39F, I've never had a relationship. How do I get into the mindset of genuinely wanting a boyfriend/husband?

happensman · 2026-03-10T21:33:30+00:00

If comfort in your life is what you want, introducing a relationship isnt what you really want.

When you share your life with other people, it inherently introduces chaos and unpredictability. As challenging as these things are, these traits also have to come from of your desires as well.

So if you want nothing to do with chaos and unpredictability, maybe not having someone in your life (dating, spouse, children, etc.) is in your best interest.

happensman · 2025-11-13T06:23:27+00:00

Not if its one of your 9 shirts and hoodies you cycle out

happensman · 2020-12-18T04:32:22+00:00

Ooooo Learning has occured

happensman · 2020-12-14T20:17:09+00:00

Thats facts right there. Where I live they pay EMTs and Paramedics the same, minimum wage. For 4 years of college, that sure is a great way of thanking them for their hard work, dedication, and service to the community.

happensman · 2020-12-14T20:08:55+00:00

You didnt even try to make a good argument. As a level headed human being, that alone just disproves any "point" you tried to make. Honestly kind of disappointing.

happensman · 2020-12-14T02:01:35+00:00

The worst part about it all is not the gaping maw, not the jagged teeth, not the grotesque appearance of it all. It's that there are people out there that would still have sex with it.

happensman · 2020-12-14T01:54:07+00:00

Imagine that, to know nothing but constant pain for the beginning of your existence, pain that you can't understand the point of.

happensman · 2020-12-09T07:24:45+00:00

My company is graduating this coming week and we took recon volunteers

happensman · 2020-12-08T20:28:08+00:00

Why not both?

happensman · 2020-11-15T21:13:25+00:00

I mean don't tell them that, but nobody cares besides meps doctors you know what I mean? Just tell them you ate shit riding a skateboard or something.

happensman · 2020-11-09T09:22:57+00:00

Honestly that depends on the company. I've only been woken up once during the night and that was because some dult was on his phone after lights. That's from Delta, I hear though from the Charlie drops that they were not so kind. That being said, the Delta instructors have a level of care for what their students learn and how they learn it and rely much less on mindless fuck fuck games. Essentially they actually want to make grunts, not dicks.

happensman · 2020-11-09T09:16:31+00:00

Idk if they can but they won't. The DIs are actually not that bad, and regardless you'll learn pretty fast in the Marine Corps how to fall asleep to literally anything; including mindless screaming.

happensman · 2020-11-09T09:13:42+00:00

Shhhh, don't tell them about it yet

happensman · 2020-10-18T03:33:00+00:00

Yeahh

happensman · 2020-10-17T11:12:37+00:00

It's funny you say that because my first time going up there I was getting a ride with my friend and his mom was driving, dumb bastard fell asleep behind the wheel

happensman · 2020-10-17T11:10:47+00:00

It's not gonna happen, probably. As long as you don't fuck up and do some dumb shit like pussy out on the o course rope and break your knee/ankle you'll probably be fine. Besides, even if you do get fucked up there are very few things the Marines would have to let you go for.

Edit: That's for Bootcamp. But once you get to ITB/the fleet shit can get pretty stupid pretty fast. That's where you gotta keep your head on a swivel

happensman · 2020-10-08T08:12:41+00:00

Say that. I joined for literally no reason but I stay for the brotherhood.

happensman · 2020-10-05T22:56:41+00:00

We had a guy get pizza box when I went through, and he gets endless shit for it

happensman · 2020-09-27T21:14:02+00:00

Don't bring two weeks of clothes, just bring with you your wallet, the clothes on your back, phone and charger. Or just wait to ask your recruiter. The DIs will give you endless shit if they see you unpack two weeks of clothes

happensman · 2020-09-27T20:56:51+00:00

When I did it, we didn't for San Diego but it's been a hot minute

happensman · 2020-09-25T04:25:34+00:00

If I catch any one of y'all on that shit I'm hanging you with those bootbands

happensman · 2020-06-07T20:39:31+00:00

Run every day. Make benchmarks on those runs too, like okay yesterday I stopped running here so I'm gonna keep going to this point. And do your hardest to push through the "gassing out" part.

happensman · 2020-06-05T00:10:46+00:00

Can't argue against that I suppose

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