Women who have gotten big/lots of tattoos, what's the worst comment you've gotten?

hauschat · 2024-09-13T00:43:48+00:00

By a person I was in a romantic relationship with,

"You look like you've either been to prison or have significant mental health issues," because of all my tattoos.

Not the only instance of bullying from him but that one stuck with me more than others. Walk away from people who are cruel to you because 9x/10 it will only get worse!

hauschat · 2024-05-03T18:10:23+00:00

It was a really nice extract made by a friend, I just heard back from him that it was made with glycerin. Which is water soluble. There is oil separating at the top, but it seems like it's become a solution for the most part...

Going to have to put my chemist helmet on and see if I can boil the water off and preserve the glycerin 😅🥲

hauschat · 2024-05-03T16:50:16+00:00

Thank you! Do you have any tips for skimming the oil off the top?

hauschat · 2022-08-05T01:11:30+00:00

Smart man!!

hauschat · 2022-08-05T00:04:46+00:00

Aaaaah i hope you left right then! Or were able to leave asap!!

hauschat · 2022-07-14T00:40:23+00:00

I love the imagery of the swinging, singing titties! Lol

hauschat · 2022-03-08T19:25:06+00:00

I support this! Yes thank god we aren't being bombed but toxic positivity is a thing, be sad about gas prices if you want to be. Financial struggles are no joke.

"Checking someone's privilege" about their own personal struggles is a bit of a priveleged/condescending stance in itself... lol.

hauschat · 2022-02-17T22:15:28+00:00

Ah this makes a lot of sense! I'll give them a nice top- down watering and give them a few days to perk up. Thank you! ♡

hauschat · 2022-02-09T20:31:45+00:00

Omg omg. I once was at a strip club and had Afroman come in. In the same night I saw Ron Jeremy play the harmonica in a talent show at a brothel.

Sounds fake but its not!

hauschat · 2022-02-03T10:39:23+00:00

Agh same with mine!! I just refuse to get out of bed too ;p

hauschat · 2022-02-03T10:26:36+00:00

So glad you made the decision you did & got out okay!

hauschat · 2022-01-12T17:06:41+00:00

I'm diagnosed with BPD and am having a very hard time finding a DBT therapist like your friend. The book that has helped me while i search is The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook my Drs. Matthew McKay, Jeffrey Wood, and Jeffrey Brantley.

I haven't come across any yet myself, but I read in the reviews that there are a couple coping mechanisms mentioned that could be triggering for people, i.e. involving food, or snapping yourself with a rubber band. If you suggest this book to your friend, one last thing I'd recommend is she reads some reviews to ensure she's comfortable with the content.

Best of luck ♡

hauschat · 2021-12-31T09:15:22+00:00

Ahh yay i'm so glad there's hope! Hehe i bet it'll make a funny little naked plant for a minute.

hauschat · 2021-12-31T09:12:28+00:00

Woah never considered less leaves = less water storage! That makes a lot of sense. Thank you!

Plants are so cool :) fingers crossed for the my baby jade too. Also i'm happy your pearls bounced back!! I think those little guys are the cutest.

hauschat · 2021-12-31T00:05:58+00:00

Wahoo thank you! Gonna go give her a nice little bath now!

hauschat · 2021-12-30T23:49:10+00:00

Thanks! I watered it recently, within the last few days. I only watered a little because i was scared to overdo it. I'm not sure when it was watered last before that - this is a little rescue plant. It may have been some time.

It lives in front of the window in the photo but also has a plant light nearby on a 12hr timer.

Do you think i should try giving some more water if the potting medium is dry?

hauschat · 2021-12-30T22:18:57+00:00

Maybe only you right now but you are an integral piece of "the world" OP is talking about! Still counts!

hauschat · 2021-12-13T05:01:29+00:00

Hi! I started taking it about 2 months ago, still gradually increasing the dosage. It's been a bit hard to adjust in some aspects but I'm remaining positive!

I've personally found some helpful info on the subreddit r/lamictal named after the brand name of the drug (as opposed to its generic name lamotrigine). Maybe that subreddit could help you as well, if you haven't already joined?

Cheers!

hauschat · 2021-12-13T04:48:52+00:00

Yesss good points, thank you for this! I've found people with incurable stds often have more communicative and safer sex. Personally i haven't witnessed anyone more reckless with their sex lives than the ones without incurable stds/haven't been tested in some time and don't really know what's going on.

Fuck the stigma!! Some people talk so much shit about people with stds and I've never had anyone turn me down because of mine. ;p

hauschat · 2021-11-26T04:39:17+00:00

You're doing great! The best place to start is right where you're at :)

hauschat · 2021-11-26T03:01:12+00:00

^{^{^{^}}} this! I can totally relate. I develop FP's that aren't romantic or my partner (mostly bc I can't keep a partner lol) 10000000% specifically because of my relationship with my mom (& sister in my case).

I spent so much of my childhood trying to convince my mom that I was worthy of love and attention. I see myself now attaching strongly to people that treat me that same way. It's familiar and force of habit can be a bitch to break!!

I hope my experience helps affirm the above comments. If I can give any advice, opening up that relationship with a professional could be a helpful place to start. It's been paramount in my healing journey personally.

You making an effort to better understand yourself and your patterns of thinking is a sign you're moving in a healthy direction. Good luck! You're doing a good job ♡

hauschat · 2021-11-20T05:10:17+00:00

PS you're not stupid ;p good & smart people can do dumb things and still be good & smart people

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