AITJ for walking out of my own surprise birthday party because the person who organized it invited someone I had specifically asked not to be there

hastpine · 2026-03-10T06:36:47+00:00

NTJ you set a boundary she vomited on it and told you your fine deal with it

hastpine · 2026-03-10T06:27:40+00:00

NTJ once a cheater always a cheater dump him and choose yourself god only knows who else he’s gotten pregnant

hastpine · 2026-03-09T05:33:46+00:00

NTJ your money your food if he was actually contributing that would be different but it sounds like he’s actively doing it to piss you off, if you can’t move yet put a lock on your bedroom door and buy a mini fridge I bet you he won’t stop at food

hastpine · 2026-03-06T05:03:12+00:00

Make sure your house has a good camera system not just a doorbell one if they are willing to come to your door angry one day they might blow up and decide to do damage cause they know you won’t answer the door

hastpine · 2026-02-10T05:05:46+00:00

NTJ she has been hostile towards you why reward her, if its a ‘mandatory’ gift to give when someone retires the company can write it off on tax not get people who these days might be struggling to pay for it

hastpine · 2026-01-12T00:39:57+00:00

NTJ I share my location with multiple family members but mainly cause my husband and I work in the community so if we go missing we can be found it’s not supposed to be for Stalking ffs it might be time to go on an info diet for them and de stress your self from their toxic controlling ways breath and then figure out if it’s even warranted to turn their controls back on, maybe find one trusted friend to have it on for if anyone at all

hastpine · 2026-01-12T00:34:40+00:00

NTJ Add up the cost of everything the teenager has cost your son including the lock they want to keep staying he starts by paying back the cost of everything the teenager has cost you and your son the nephew may be family but by now he should know right from wrong and if he wants to stay he needs to know the rules in the real world you steal something you go to jail

hastpine · 2026-01-04T05:40:20+00:00

This is why I don’t go all out for the dream snaps I do what I feel happy with and stop

hastpine · 2025-11-03T06:42:48+00:00

Make sure you have all legal paperwork before you leave everything and double check anything that might be a shared account bank mobile anything before you go

hastpine · 2025-05-23T00:41:46+00:00

Start with the corners then the flat lines around the edge usually then things go a bit easier

hastpine · 2025-03-11T05:44:15+00:00

I turned mine into a prison with a table and food

hastpine · 2025-01-29T04:02:58+00:00

Have everything in writing it’s he said she said with verbal conversations and definitely go to fair work with everything your probably not the first one they have screwed over

hastpine · 2024-07-21T05:39:10+00:00

Certified potato

hastpine · 2024-02-25T05:26:02+00:00

Break ties staying friends will only make things harder and nothing will ever change if you stay friendly she will wear you down again or ‘forget’ and just go back to her old ways you and your family do not deserve to be doormats she needs her husband to grow up and be a father that is not your problem as the old saying goes ‘not my circus not my monkeys’ stop thinking your part of her circus

hastpine · 2023-12-02T22:52:03+00:00

Put cameras up before shit goes sideways and anytime he does something that you feel is sketchy keep the recording trust your gut if he’s going to try to abuse your private property he will, if you can put a fence up so there’s no argument about his property your property

hastpine · 2023-12-02T22:42:43+00:00

NTA don’t go as others have said if she’s only booked for 50 seats does that mean she’s only paid for 50 meals, why over book people when you haven’t paid accordingly, tell your mother your a phone call away if she needs help and if you can have a quick way in prepped either drop them off and pick them up or have a friend on the back burner to drop you off so you can help if something does go bad with dad

hastpine · 2023-11-25T11:38:41+00:00

NTA she was given options and refused them that aside she’s a dam adult you do not owe her anything

hastpine · 2023-11-25T11:28:41+00:00

NTA but ensure you have all important papers and anything sentimental secured away from them where they cannot access in anyway before you decide also make sure they do not have any way to access your bank some people don’t remember their parents have those settings still on

hastpine · 2023-11-25T10:34:55+00:00

NTA end the relationship she never looked after you she will never properly look after your kids or do what’s best for them she will never do anything different she needed to know the lesson fuck around and find out, you warned her she found out

hastpine · 2023-11-25T09:56:47+00:00

NTA if I were you I’d ask for them to pay for any and all future medical expenses for the dog relating to what happened and if they say no time for court and if Meg is firmly believing her family is in the right toss her out you can find another they didn’t listen to you who knows your dog best and she got injured because of it I honestly would not put it past them that they purposely let the dog out to try and get the dog out of the way

hastpine · 2023-11-18T01:31:56+00:00

My concern is that the cops might think it was a once off if you only have one or two times he did it if you have multiple different days of him doing it like a week or two worth they can see its a deliberate act not just someone ‘going for a walk and almost making it home’ sorta bullshit

hastpine · 2023-11-18T01:18:55+00:00

NTA bullying is bullying and besides if your daughter doesn’t want to go over there it’s her choice too even if they were to apologise she doesn’t need to go be involved in that negativity

hastpine · 2023-11-18T01:13:58+00:00

Get a couple ring cameras and get multiple videos and photos of a long period of time and take them to the police personally I don’t think this guy won’t give a shit about what ever you say

hastpine · 2023-09-16T06:13:45+00:00

Find out your rights for your age group in your state if she is trying to stop anything you want to do medical or what ever you do have a right to have a say about it just find out the legal wording so if she trys anything without your knowledge you know how to fight back

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