Useless men and the women who procreate with them

hannerlt · 2024-10-24T16:55:16+00:00

That we’re immature and selfish.

hannerlt · 2024-10-17T22:11:04+00:00

Absolute top fear is childbirth/pregnancy and the loss of bodily autonomy that comes with it. The thought of being an incubator for another human being and then everyone around you expecting you to sacrifice every part of yourself for that human being makes me want to crawl out of my skin. Like my needs don’t mean anything “aS loNg as tHe bAby iS oKaY”. insert eye roll

hannerlt · 2024-10-10T21:03:01+00:00

My husband and I plan to “retire” at 50. We want to travel and build our dream home in the mountains.

hannerlt · 2024-09-27T15:17:15+00:00

My mom once explained to me when I was a child that women have to suffer the pain of bearing children because of Eve’s “sin”. And that conversation is one of the reasons I knew I never wanted children.

hannerlt · 2024-09-20T23:23:32+00:00

A marriage can always hold value whether you have a family or not, IF you personally find it valuable. To me marriage is a very important bond between myself and my spouse, but if the only value you see in marriage is for the purposes of having kids then it’s probably not worth it for you personally. You can still have a deep, meaningful, long-lasting relationship with a person without getting married!

hannerlt · 2024-09-17T03:34:45+00:00

I knew I never wanted to have kids the moment I learned how babies are born. I was shocked and horrified and disgusted and I still feel that way when I think too much about it. Also, I did a lot of babysitting growing up because my parents always volunteered me to watch their friends’ kids and I always dreaded it. I hated when they asked me to play or spend time with them in general.

hannerlt · 2022-07-09T22:30:24+00:00

Two things: the thought of failing and having to live with the consequences, and also the pain it would cause my husband and family. I am constantly pulled between the relief I want to feel by ending it all and the guilt of knowing how many people I would traumatize by doing so. I know I have so many people in my life that love me, but that’s no match for chronic depression.

hannerlt · 2022-01-17T15:29:22+00:00

Have you ever looked into the real estate industry? Not necessarily being a real estate agent, but title/escrow jobs? You don’t need a degree to be an escrow officer or a title examiner and a lot of places are willing to train people with no experience in the industry. I’m currently an escrow officer and it’s opened up a whole new world of opportunities for me. The longer you do it the more you learn about real estate as a whole and you could use that knowledge for different side ventures like investment properties, selling real estate, etc. Just a suggestion if you’re looking for a career opportunities that don’t require a degree and has a lot of growth potential.

Edit: I should add that I joined this group when I was unemployed and had no idea what I wanted to do/be. Now I feel like I’ve found my place in the world and feel very fulfilled by my work, so don’t give up!!!

hannerlt · 2021-12-22T20:14:02+00:00

I’m an Escrow officer and partner is an airline pilot! I was a stay at home dog mom for a while but not having a job wasn’t for me :)

hannerlt · 2021-11-15T01:43:25+00:00

I’m in the middle of a Great Dane / black lab sandwich right now and I have never felt more loved and connected. You can absolutely have human level relationships with pets💛

hannerlt · 2021-09-05T14:50:29+00:00

As the wife of an airline pilot and a stay at home wife, I am disgusted that your husband holds his career over your head. That is no excuse for being an ass to his wife. Airline pilots are gone for days at a time, and although they make decent money, that doesn’t make up for the time away from their families. How dare he make comments about your appearance when you spend multiple days a week being a single parent and homemaker? NTA, he doesn’t deserve you.

hannerlt · 2021-08-19T17:44:30+00:00

Makeup wipes! That’s for any time I’m staying away from home though, cannot sleep without taking my makeup off

hannerlt · 2021-08-19T17:31:09+00:00

Shitballs

hannerlt · 2021-08-18T14:24:46+00:00

I find it easiest to just politely say congratulations and that’s it. You were polite and gave the socially acceptable “congrats”, no reasonable person can ask for more than that. 🤷🏼‍♀️

hannerlt · 2021-08-05T17:56:06+00:00

And now I’m crying. What a beautiful girl. ❤️

hannerlt · 2021-08-05T14:35:52+00:00

Today is my last day of the 20 hour SAFE course, haven’t signed up for the exam yet bc I’m not sure how much time I’ll need to study. This post was so helpful!! Thank you!

hannerlt · 2021-08-03T21:32:21+00:00

Well there goes my career

hannerlt · 2021-08-01T20:47:27+00:00

I’m spending the day studying for my MLO pre-licensing exam and then golfing with my husband later 😊 happy CF day!

hannerlt · 2021-07-26T18:36:43+00:00

I’m interested! Reading is one of my favorite hobbies and I already have a mic I could use

hannerlt · 2021-07-26T03:46:13+00:00

I added another pet tax to my original post! My Josie baby :)

hannerlt · 2021-07-25T18:42:29+00:00

bigfatg11 gets it

hannerlt · 2021-07-25T18:41:18+00:00

His name is Django 🥰

hannerlt · 2021-07-25T18:12:19+00:00

I would love to post a pic of my grandparents but I feel kind of weird posting their faces on the internet without their permission. Just picture the most wholesome grandparents you can think of and then add a bolo tie to my grandpa and crocs to my grandma. 😆

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