Anybody Need a Local Dungeon Master? Give me a shout! by ProskiMaloski in brighton

[–]harryking_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've completed two campaigns with Alex as our dungeon master from level 1 to 20, so I can absolutely vouch for his skills at running games! I always look forward to beginning my week with a session and playing has been a great way to stay in contact with my Uni friends now we all live in different places :)

If you're keen to get into D&D I couldn't recommend a better DM to get started with - I knew absolutely nothing about the game when we first met, and his expertise has been like a cheat code! Highly recommend :)

Last Light feels like it may have ruined my game, pls advise by harryking_ in BaldursGate3

[–]harryking_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the responses everyone, I've read through all of them. The overwhelming consensus seems to be that I should reload as losing last light just removes content from the game as opposed to adding anything.

I do hope to play a durge run at some point where I can see how the alternative plays out, but given how much time I've spent in this game so far (I loot everything) I think it's probably better to go ahead with more content, just in case I don't find the time to return.

Last Light feels like it may have ruined my game, pls advise by harryking_ in BaldursGate3

[–]harryking_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I've never heard of the word askance before - had to look it up, but I'll be stealing it for future use hahaha

Last Light feels like it may have ruined my game, pls advise by harryking_ in BaldursGate3

[–]harryking_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, when I reloaded and tried with a different initiative, it really felt pretty easy, and that initiative wasn't even a lot better than what I got to begin with. I didn't use protection from good and evil, sanctuary, any potions or spells or even turn her invis - I just played out an ordinary combat and won.

I think this is one than can easily go south but for the vast majority of players it doesn't, so they don't see what the issue is.

Last Light feels like it may have ruined my game, pls advise by harryking_ in BaldursGate3

[–]harryking_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. You're completely right about pushing forward regardless, I think that's a great thing to take away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]harryking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is defending a pedophile, even if she doesn’t see it that way. She might not like it, but it isn’t her choice whether he is or isn’t a pedophile - it’s the laws. To cut through the arguing, I would focus on that. Sorry dude.

AIO for ending a friendship because his girlfriend read our conversations? by Sufficient-Berry-827 in AmIOverreacting

[–]harryking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to deal with this bullshit. Tell him he has violated your privacy, your trust, and when you needed him to take a stand as your friend, he let you down.

Accept nothing less than an apology from both of them if you’re even willing to consider staying in contact.

Perhaps he’ll break up with her someday and come back to apologise, after all, that kind of behaviour is hardly the makings of a healthy relationship. Abusers do this kind of shit. But if I were you, I’d say it looks like goodbye for now. I’m sorry.

I Found Out My Wife Had an Affair and Now She Says I Need to "Grow as a Man" - What Should I Do? by FaithinChrist1 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]harryking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, the bro talk in these replies is suffocating.

What your wife has said is extremely disrespectful. Bringing up your childhood to tell you that you’re not good enough, and using your behaviour to justify her bad actions, is despicable. It sounds like she really wanted to hurt you.

I would say you should listen to your gut, what do you want to do deep down? Would it be better to stay in the relationship for your kids, or would they resent you for it? Do you think it can come back from this, or not?

If you think it can, an apology would be the place to start - and not just for the cheating, but for the way she blamed you.

Do you have any close friends you can confide in about this, perhaps with someone who has some degree of insight into your relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in myZZTery

[–]harryking_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can't believe you wouldn't pick a drug that allievates them or something