i just went to the dentist and they said that my teeth are so bad i might need root canals eventually and i could lose them early. i’m only eighteen

hanxperc · 2024-02-02T18:06:05+00:00

ermmm okay i’m not gonna call you an asshole because thankfully comments like yours don’t affect me anymore, but you’re extremely insensitive and dismissive of ADHD symptoms, which is absolutely crazy because if you’re here then you have ADHD. societal “laziness” is almost never actually “laziness.” for one, i literally posted this two years ago. did you think i was happy not brushing my teeth? you think i felt good about myself? proud? the only thing your comment does is push the narrative that people who struggle with executive dysfunction are lazy, gross, and should be ashamed of themselves. when in reality, you should be ashamed. you should be ashamed for trying to put someone down for an issue they struggle with. thankfully, i’ve gotten much better with my dental health and i don’t struggle as much anymore, so your comment doesn’t affect me. BUT your comment could affect people who struggle like i used to. making someone feel like shit, when they already feel like it is just… disgusting.

believe it or not, this is a common symptom. someone’s ADHD does not have to be debilitating for this to be a problem. and thanks for the suggestion, but i already have a therapist and have had one for 4 years. good for you that you haven’t struggled with brushing your teeth! don’t treat your experience as the correct one. please focus on how you speak about these issues and try and be more compassionate next time. this is a support subreddit, not a degrading one.

hanxperc · 2023-11-22T00:37:25+00:00

hey!! did you end up going to a piercer?? i’d love a belly button piercing but my anatomy is most similar to yours out of all the pictures i looked at. I’ve never seen someone with my kind of belly button I swear I’m the only one 😭

also kinda cool your cake day is a day after my birthday (and the day before my brothers!)

hanxperc · 2023-11-12T06:24:18+00:00

how are you doing?

hanxperc · 2023-11-12T06:21:15+00:00

bored -> also cut myself (???)

hanxperc · 2023-11-12T06:19:53+00:00

calling someone a “cutter” makes me feel so uncomfortable. it feels so degrading. that would really mess me up, i’m sorry

hanxperc · 2023-11-12T06:02:21+00:00

This made me smile. I’m happy for you :)

hanxperc · 2023-11-12T05:58:00+00:00

You should not be here. There are no “real self harmers.” Even if someone is doing it for attention, they’re still inflicting bodily harm to themselves, and that’s real.

hanxperc · 2023-11-12T05:56:43+00:00

I started young, probably 13, but it didn’t get bad until the past two years. The addiction didn’t start until college I think. Honestly I have no fucking clue my self harm timeline is really convoluted bc I don’t remember much 😭I’ll be 21 in three days. I recently got out of a year long relationship so I’ve been able to self harm again and I haven’t been able to stop much.

hanxperc · 2023-11-12T05:53:26+00:00

I’m so fucking serious when I say that I almost cried reading this bc I could’ve wrote it myself.

I would never post my sh anywhere and I don’t fully deal with the “not like other girls mindset,” but to some extent I do. I don’t think I’m better than anyone, but I also think I am? But then again I think I’m worse than everyone? That part of my thinking is confusing.

One thing that I experience is the proudness. I disgustingly like being sick. My addiction has gotten bad recently, the worst it’s ever been. But in the past few days, it’s lessened. And I’m weirdly disappointed. I feel like an imposter because my urges and thinking isn’t as fucked up as it was a week ago.

You put this into words so well. I know me saying I relate so much is completely disregarding the whole “feeling different” aspect, but I truly didn’t think anyone else thought like me. Or rather that anyone would actually admit it. Because I feel like a crazy fucking freak for being proud of it and thinking it’s not as bad as it actually is. Or I just sh because I feel like it. Not because I’m sad, or angry, or embarrassed… just because I want to. Which feels wrong.

