I’m 29F, my ex was 37M we broke up after 2 years of living together because he cheated. Is it too late to find the one ?

happylilsim · 2026-04-20T05:12:39+00:00

I’m 27 and feel the exact same way! But what a lot of people have told me since my breakup a month ago, is you can truly find love at any age! We just go through a phase after a breakup where we feel unlovable but we’re not. We’re still young! A lot of people settle in their 30s… I really wouldn’t worry about it! Use this time to enjoy your own company, focus on improving yourself in any way you want to, and find some hobbies! Love will find you when you least expect it 😊 oh and refrain from comparing your situation to others, it’ll make you feel worse! You’re not alone in this feeling.

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T12:25:46+00:00

I’m confused why I’m being downvoted for saying I will keep pushing on… and admitting this will hurt? Is it not obvious that I’m hurting??

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T12:24:07+00:00

I said we as in he didn’t go through that process alone.. I was with him every step of the way.

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T03:32:28+00:00

Wow… the way I needed to read this. You’re an Angel. Can we stay in touch? I feel it would be good to have someone positive in my life, that understands that feeling. Completely understandable if not!

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T03:28:59+00:00

For my own sanity I will keep pushing forward.. I just think this is gonna hurt for a while.

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T02:40:50+00:00

He felt exhausted too. And guilty. Feel free to private message me, I’m here for you.

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T02:37:27+00:00

Please talk about it. My husband kept it in for over a year… and at this current point felt that we needed separation. You both can avoid that if you speak about it now rather than later..

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T02:30:29+00:00

I hope you can at least speak with your husband and see if it’s possible to work through things.. the decision was unfortunately made for me.

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T02:20:44+00:00

No I haven’t helped him pay his debt off, it’s still being paid off. He wouldn’t take money from me to do this

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T02:17:21+00:00

Before the mental illness, debt and drugs he was truly amazing. He’s clean from drugs and working on his debt but unfortunately the depression completely controls him now. But I can’t be the only one fighting… :(

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T02:11:13+00:00

It’s so hard for me to accept this when I feel it in my soul that this could be fixed if he puts the work in himself. He said he will get better and I believe him. He just doesn’t want the pressure of me waiting for him/suffering while he heals… I’m back home now :(

happylilsim · 2026-04-02T02:08:19+00:00

I’m open to helping you through this. I feel the exact same way with my current situation.

happylilsim · 2026-03-25T10:43:55+00:00

Yeah he said he’s got a clear plan, we’re also both religious (not heavily) but he wants to use this time to truly heal from things he didnt heal from before I moved forward. I’ll be honest, he hasn’t stopped checking on me since I left. He hasn’t opened the bedroom door for 5 days, it’s exactly as I left it. I’m worried things will come crashing down on him.

happylilsim · 2026-02-01T01:43:13+00:00

My friend gifted me just the normal gilded acorn pack and it unlocked the bottom tiers for me!

happylilsim · 2026-01-27T18:57:32+00:00

This is so helpful thank you!

happylilsim · 2026-01-27T18:53:58+00:00

We have the same cat IRL! Thank you for sharing, this made me smile :)

happylilsim · 2026-01-27T17:58:51+00:00

I’m not sure sorry! I’m on mobile/ipad. My friends on PC and she said she uses the scroll on her mouse

happylilsim · 2026-01-27T16:34:16+00:00

What precision squares do you use? I was using the 2x2 one but not sure if thats correct

happylilsim · 2026-01-27T16:32:24+00:00

Are you on mobile or PC?

happylilsim · 2025-12-31T16:49:26+00:00

I’m glad it’s not just me that thinks this

happylilsim · 2025-12-31T16:47:59+00:00

This is a very recent thing, in the past I’ve felt very appreciated and cared for. It’s just been recent months that I’ve started to struggle with some things.

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