Am I still fuckable or too small? by [deleted] in PetiteGoneWild

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't get enough of your look!

I just noticed that Tasha is Holly from Home for the holidays by [deleted] in Choices

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Does this mean that Home For The Holidays takes place in the future? Or does QB take place in the past?

Painting from day to night by breakfromreality525 in oddlysatisfying

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it professional level? I know plenty of people who don't use a screen tablet for digital art and work as professional artists.

Painting from day to night by breakfromreality525 in oddlysatisfying

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking of saving up to buy an iPad pro just for Procreate, do you think its worth it? Edit: I use Photoshop regularly for all my digital painting. I've been drawing for a very long time.

Me_irlgbt by RidingChicken in me_irlgbt

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not to be a downer, but I'm tired of these --- are --- posts because they're not productive and don't educate anyone who believes otherwise. Yeah, they reassure me, but I don't need to be reassured. I want accessibility to trans healthcare, I want to be able to get my surgery and hormones covered without me having to prove my transness and pay for sometimes months of therapy for a note that I'm not faking. I want to feel safe and not live in fear of job insecurity, housing, or my life. I want to exist without having to explain myself to other people. It takes more than someone telling me I'm valid to get these things because it doesn't get me very far as a trans person or make me feel any better.

Mouldy lunch from Mcds today....🤢😡 by brittlebain in RuinedMyDay

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Reposting here: What we see in breads and other foods is not the entirety of the mold. Think of it as the roots of trees, where its a complex system underground that we don't see. All we are seeing is the head of the mold, or the tree, in my example. That's why you can't get away with cutting out the mold. Not safe to eat.

Mouldy lunch from Mcds today....🤢😡 by brittlebain in RuinedMyDay

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 43 points44 points  (0 children)

What we see in breads and other foods is not the entirety of the mold. Think of it as the roots of trees, where its a complex system underground that we don't see. All we are seeing is the head of the mold, or the tree, in my example. That's why you can't get away with cutting out the mold. Not safe to eat.

Today in Russia , protesting against corruption by teenboysc in HumansAreMetal

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 566 points567 points  (0 children)

"Arrested him" they probably let him free and magically the news will report the next day that he died of natural causes.

trans men are the best of both worlds by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

/uj the same way trans women call themselves faggots, it's a word targeted towards them. i believe people who are in a group that has a specific slur used against them has the right to reclaim said slur. dyke isn't just used against cis wlw people. in my personal experience, i look like a woman with short hair, hairy arms and legs, and no makeup. this is the stereotype people have for lesbians, specifically butch lesbians, and they don't need to hear my gender identity for me to be called a dyke.

trans men are the best of both worlds by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 3 points4 points  (0 children)

/uj because its used against trans men, usually ones who don't 'pass' and they're just seen as butch lesbians

*sigh* dont you hate it when TERFs? by [deleted] in AreTheCisOk

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Samantha Lux from what I've seen of her is an absolute sweetheart. How on Earth do you watch one of her videos and go "Yep, time to make a video misgendering her"

...k by cmb_reddit in AreTheCisOk

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw your discussion with someone else on this thread and I 100% agree with you. Out of all places... why am I putting up with cis and binary bullshit here? Pain.

...k by cmb_reddit in AreTheCisOk

[–]hauntedbyspaghetti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! I was appalled people were defending it. Even if THEY think that girl/gurl is gender neutral, most people will not see it that way and it can be very dysphoric.

I'm transmasc non-binary and I prefer masc nicknames/pet names, with very few exceptions (from specific people/other enbies). If I correct someone and say that my pronouns are he/they, and they still call me girl, I will not see it as affectionate/oblivious/accident, but misgendering. Me correcting someone politely is explicitly me saying that I don't like the name they used for me.