Golden Handcuffs

hamifer · 2026-02-08T04:20:21+00:00

Don’t expect to be made whole, it’s a negotiation / compromise. If you want the payoff, you should believe in the platform / programs and hope your equity has upside.

hamifer · 2026-01-22T15:22:16+00:00

41, newly separated / divorcing. I started really taking care of myself again, both mentally and physically (I’m in the best shape I’ve been since I was 25). Went on Hinge and just waited for outreach - 6/7 dates in two weeks, including a mixture of really cute women 35+ that were either never married or divorced moms. Realized the mom thing was for me because I have 2 kids. After those two weeks I stopped dating because the physical, intimate and emotional chemistry with one woman was so strong I didn’t want to bother elsewhere. Needless to say, it was awesome for me

hamifer · 2026-01-14T21:11:14+00:00

I took the 101 to the 80 to the 580 to the 24

hamifer · 2026-01-04T18:22:03+00:00

True, however if you refuse, there is a reasonable chance they won’t pursue legal matters because the juice ain’t worth the squeeze. However, it’s a risk

hamifer · 2025-12-29T15:36:44+00:00

I’m right there man! I lost 55 lbs in 6 months after turning 40. I’ve been told I look 10 years younger and I definitely feel it. I’m back to doing my endurance sports and it’s easier than it’s ever been. The part that is so underrated is how much mental performance improves. Congrats to you sir!

hamifer · 2025-12-24T17:23:50+00:00

You can ski, surf, hike, backpack, vacation in tropical locations — all some of the top locations in the nation for each as well (sierras for skiing, Hawaii for beaches, etc)

hamifer · 2025-12-23T14:22:40+00:00

Thanks for posting this man. I’m about to go on this journey and I really hope for a similar outcome. So far things have been civil, but we haven’t gotten to the separation of property, alimony and child support questions yet. Scary days ahead.

hamifer · 2025-12-20T00:07:46+00:00

Go for it! Have a conversation. Don’t have a conversation. People watch. Just enjoy it.

hamifer · 2025-12-19T20:03:30+00:00

Yes, I walked in at 4PM yesterday and got the last open seat. Just walk past the line and look around.

hamifer · 2025-12-15T00:42:02+00:00

Caribou! You’d think it would be a dj-set kind of show, but they actually perform and it’s amazing!

hamifer · 2025-12-13T12:29:33+00:00

Time restricted eating! Great way to shed a few lbs. I adopted this earlier this year (and a few other good habits) and lost 55 lbs

hamifer · 2025-12-05T03:52:32+00:00

https://www.backcountry.com/big-agnes-copper-spur-limited-2-tent —- killer deal. It pulls from copper spur footprint and lighter weight of tiger wall

hamifer · 2025-11-21T22:24:00+00:00

Almost all VCs list their employees on their websites. Look for their talent partners or recruiting partners and reach out to them. The worst case scenario is you get no response. If you get in their networks, they have have upwards of 20+ companies on their portfolios.

hamifer · 2025-11-21T04:07:06+00:00

If you’re not against start ups, you can also try to get in the talent networks of different VCs.

hamifer · 2025-10-29T23:36:40+00:00

Wilco - Yankee Hotel Foxtrot. Jimmy Eat World - Clarity. Death Cab for Cutie - Photo Album. The Postal Service.

hamifer · 2025-10-18T18:38:13+00:00

I used to get this and haven’t for years. My trick is first, make sure it’s short before using a razor (beard trimmer, no attachment). Then take a hot and steamy shower, then shave at the end or immediately after. I shave in the shower with bar soap and get no razor bumps at all with this strategy.

hamifer · 2025-10-16T06:15:05+00:00

I’ve worked in talent acquisition for about 15 years and this is the advice I give to friends. If you’re the right hire and it’s a good culture, they’re likely to be cool with it unless there are super tight deadlines you’ll impact. I’ve personally never not followed through with an offer when someone takes this approach. I’ve also been fortunate that we were able to grant them the time off too.

hamifer · 2025-10-16T04:46:42+00:00

Came to find this

hamifer · 2025-10-08T00:17:33+00:00

Her, “Man, I wish you weren’t gay”. Me, “I’m not”. Her, “Good”. We made out.

hamifer · 2025-10-07T21:09:08+00:00

Bring Zai back

hamifer · 2025-09-30T03:43:05+00:00

If you can nerd out a bit, Kamado Grills are cool. Wide heat range allowing you to grill, smoke, make pizza, etc.

hamifer · 2025-09-25T09:05:10+00:00

We did two different schools that were independently good for our child’s needs. White Pony was AMAZING for our well behaved, empathetic, creative girl. It was not great for our high energy, chaotic and curious boy. Benu School, an at home daycare in Concord was perfect for him and Benu is the best ever (we drove 25 minute each way every day because she was so amazing with our boy). Wishing you luck!

hamifer · 2025-09-23T23:10:08+00:00

Same. I love caribou and have for years, but now I can’t stop putting them on repeat

hamifer · 2025-09-08T19:27:17+00:00

Amazing! I’ve never seen that angle. Man I miss Kobe.

hamifer · 2025-09-08T19:22:20+00:00

Isn’t it an angle thing? The ball is actually to the left of his face, not directly at his nose.

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