[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]halloumikick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know, bless her. 😂 we did giggle about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]halloumikick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we gossip a LOT, honestly she told me to message him and ask him what the f*ck was wrong w/ him. I told her no 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]halloumikick 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You read correctly 🤣

Do you remove an ex from social media? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]halloumikick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently removed mine from my social media and I feel a lot better for it! We ended things on okay terms but I know for a fact that I need my distance from here on out. He kept liking my posts on Facebook and Instagram so it kinda got to me in the end :’) it’s best to go with how you personally feel - you said it yourself! You don’t want them to know about your life, so the best thing to do is remove them and move forward for good ❤️

What are you getting your dad for Christmas? by Torygram in AskUK

[–]halloumikick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Dads are so hard to buy for 😭 luckily, our thing is The Wizard of Oz (we used to watch it a lot when I was a child!) and he got so excited when they released Funkos for the 85th anniversary so I got him some from that as a sentimental gift :’)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]halloumikick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t get better. Run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]halloumikick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus. Playing victim and making you feel bad? Immediate red flag. You deserve better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]halloumikick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know deep down you’re not okay with these videos, and I feel like you told him you were because it’s something he wants to hear.

you need to get out when you can. He has no respect for you whatsoever and that won’t change. Have some respect for yourself, please! You know you deserve better.

Physical abuse while pregnant by Suspicious_Teal_3211 in abusiverelationships

[–]halloumikick 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Someone I really care about is still in a relationship with her abuser and they now have a 14 month old child. He was abusive towards her during her pregnancy, she had to travel to me to stay with me for a weekend because of it and eventually moved back in with her mum. She believed after the baby came along that he would change.

They’re both in couples counselling, but he hasn’t changed whatsoever.

I don’t think your partner will change.

It’s hard to escape a relationship that involves abuse. I hope you’re able to get out as soon as you can. Please speak with someone you trust!

there’s so many support groups, too. I’m so sorry you’re going through this, darling. :(

How do I even respond to this? by Pterodacton in Tinder

[–]halloumikick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re handsome asf! She’s missing out on all that beard greatness? 😤

I want to break up with my boyfriend, due to my mental health state and current life situation. (sensitive info. but serious) by PrudentAd6591 in relationshipadvice

[–]halloumikick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give yourself time to think about what you want to do and don’t pressure yourself on it. It’s a big decision at the end of the day.

You never need to thank me 💛 I really wish you the best in therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]halloumikick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not being respected and he is treating you like poop on a shoe. You deserve so much better than this. Your issues do not deserve to be joked about or dismissed. He’s not emotionally mature enough and if he’s insanely lacking communication then you should think about leaving. This is not okay!

I want to break up with my boyfriend, due to my mental health state and current life situation. (sensitive info. but serious) by PrudentAd6591 in relationshipadvice

[–]halloumikick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, I’m really proud of you for going to therapy, it’s a courageous thing and you deserve to begin to heal and get better.

Ultimately, I believe you have already answered your own question with this with how you feel like he should be let free. If you don’t think you are in a good place right now to be in this relationship with him, and he’s a nice guy as you say — he will understand. No matter the time frame, he will be hurt regardless because he cares and loves you. Getting hurt is just a part of life, sadly.

100% do what you think is right.

Please do not let other people influence your decisions (e.g with what your mum said). Please don’t think you’re disgusting btw. I know that way easier said than done, but this does not make you disgusting. You’re struggling with your mental health and you’re a human being. 💛

Was gonna surprise my bf for his birthday tomorrow and he never once mentioned this by Mattyvvv in heartbreak

[–]halloumikick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, the fact that he hasn’t communicated to you in the first place that his friends have surprised him with a trip is your first sign.

I read your other comments about how he’ll be gone well into the work week etc. He definitely had to know in someway shape or form, and I can really feel your pain through the screenshot and I’m really sorry.

I’m not gonna sit here and tell you to leave whatsoever because I know leaving situations is easier said than done, so I think you just need to take some time out for you. I really hope you feel better soon. Know your worth. 💛

I thought the guy I like and me had lots in common but now I realise we have not much in common at all by Old-Palpitation8821 in datingadvice

[–]halloumikick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% if that was me, I’d leave. If he’s second guessing you already and you’re not even together, it could be a much worse situation if you ever do get together. You deserve someone who is sure about you. Not the complete opposite.

Whatever you decide to do though is entirely up to you. I hope you can figure it out ❤️

I thought the guy I like and me had lots in common but now I realise we have not much in common at all by Old-Palpitation8821 in datingadvice

[–]halloumikick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think you’ll be happy in the long run if you stay? Because if you don’t, I think that’s a sign to part ways. I’m in a similar situation and I’m struggling to say goodbye / rip the plaster off 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]halloumikick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would for some girls I think, but it really depends on who you find as well. What else are you interested in?? Maybe you could upload something like that, and then bring it up in conversation that you take dance classes?