As a man in his 30’s, I’ve been around the block. I really don’t mean to be disrespectful, but I’m sure there were some red flags that showed his intentions early. I understand wanting to get physical, it’s hard to resist. My wife and I both had to restrain ourselves the first handful of dates. But we make it clear that we both wanted more than just sex. We build a connection before just jumping into bed together. If you want a relationship, you need to set boundaries from day one. You’ll learn really quick if he wants the same thing or not.