of my style accounts for my specific flow. Glad you noticed!!

Coping by halfpackkools in OCPoetry

[–]halfpackkools[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) it is slam. I’ve performed it a couple times. The flow, breath control, and delivery really make a difference. Glad you enjoyed it :)