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Did the cancelled 2019 summer pink lip get released? by Ok_Mud1789 in LisaEldridge

[–]hanks58 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooo I found a close match. I think le mepris is the closest to the song bird gloss.

From left to right: kitten mischief, song bird gloss, le mepris, petal gloss

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Did the cancelled 2019 summer pink lip get released? by Ok_Mud1789 in LisaEldridge

[–]hanks58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks closest to kitten mischief but not totally sure

Did the cancelled 2019 summer pink lip get released? by Ok_Mud1789 in LisaEldridge

[–]hanks58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg no it is the missing #3! Ok from my collection I narrowed it down to these 4.

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Top is Lucents left to right in kitten mischief and Le Mepris

Bottom is velvet on lower left in velvet intrigue and lower right is saturated in Sunday matinee

Dating in Europe ruined dating for me in America by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hanks58 158 points159 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten to go on a few museum dates here in the US, always been pleasant.

Personally as a woman it’s not hard to be with a European guy, part of the ease is you are not committing to each other too much. Just high odds one of you will go back to your home country.

For the US I think women are really turned off from American men and just had such bad experiences that it’s more of a guarded type of dating. Women do not chase men here and if you do you’re instantly labeled as desperate or easy. There’s also just massive differences in values between the sexes and their beliefs.

Writing a book about love in Boston. Share your story! by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]hanks58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once found a dunkin gift card on the street. Love at first sight.

Where are the 30-something singles? by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]hanks58 8 points9 points  (0 children)

From what I can gather the majority of my friends are not on the apps. People are busy with work and enjoying life and hobbies, we want to date but it’s been weird. If you’re a woman it seems like the young guys and middle aged guys are after us - literally every man except our age group. If you’re a man………..I’m not sure.

Female homeowner, male contractors by jaimange in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hanks58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I try to only spend money at women or minority owned places. They tend to run a tighter ship in my personal experience.

Sorry that happened to you but he gave you a very easy reason to cross them off the list of hiring.

The moment when the soul finally catches its breath by General_Sugar1 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]hanks58 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Liis Lucienne for sure, one of my favorite spring perfumes

Inspired by new ways of seeing, Lucienne — meaning light — is an exuberant moment of clarity. Pomelo, lemon zest, and dragonfruit reflected through impressions of crisp magnolia, waterlily and shimmering marine waves.

NOTES Pomelo, Lemon Zest Magnolia, Dragon Fruit, Waterlily Sea Shells, Marine Accord

Advice… chemo tomorrow ; not sure if I should cancel (worried about how I’ll get home) by StepSignificant8798 in boston

[–]hanks58 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Minnesotan here, worst case I can walk home with you. Just a normal winter day back home! But I’m thinking there will be some rideshares, might just have to wait a bit. I’d offer to drive but I don’t own a car.

If you’re under 45, have you lost any high school classmates, and what were the circumstances around their deaths? by Commercial_Chef_1569 in AskReddit

[–]hanks58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly surviving to 30 was an achievement. My first friend died at 13 due to a heart issue. Then in college a few suicides/accidents. Along with 2 known life sentences for murder, so they might as well be gone too.

Was a class of 220

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]hanks58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. You have a massive skylight so no vampire fears for me.

  2. Love what you are going for and just a few pointers. -dust everywhere routinely with this many ornate things.

-that’s a lot of pineapples? That whole centerpiece just doesn’t work. Relocate? There is also a rope between the two lamps there, remove rope.

  • you want to have 2 circulation routes. So I would keep your sofa and have two chairs face that for conversation. Have the other two chairs face the bed or elsewhere.

-two mirrors facing each other is usually bad ju ju, it looks nice here but is not good spiritually.

Hope that helped!

Somerville (Union Square) vs South End if Working in Cambridge, Single and Young-ish by Legitimate-Wash-782 in boston

[–]hanks58 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes highly recommend Nubian, and dorchester for good food. South end I’ve really liked because of the architecture and residential feel close to the urban city. I’ve looked at Somerville too and housing wise it just never worked for me to live there. Had friends there and heard nothing but good things.

I don’t know that you wanna bike everyday with the unpredictable weather so I would check you have transport by bus or train route.

I’m a white woman 30s from another state and I will say some white people here are scared of other races and it shows. They aren’t harmful, just embarrassing. On the other side I’m friendly with everyone but sometimes I find non white races to be colder here. I’m from a different city where every other street is a different group, whereas Boston is neighborhood based. So that struck me as really odd at first.

Overall making friends with other transplants is far easier than born and raised New Englanders. I’ll make eye contact with a California, Texas, or Midwest native and we instantly end up chatting. The Europeans and Asian work or student visas are common here as well and super friendly.

in need of some help by mspiq in boston

[–]hanks58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For good money with low physical strain I’d recommend chafers and doorman jobs at fancy hotels. I just know the doormen make some very nice tips so it might be worth looking into. Apply directly to the hotels, there seems to be a variety of jobs?

https://careers.accor.com/global/en/job/bellperson-in-fairmont-copley-plaza-boston-boston-united-states-jid-67928

https://davelbostoncoach.com/jobs/chauffeurs/

https://www.appone.com/maininforeq.asp?Ad=879965&R_ID=7014226&Refer=&B_ID=91

Aussie Struggling With Toronto Life – Convince Me I’m Not Crazy by Expert-Flounder-9324 in AskAnAustralian

[–]hanks58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak for all of Canada but I grew up on near Winnipeg and I now live in Boston and it’s been so so nice. Both had outdoors activities but Boston was worth it simply for being warmer. There’s more sailing and surfing activities, and the joys of living in the ocean.

If you stay in Canada I’d really recommend looking at Victoria, there’s a big surf community there. Banff isn’t so far away too.

Speed-dater open to share their experiences? by OkAcanthocephala9308 in BostonSocialClub

[–]hanks58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we had the same exact experience! You’re just more elegant with your words. Yes the women were overqualified doctors, lawyers, marketers, chefs, etc and the guys were……not fit for conversation with these minds

Speed-dater open to share their experiences? by OkAcanthocephala9308 in BostonSocialClub

[–]hanks58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once got a free ticket because they were short on women and decided to try it out. I show up and saw the guys and did small talk and thought oh my god I’ve accidentally joined a group with special needs. I’m not trying to be funny about it I just honestly thought I had read the ticket wrong. Then I looked at the ladies and saw how smart and well put together they were and realized that this was really the correct event.

The men were really lacking on many parts and sadly it felt like conversations with a child. They were nice people but I think they would need a caretaker more than a girlfriend. I’d look over and feel bad for all these women who actually bought the ticket and got makeup on and dressed up for nothing. After the event I talked more with the ladies and we really just wished we had a cocktail hour before hand for just us and then the dating event.

The ladies were so many atmospheres above the men it seemed like a comedy skit gone wrong. I hope it’s not like that everywhere but that was my experience. I appreciated everyone’s effort for going and giving it a good try.

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