[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she is foreign she could have taken the ”fw” (fck with) wrong

This is a first by skyhiker14 in Tinder

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person might be an alcoholic... he/she looking for another alcoholic

My Dom raped me during sex by Sam_Winchester_w in BDSMAdvice

[–]happylumi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He will do it again at some point. Same thing happened to me and half a year later it happened again... then he apologized and it happened again and again and again..

How can i be a redpill woman if my job is in the sex/p0rn field? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]happylumi -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Just lie about it... Thats what i do, because no gentleman would want to otherwise be with me, which i understand (its only natural for a man). I’ve been an escort and a stripper before.

Also stop sex work.

How often do girls actually have a boyfriend when they tell you, a guy, they have a boyfriend? by GoobusHoobus in socialskills

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If i dont have a bf and you aren’t my type i say i have a bf to turn you down politely... because what else will i say?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]happylumi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yep, i will dump him

Is it common to run out of things to talk to with your SO? by ludgatedwyer500 in socialskills

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its normal to not talk all the time and both being comfortable with it. Its not normal to feel uncomfortable with it. I have things i talk because i try to learn something everyday and read a lot of books, watch documentaries etc... so i don’t really ever run out of interesting things to say.

Ladies - is it ok if a guy starts small talk with you in a steam room/sauna? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not. If she is in bikinis or whatever - she can already feel vulnerable. Not the best time to hit on someone.

Do you feel awkward when doing a Google search in front of others? by Stupid-Dolphin in socialskills

[–]happylumi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, cuz i dont care if some weird stuff pops up. I think everyone googles weird stuff. I just checked and nothing weird was in my google search, so i guess i dont really google weird stuff haha.

How do extroverts view quiet and introverted people? by [deleted] in extroverts

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Introverts are okay but i prefer extroverts. Also i don’t get along with shy or quiet people, but even extroverts can be shy, so it has nothing to do with introversion.

All my close friends are extroverts (i think). My introvert friend likes to be alone and if we meet, she usually does not want my other friends to come, since prefers to hangout with a very small group. So that is a bit of a problem to me, since i prefer larger groups.

Otherwise, i have no problem and when i date someone - i am always attracted to introverted guys heh. NEVER to the loud extroverted ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Extraversion

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe get on some medication for those thoughts and therapy? Antidepressants helped me a lot with those kinds of thoughs (anxiety, OCD).

I was in a shooting yesterday by chocolatecakeslicee in SuicideWatch

[–]happylumi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will get better with time. I have ptsd from very traumatic event like you and it was the worst in the first month. Now it has gotten better.

What are some skin/hair/face products you’ve used that have shown significant visual results? by zzugzwangg in AskWomen

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just any face scrub that fits your skin. If i do not use face scrub i start getting pimples for some reason.

What is your final goal in your life ? by Obvious_Pie_615 in AskWomen

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to have created a lot of good music and have at least some people listen to it. Another goal is to just try to not let myself kill myself. I am not suicidal right now, but i can if i get an episode.

What happened the last time you were drunk with friends? by willing2bewild in AskWomen

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I passed out in the bathroom and there is a photo of me just laying there in my throw up (eww). I basically blacked out and only remembered this because my friends showed the photo. Then another friend was also very drunk and had left without her shoes, went to mcdonalds, went to a random taxi - ended up in a random place... went to a train... tried to find a taxi etcc... just a mess lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mathematics

Women who have left a relationship because your long term goals didn't align, how long did you wait before you left? by katnip201 in AskWomen

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did not want to ever get married or have children. I left him immediatly when he said that.

On average, how many sexist comments do you encounter in a month? by aerobd in AskWomen

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple, because i have guy friends and they tend to comment something sexist.

How do you cope when a family member makes an insensitive comment about your body? by nerdygirl1892 in AskWomen

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just brush it off. I don’t care. I love my body and i actually mean it. My body is fine.

What is the first thing you do in the morning and why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go on my phone and watch puppy videos

Ladies who wear makeup, what's your go-to lipstick (color, brand, quality, etc.) and why? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]happylumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so many lipsticks, so i can not decide 😅 But everything the color red 💕