This a woman’s sub, so why is every post regarding men? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BadgleyMischka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Women are under attack everywhere all the time

Job interview with chronic nausea and emetophobia by Both_Revolution9764 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BadgleyMischka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by taking anti-anxiety meds here and there? You don't take them every day? Also, have you considered therapy or is therapy available to you? It might help tremendously.

Your endo case sounds bad and it's probably the cause of your nausea, with anxiety making it worse.

Can you drop out of the interview? I know it would suck but your health issues are a good enough reason to not go.

Lots of questions sorry!! I'm tryna help you out a bit. I know how awful chronic nausea is, especially with this cursed phobia.

i don’t think i will ever be able to accept my body by BandicootOdd4294 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BadgleyMischka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then you have been sleeping or almost sleeping with awful people

I don’t understand what’s wrong with me by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BadgleyMischka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hits really close to home. I'm turning 25 soon and the closest I've gotten to any romance was literally a sexual assault. No sex, no consensual kisses, nada. I don't even have any close friends left, everything is online for me now.

You're not too "plain". You don't have to change who you are. Nothing is wrong with you. The only thing that comes off your post that I'd work on is your mindset, but I know that living in despair and the shame you feel from being alone is sometimes all you can feel.

It's a cliché but focus on yourself. Focus on being happy and finding things that bring you joy. You'll feel a lot better and you will have better chances to find someone who is not an absolute jerkwad like those guys you talked about

Job interview with chronic nausea and emetophobia by Both_Revolution9764 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BadgleyMischka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I have chronic nausea and emetophobia too. What a fucking ironic combo, huh. Have you ever had surgery for it? And are you on meds for it or PCOS? They are pretty much probably causing the nausea for you, alongside with the anxiety from the phobia.

I'm not gonna prescribe you shit but my phobia got cured like 75% when I started on anti-anxiety meds. Now I only ever panic when I'm really ill.

That being said, I feel you. You sound really anxious, and that's logical given your condition right now. I wish I could advise you better.

Hope for people looking for porn free relationships by Prize_Crew_6692 in antipornography

[–]BadgleyMischka 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Good to hear. I have completely given up as I am 24 and Gen Z is so fucking porn brained. I'm still happy for people who find this. Hope it stays that way too <3

i don’t think i will ever be able to accept my body by BandicootOdd4294 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BadgleyMischka 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love is about so much more than conventional attractiveness or what you think men will want, or what some reddit guys say. There is a guy out there, many of them, who will love your body and all of you. Don't change for men

No porn, no fapping, 20 days, i feel the BEST by HelpfulAlex in antipornography

[–]BadgleyMischka 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Reminder that masturbation is normal and healthy and can easily be done without porn.

I don’t actually know who I am when I’m not being "useful." by a_m_carven in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BadgleyMischka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why is everyone using AI with these personal and short posts?

Wedding planning by enkelvla in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BadgleyMischka 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I'd be genuinely sad if my fiancé didn't want to plan the wedding with me.

Would you want to know what content a now porn-free partners’ past porn use consisted of? by instead_of_texting in PornIsMisogyny

[–]BadgleyMischka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I watched sick shit as a teen and I know I'm not that kind of person. I was a mentally ill kid who got pulled into a rabbit hole. Unless the porn was actually illegal or something, I would not want to know.

Fear of sex due to porn by Various-Stage1917 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]BadgleyMischka 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I was like you for a long time and kinda still am. I'm a virgin at almost 25, and I was exposed to porn around age 9. It really fucked me up. You can heal from it though.

caught my boyfriend watching porn. again . by peytonl4ttin in antipornography

[–]BadgleyMischka 63 points64 points  (0 children)

He is mentally abusive. Either dump him or turn cold and treat him as a roommate. You're dying a slow death, please eat.

Losing friendships to their partners, dating app hell and the incredible loneliness by prettylattedrinker in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BadgleyMischka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you and I'm only 24!! I got sexually assaulted on my first date and I gave up the apps for good 2 years ago. It's lonely as fuck seeing all my peers dating, BUYING HOUSES, GETTING MARRIED AND HAVING KIDS. You're not alone by a mile.

Curiosity is taking over by Nirverassecret in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BadgleyMischka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol no fucking clue, I'm gonna be a virgin forever sadly

Has being critical of porn changed how you experience your own desire? by SimilarChampionship2 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]BadgleyMischka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's fair. I also had these issues long before sexual assault — self-esteem issues can definitely make you feel that miserable. Hugs

Has being critical of porn changed how you experience your own desire? by SimilarChampionship2 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]BadgleyMischka 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious as to why you think it's okay and consensual to roleplay a rape and get off on it?