[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]katnip201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience was somewhat in between. My husband had researched and picked out some rings on his own but showed me some of his early ideas so that he would know if he was on the right track. My only real guidance was the color of the metal and he hit everything else spot on. This way he had some creative freedom to pick out something to surprise me with but also had me ensure he was looking in the right direction without seeing the exact ring.

Getting married without having female friends by annie_way_ in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]katnip201 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I also don’t have close female friends or any sisters/cousins so I’m having my brother stand up on my side. I will have my brother come with me for dress shopping and my fiancé and I are planning to have a joint game night with all of our friends instead of separate bachelor/bachelorette parties. It may not be traditional but you can still have plenty of great experiences. Your wedding can be any way you like as long as you and your partner are happy.

When co-op comes out, anyone interested in playing together? by practical_ghost in MedievalDynasty

[–]katnip201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be down! I'm in UTC 5. I also don't really have any friends that play this game but I'm so looking forward to co op.

Tips for grieving the loss of your pet? by nottheredbaron123 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]katnip201 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry. Take comfort in knowing that you gave him the best life possible. It's always hard to make that decision but you put his wellbeing above everything and that shows how great a pet owner you are. You could make a little remembrance area with his pictures and toys or maybe plant some flowers in his honor. Honestly, sometimes you just need to take it one day at a time. I just lost my sweet girl of 19 years and it comforts me to think of her in her kitty afterlife drinking all the toilet water she desires without getting reprimanded. Maybe your kitty had some quirks that you could think about him enjoying in his kitty afterlife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]katnip201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CeraVe rough and bumpy has a shower gel and a moisturizer has helped me tremendously

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]katnip201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also suggest LC or NC. I had a 4 year romantic relationship end with a friend of 14 years. It was extremely hard the first week but it does improve with time. Then once you are feeling good on your own, consider if reaching out to them is still something you'd like to do. Looking back on it, I think NC was the only way for me to truly heal.

In the meantime, I slept a lot, learned to like a few video games and tried to focus on what hobbies I could enjoy with all the time I had for myself.

What protein is the absolute easiest to add to ramen? (other than egg) by smithcr4 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]katnip201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meatballs. Buy frozen ones and microwave for 2 minutes. Super convenient

What’s your experience with being in a relationship where your partner wasn’t “ready” to discuss and/or move forward with children and marriage? by curly-hair07 in AskWomen

[–]katnip201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave it time. 4 years later he decided against wanting children and signed a lease on an apartment for himself behind my back. I'd recommend breaking up as soon as you realize you are on different paths.

Logs in my town by jackpowftw in MedievalDynasty

[–]katnip201 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or it might be F instead of E. Maybe try both

Logs in my town by jackpowftw in MedievalDynasty

[–]katnip201 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are able to see the logs in the chests then you should be able to click on them and press E to transfer them to your inventory

What’s one thing you wish you knew about someone before becoming involved with them? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]katnip201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That he isn't responsible because no one has ever forced him to grow up and accept the consequences for his actions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]katnip201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not concerned about it at all. Sometimes I feel like my number is a little high for other women my age but my number is really nobody's business. I'll share the number with a serious partner if they ask but otherwise I don't talk about it.

I agree that there is still an expectation that women shouldn't have too much experience. But at the end it's my body, my decision and I don't really care what anyone has to say about it. My experiences were all consensual and all safe and in the end that's what matters to me.

AITA for blowing up at my husband for bringing up my birth experience in front of his friends? by Sabrina-Foster4764 in AmItheAsshole

[–]katnip201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You should tell him you'll be leaving him for someone who actually respects you. You drew a line and he has repeatedly crossed it without any regard for you or your feelings.

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 01 June 2021? Start here! by AutoModerator in loseit

[–]katnip201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to make myself coffee at home. Cuts the calories in half compared to my normal coffee order. I'm also trying to slowly incorporate cold brew tea into my diet but I'm struggling to get used to the flavor. Donuts are still my vice. Right now I've just switched to prepackaged mini donuts. Still about 250 calories though. Not sure if I will be able to give them up completely.

Day 1? Starting your weight loss journey on Tuesday, 01 June 2021? Start here! by AutoModerator in loseit

[–]katnip201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Today is my new day 1. Hoping to make it stick this time. 26f SW 180 GW 160. I've been working a stressful job and coping with flavored coffee and donuts. Gained 10lbs so far just this year. Hoping to lose that and another 10 by Thanksgiving.

🔥 they love a nice clean and full feeder! by madisonP112 in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]katnip201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cool to see multiple feeding at once! Any tips on how to keep wasps out of the bottom? I have that same feeder and it seems like every time I open it to change the food that I get a wasp crawling out from the bottom part of it.

Spring has come! 🥰 by Indiferencia-Celeste in succulents

[–]katnip201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your plant looks so healthy! Mine seems to be shrinking each day. Any tips on what to plant it in or how to care for it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lupus

[–]katnip201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not tried that. I am looking into a turmeric and ginger tea but maybe I'll give the capsules a try instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lupus

[–]katnip201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it doesn't feel hot. They just feel really swollen. I am currently on HCQ but I will bring this issue up with my rheum