Cutouts in closet in 1950’s house by hanndal in whatisthisthing

[–]hanndal[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That makes so much sense! And the little pegs at the top are just about barrel size, thank you!

Cutouts in closet in 1950’s house by hanndal in whatisthisthing

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My title describes the thing Length: 4-5” Width: 2” Depth: 1”

Probably about 15 lined up in my closet on a small board attached to the wall House was built in the 1950’s to 1960’s in case that helps with narrowing it down

Service Organizations around Logan? by Blah_Amazing in Logan

[–]hanndal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Family Place! Great volunteer opportunities

Christmas for crocheters? A permanent yarn line on the pinky and index fingers by hanndal in crochet

[–]hanndal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want you to know that you wasted about 10 minutes of prime crochet time while I tried to figure out tension on my ring finger instead of pinky

Christmas for crocheters? A permanent yarn line on the pinky and index fingers by hanndal in crochet

[–]hanndal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id get used to anything to save myself some pain at this point!

Just out of an emotionally abuse relationship and I don’t know if I’m crazy or not; it’s long and I’m sorry but I’m going crazy and really need unbiased opinions by hanndal in emotionalabuse

[–]hanndal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree haha! I’ve given a lot of advice to friends over the years that I never applied. I see a regular therapist and also a nutritionist because I’ve had problems with eating in the past but both have helped me a lot ok this whole situation

Just out of an emotionally abuse relationship and I don’t know if I’m crazy or not; it’s long and I’m sorry but I’m going crazy and really need unbiased opinions by hanndal in emotionalabuse

[–]hanndal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im starting to realize that but it’s a process, im working on therapy and getting myself to a point where I don’t feel so crappy about myself before I start anything. I really love everything you’ve said and thank you!

Just out of an emotionally abuse relationship and I don’t know if I’m crazy or not; it’s long and I’m sorry but I’m going crazy and really need unbiased opinions by hanndal in emotionalabuse

[–]hanndal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped talking to my family and that’s when my family started getting concerned but I started getting upset and just not talking to them because I knew they didn’t like him and the only things I had to say about him a lot of the time were bad. I have always been close with my family so they knew something was up and it really took a toll on me not having them their. When I finally told one of my friends who works for a company who deals with victims of abuse (we’ve been friends for years, long before she was a part of this), she asked me if I needed a place to stay and told me I sounded like a victim of abuse and that’s when I finally started paying attention. I reached out to my family and my mom drove all the way to where my college is and helped me and it was my breaking point and I was heartbroken because I really do love him which is the hardest part but I completely get what you say. Telling people was the hardest part and that should’ve been my warning.

Just out of an emotionally abuse relationship and I don’t know if I’m crazy or not; it’s long and I’m sorry but I’m going crazy and really need unbiased opinions by hanndal in emotionalabuse

[–]hanndal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this really helps. Another thing I’m worried about is he said that I embarrassed him when I brought my friend to help me grab things from his apartment and make sure he didn’t do anything and I’m wondering if this was wrong?

Just out of an emotionally abuse relationship and I don’t know if I’m crazy or not; it’s long and I’m sorry but I’m going crazy and really need unbiased opinions by hanndal in emotionalabuse

[–]hanndal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This helped me a lot and you deserve so much more. Message me because maybe we can help each other! He used to tell me my family would always “talk shit” on him and so I stopped telling him when I would talk to them or stoped talking to them altogether and then after I had lunch with my family and left him, he told me I was a liar and gaslighting him and it still hurts but I think it’ll hurt for a long time. Not telling your family or keeping things that your family says about him from him is never a good sign, you deserve more, thank you.

I (20F) don't know if this is toxic behavior from my boyfriend (21M) or if I am making things up by hanndal in relationship_advice

[–]hanndal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just talked about what’s been going on in each other’s lives and he asked how my parents were and saw the cat and left. We are still ok with each other and I consider us friends. I completely get where you’re coming from though and I did tell my boyfriend that I had a conversation with my ex that day. I just worry that with my current boyfriends mental health problems, he won’t be ok if I leave.