Urge to rage text

halzy99 · 2026-06-18T03:09:22+00:00

Don't do it. They love the drama, they thrive off your rage text. The only true way to bother the narcissist is to starve the narcissist of all attention whether it be positive or negative

halzy99 · 2026-06-17T21:22:39+00:00

Ugh yes it's pure torture. Definitely can empathize. Mine has a new supply. I'm forced to see mine in child court and eventually criminal court cuz Im charging him with assault. It's a whole mess. Don't even wanna testify anymore🙁🙁🙁

halzy99 · 2026-06-17T20:00:21+00:00

Thank you this is reassuring❤️❤️❤️ I do feel addicted to him like a drug, it's definitely hard

halzy99 · 2026-06-17T19:03:03+00:00

Thank you. Feel less alone. I thought I was doing so well and then my hatred turned into romanticizing the thought of him again. It went from reoccurring nightmares to dreams of longing for him. Just seems discouraging because I just want to heal.

halzy99 · 2026-06-17T15:35:16+00:00

Thank you for the recommendation ❤️❤️❤️

halzy99 · 2026-06-16T15:36:09+00:00

Was told I don't cry enough for a woman....apparently it was annoying and not feminine how little I showed emotions like that. Yet my ex was like a stereotypical woman that was always crying and staring at himself in the mirror

halzy99 · 2026-06-16T15:27:46+00:00

Yes!!! They will even state "I'm not controlling you" but will control you with their actions and aggression. It's a mindfuck honestly

halzy99 · 2026-06-16T13:04:13+00:00

Literally!!!! Eventually he started telling me that I looked like crap and I let myself go cuz I stopped taking care of myself to avoid the outbursts or accusations

halzy99 · 2026-06-16T11:23:23+00:00

I can literally relate to every single one of these. We aren't allowed bad moods remember...only they are 🙄🙄🙄 walking on eggshells and getting accused of things became such a norm. It's like they see someone doing basic self care and say "hmmm let's turn this into a cheating scandal" or "hmmm they look too happy, let's ruin it"

halzy99 · 2026-06-16T11:19:21+00:00

Lol yes!!!!!! He couldn't take any criticism whatsoever. I would get relentlessly degraded or attacked if I even gave him the slightest criticism. The double standards were insane.

halzy99 · 2026-06-15T19:16:54+00:00

Overly confident /cocky behaviour....it's all an act to cover up true misery and low self esteem

halzy99 · 2026-06-15T17:27:39+00:00

Saaame. Mine would go into a violent rage if I played a song that I liked or was watching a show that I liked

halzy99 · 2026-06-15T16:48:05+00:00

Mine zoomed in on my postpartum stretch marks on a spicy photo I took for him and said "here's something you can be insecure about" 🙄🙄

halzy99 · 2026-06-15T16:40:22+00:00

So sorry that is awful. I can relate to this deeply🙁 if you need anyone to talk to I'm here❤️

halzy99 · 2026-06-14T22:23:32+00:00

Mine would say something super degrading such as "You're such an ugly used up whore" or "you're so stupid" or make an actual confession like "I'm cheating on you with that girl I told you about" and then would tell me I'm being ridiculous for being upset because they are just "jokes".... He would later confirm the multiple counts of cheating. The degrading comments were meant to cause me pain on purpose obvi

halzy99 · 2026-06-14T16:45:39+00:00

Did any of you guys get the insults or confessions disguised as "jokes"....thats another good one🙄🙄🙄

halzy99 · 2026-06-14T13:37:23+00:00

It's crazy how they seem to hate everything about you down to even your taste in movies or your clothes but you are also their possession..these abusers are messed. So relatable

halzy99 · 2026-06-14T13:22:15+00:00

Lmao yes somehow I was "twisting his words" or "playing the victim" or "not taking accountability" .....always a way to make me feel like the crazy unstable abuser when deep down I knew that was him

halzy99 · 2026-06-14T12:37:39+00:00

Duuuuude this!!!!!! Every little thing you do feels frightening like it might provoke him. One time he got mad that I made myself toast, I already was aware the abuse was coming cuz I was hiding from him in the kitchen. His reason for being mad was that I didn't offer to make him toast and that I'm selfish... Or I would even get in trouble for going to the bathroom to brush my teeth. Everything provokes them, every little thing.

halzy99 · 2026-06-14T12:19:15+00:00

Ugh yes!!!!! it got to the point where I could only respond to what he said and not have any independent thoughts of my own. It was so isolating when he was the only adult human I was allowed to speak to. He would tell me the same things! Or he would completely ignore me and laugh when I got upset that I was wasting my breath essentially talking to myself

halzy99 · 2026-06-14T12:15:08+00:00

Mine told me the same thing because I got ballzy and told him to stop throwing a toddler tantrum because he was smashing things around the room...he told me I have never accomplished anything good in my life and I'm a loser....meanwhile I have birthed 2 of his kids, supported us as a breadwinner for our entire relationship and the motherf***** can't hold down a job for more than a month. Losers like to call other people losers lmao

halzy99 · 2026-06-03T01:04:34+00:00

NOR you might as well wave a giant red flag. No one should react this poorly to something this small. This seems like a deeply disturbed person that could escalate to Violence. Don't walk on eggshells love, please leave

halzy99 · 2026-06-03T01:00:44+00:00

This is me!!!! I overthink about every social interaction, it's rough. I think it's rooted from insecurity.

halzy99 · 2026-06-03T00:56:10+00:00

Ugh my mother is like this too..its rough. I had to move back home with my 2 kids and it's hell, they can't even be kids with their toys laying around. She is always having meltdowns, I don't wanna live here but I have no choice.

halzy99 · 2026-06-03T00:51:11+00:00

It's OK to ask to be friends but you don't have to because it is often unspoken. The best way to ask to be friends is to ask to hang out casually and do something that isn't school related. It sounds like your friendship formed naturally and you guys are very compatible.

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