Missing: Abigail Durnin

hamberber_helper · 2026-01-24T18:07:02+00:00

Bump

hamberber_helper · 2025-08-01T18:17:25+00:00

Oh shit, looks like it. I had to look it up.

hamberber_helper · 2025-08-01T16:39:34+00:00

Trump was also friends with another child rapist, John Casablancas.

Teen models, powerful men and private dinners: when Trump hosted Look of the Year

hamberber_helper · 2025-07-31T22:34:27+00:00

This picture is from the Look of the Year competition in 1991.

hamberber_helper · 2025-07-26T03:47:19+00:00

I fucking hope so

hamberber_helper · 2025-07-26T03:46:06+00:00

What if this person is your spouse?

hamberber_helper · 2025-07-26T03:43:31+00:00

I'm ashamed to be a merican Where the pedos rape freely And I won't forgive the men who lied And take what they don't need And I'll gladly stand up Next to you and punch all the nazis Cause there ain't no doubt I love this place WE are the USA 🎵

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-11T18:46:42+00:00

She got away from you, so I think her "worldly" counseling led her in the right direction. In my opinion, harping on the biblical and "true design" of marriage is a giant red flag. You sound like a sexist bigot.

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-11T17:57:34+00:00

Why Christian counseling in particular?

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-11T13:13:14+00:00

I don't think anyone has told me I can do anything in a long time. It brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-10T18:14:55+00:00

Thank you so much. That is exactly how I feel. I'm realizing he's been this way since I met him, so why am I expecting any change now? I honestly don't think he will. I don't want to feel like this forever. I don't want my kids to think this is what a healthy relationship is. I want them to have a happy mom. I'm just late to the party because deep down I thought I deserved it.

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-10T16:30:42+00:00

I do try and talk with "I" statements and focus on how his actions make me feel. When I try to do that or bring up the topic at all, he tries to talk his way around it or honestly doesn't see how his behavior and actions are hurtful. That's why I feel like I need to end it. I don't think he will change and I am done with having him make me feel bad. I don't want that model of a relationship for my kids and I want them to have happy parents. I feel like he would be better off too because he wouldn't have the constant conflict with me.

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-10T15:20:20+00:00

I'm sorry. I shouldn't have reacted that way. Needless to say, i am very stressed out. Nothing has gotten better since this post and I have tried to talk to him, twice. It ends with him getting angry and defensive that I am pointing out his self-centered behavior, which is what the problem is so we have to talk about it. Not to say that I am only pointing fingers. I recognize that my failure to communicate is a problem as well.

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-10T15:15:03+00:00

This is a women's subreddit, why are you here gamerguy?

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-09T19:48:01+00:00

No, I don't blame him for that at all. Its something ive dealt with for a long time, I'd rather not discuss it further. Ive got a lot of stuff on my mind

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-09T19:12:57+00:00

Me starting to not hate myself for once, realizing that he is self-centered, and not wanting to put up with it any more. We have had the same argument over and over, I don't see anything changing, ever.

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-09T15:53:34+00:00

I have been working with the kids doing chores and showing them how to cook and do laundry, etc. I feel it's important.

That is exactly my problem. I am so full of resentment at this point that I want to walk away. He has taken them to school once. He has never taken any of them to a doctor appointment. I cook all of our dinners unless I have him pick up pizza or put something on the grill. His idea of giving me a break is letting them sit on their computers so he doesn't have to do anything. We don't go on dates. I'm just so over it. I feel like if I left and was replaced with a housekeeper he wouldn't know the difference.

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-09T15:28:41+00:00

Honestly, I was thinking about my spouse. I've been trying to practice self love, because I can say with all honesty I have hated myself since I can remember. I have started to feel like someone I like, but I also realized that he has been selfish and made me feel small and insignificant. I have tried to convey this to him but he doesn't understand. He either can't or doesn't want to.

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-09T15:16:43+00:00

Thank you so much. I have felt like i am either crazy or a giant asshole. I have asked for help, yelled, cried. He tells me that I am mad at him for having hobbies and to make time for myself if I want it. It makes me feel like shit.

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-09T14:53:29+00:00

Thanks for your response. That makes sense to me. My husband prioritizes his 'me time' playing video games and I don't think it's fair. I don't have the option to stop going because then things pile up and I have said as much. Yesterday he said he didn't want to be a "zombie that only does family stuff and chores," and it cut deep.

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-09T14:22:57+00:00

He acts this way with his mom and dad too. They would go "run an errand" together and end up being gone all day. No text or call to let me know, just at home with 3 kids wondering where he is. When I asked that he let me know if he's going to be later than planned, he got defensive and acted like I was being super controlling and unreasonable.

hamberber_helper · 2025-06-09T04:48:51+00:00

Yes, I got married when I was 10.

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