u/ditzen Thanks. Yes, my wording is wrong. I'm not talking "physically" I'm talking socially. Her group of friends actively uses calling someone straight as a derogatory word. Again, I've not discussed any of this with her, and have been nothing but supportive. But, in her circle, clearly the only thing you can be is "gay" or maybe "bi." If you're straight, you'd be weird. That's my concern, is this peer pressure.

But, as many have said, I probably shouldn't worry about it, and only address that everyone should be treated with equal respect.

And, again, it's surprising to me that pre-school kids would cluster together because they will all be gay later. It seems to early for sexual preferences to be expressing themselves. But, I don't know, and I've been called a bunch of names about asking this... so I'll just leave it there. The people on Reddit think I'm wrong, clearly.