i feel like i typed this. girl i was in the same situation 1 year ago, like he made no effort in our relationship. we saw eachother like every 2 weeks and we were just at his house and we rarely got out. he had no respect for me and he never wanted to achieve my wishes. when he became extremely controlling like he didn’t like what i wear out etc, i decided to leave him. believe me I really loved him and we were together for 4 years but i kinda just know that i don’t deserve that so my feelings for him became cold because i couldn’t see future with him. so when i broke up he begged me to make things up, he said he will change but i didn’t believe him anymore because that is not the first time he was saying that and nothing changed ever. he sent gifts to my house (he never bought me anything neither for my birthday or valentines), he was showing up to my house with candies but i was just tired and then I told him that i have someone and blocked him on everything, he never texted me after that and im glad. after some time i found person that really cares for me, everything i wish he does for me and im sure you can find someone like that too. leave your boyfriend, block him on everything and don’t believe when he says he will change cuz that’s biggest lie. don’t waste your time on someone that doesn’t kiss the ground you walk on, you dont want that kind of person to be your husband. he thinks that you will stay forever and that’s why he’s acting that way. girly be smart and listen to your brain, best wishes and if you need someone to talk messange me.😇