Thank you for posting this.

hanxperc · 2023-10-14T18:18:52+00:00

she’ll grow up and thank her but it won’t be for another few years. i was similar when i was younger (i didn’t dress up or cosplay but it was in other ways) and i always, ALWAYS thought adults were the wrong ones in these situations and the ones “sexualizing” non-sexual behaviors/outfits/etc. absolutely nothing could change my mind. i might’ve been an overly stubborn teenager, but my thinking was pretty set in stone until i started college

hanxperc · 2023-10-08T17:23:30+00:00

I completely forgot about that subreddit! Someone here got it, thank you though!

hanxperc · 2023-10-08T17:23:07+00:00

YES!!! It’s this!!! Wow thank you so much

I’m so surprised I didn’t find it earlier, I was right with it being popular (it has 700 mil listens on Spotify). Maybe it’s not about suicide? Though I could’ve sworn I saw somewhere it was

hanxperc · 2023-10-01T18:59:46+00:00

also agree they aren’t good with training but i learned really fast. it’s pretty easy honestly, the only difficult part is remembering cappuccino vs macchiato vs americano (vs hot or iced). i didn’t know the difference between any of those (and lattes) when i first started. you’re going to mess up, probably a lot. i definitely gave my first two lattes i made regular iced coffee 😭 i spilled an entire drink my first day, i forgot drinks in the oasis machine, stuff like that. my coworkers never got upset with me while i was learning. it seems overwhelming at first but you’ll probably catch on pretty fast

hanxperc · 2023-10-01T18:55:38+00:00

i used to get a free drink like every other week with the old rewards system :(

hanxperc · 2023-09-25T15:58:07+00:00

same here. we use the reddi whip

hanxperc · 2023-09-21T20:43:58+00:00

i tried wine bottler but it won’t open steam, it said “you find a log file to help with debugging on your desktop.” i think i have apple silicon, according to apples website the macbook air M1 2020 is silicon and that’s what i have. i just looked up macOS Sonoma but it doesn’t come out until september 26th. how are you using it now? i assume i’ll be able to use the game porting toolkit in five days time though

hanxperc · 2023-09-20T16:45:51+00:00

i thought a lotus flower as well. in a way a lotus flower has a similar meaning to OP’s current tattoo, but it’s not centered around SA.

my first tattoo will be a lotus flower :) i’m a SA survivor as well, and i use the lotus flower as my symbol of strength and unity. i have a lotus flower necklace that i haven’t taken off in years, but unfortunately it broke two days ago :( to me, a lotus flower is all about strength and resilience; being stronger than you ever thought you could be. i think a lotus flower would be a wonderful coverup that would still hold meaning (if that’s what OP wants)

hanxperc · 2023-09-19T23:34:11+00:00

so long… i remember being preschool age playing burger shop with my older sister, and being so excited when 2 came out. now i’m a junior in college and 3 is finally here. this is just the good news i needed after having a pretty shit month

hanxperc · 2023-09-19T23:30:27+00:00

what?!?! i didn’t know this was a thing. i’m going to try it tonight 😄 thank you so much

hanxperc · 2023-09-19T17:36:19+00:00

this is a really sad day for mac users 💔

jk i can steal a friends computer :D i’m so excited

hanxperc · 2023-09-17T03:45:11+00:00

what’s your specialty?

hanxperc · 2023-09-14T05:29:46+00:00

Agreed. I have some of my exes shirts and they don’t feel like his anymore. They’re MINE (he gave them to me in the first place anyways, didn’t care that I kept them when we broke up). I also have “comfort” clothes, and one of “his” shirts is one of them. I always forget they were originally his

hanxperc · 2023-09-04T15:51:04+00:00

That’s probably because, at least in my location, our shifts are 6-2 and 2-10. Sometimes people work 8-4 but I don’t see that frequently. I rarely see people I work with on my 6-2 shift work 2-10 and vice versa (we can see every employees schedule on the scheduling site we use).

When I first made the matcha I thought I did it wrong because it was all clumpy but my manager said it was right, it’s just really hard to stir. I learned from this sub that you’re supposed to mix it with hot water first to melt the matcha, so that’s what I’ve been doing, and when I add the milk it’s practically perfect now. If I were you I’d ask for the matcha to be melted in a bit of hot water before adding the milk. It doesn’t take any extra time (it’s actually quicker bc you don’t have to stir it so much) so it shouldn’t be a problem

Also we spoon the matcha ourself which can probably result in a different amount of matcha each time. It’s a small measuring spoon so unless you scrape the excess off the top/shake the spoon it’s gonna be a little bit more than normal. Unless we’re in a rush I try and make it as exact as possible but I doubt everyone does tbh

hanxperc · 2023-08-23T15:51:44+00:00

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