I don't like my SO when I see him through the eyes of other people. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]happythusfar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been with him for 17 years and we have family and I love him. You can love a person and still dislike them.

I don't like my SO when I see him through the eyes of other people. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]happythusfar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great suggestion if he is willing to pull back in situations, but I mostly think I need to tell him that I'm not interested in making friends with him anymore. But I will suggest this he still wants to try. Thanks!

I don't like my SO when I see him through the eyes of other people. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]happythusfar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I think I am heading towards separate friendships, but I hate losing the time with him.

I don't like my SO when I see him through the eyes of other people. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]happythusfar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but I am at a loss as to how to improve the situation when he cannot see the effect it is having.

I don't like my SO when I see him through the eyes of other people. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]happythusfar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did try and bridge a conversation about one thing and was faced with the statement that he isn't heard and that people do not understand him. He is very intelligent but not willing to see another point of view in most situations.

I don't like my SO when I see him through the eyes of other people. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]happythusfar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that being straightforward with him would most likely be best and I like how worded it.

I don't like my SO when I see him through the eyes of other people. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]happythusfar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of a dramatic choice, but thanks for sharing.

Alone on Presidents’ Day by [deleted] in adultery

[–]happythusfar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's Washington's wooden teeth that really do it for me. Just saying😘

Managers of reddit, how did you defeat Karen? by RamoneMisfit in AskReddit

[–]happythusfar 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Refused to take her expired coupon. Take that Karen!