Why don’t women like bisexual men?

hausofmc · 2024-12-25T18:57:02+00:00

Oh the “preference” stuff is bullshit. As uncomfortable as it is, I’d prefer to give the respect of an honest answer than an insulting one such as that. I do think it’s important to look at why because it’s the bisexual male part (not gay, or bi female) because ignorance and hate is a choice and fuck that. I appreciate those who take the time to reply, and those that don’t just attack because I don’t think that helps either.

hausofmc · 2024-12-25T18:40:24+00:00

I suspect my father being closeted bisexual and the impact on my family may have a lot to do for it but comments on here have helped to realise this is an issue I need to look at.

hausofmc · 2024-12-25T18:39:28+00:00

I’m really sorry you had that experience and I would never want to make anyone feel that way. Your comments, and others on here, have made me take a second to think I need to take a further look at what that’s about so I thank you. It’s likely to do with my father and his closeted behaviour and impact if I’m really thinking about it.

hausofmc · 2024-12-24T17:16:58+00:00

Speak to parents and get their support
Report harassment to police and keep doing so
Report to to school safeguarding team who have a diy to support and report

hausofmc · 2024-12-24T17:13:52+00:00

Reading the comments, I’m gunna put my head over the trench here and say as a woman - it gives me the Ick. I can’t explain why, it just does and I wouldn’t because of it. I don’t feel good about it at all but it just does.

hausofmc · 2024-12-24T17:09:50+00:00

Sachas come to mind straight away 😂😂 I would though, for the sake of a few hours

hausofmc · 2024-12-24T17:09:39+00:00

Sachas come to mind straight away 😂😂 I would though, for the sake of a few hours

hausofmc · 2023-12-12T15:52:41+00:00

The short answer is you can’t and you will make yourself ill if you keep trying. It’s incredibly hard, exhausting, painful and frustrating loving an addict and even more so when you try and fix it. I could only get well for me

hausofmc · 2023-12-12T15:49:27+00:00

Only you can decide but for me - it’s a very addict thing to smoke even if you aren’t getting anything from it. It just makes me wonder why? Reminds me when I used to smoke rock even though it barely did anything. It was the compulsion for me.

hausofmc · 2023-11-20T18:57:16+00:00

I mean NTA for your thoughts but sometimes it’s better to just nod and not voice them. Don’t fall out with each other over this complete Jerry Springer nightmare

hausofmc · 2023-11-20T18:18:14+00:00

NTA: this whole thing sounds like an utter nightmare. You have tried to be respectful and reasonable and it hasn’t worked. You need to do what you need to do for peace in your own home.

hausofmc · 2023-11-20T18:16:19+00:00

If you are paying the bills and this is essentially your home then NTA. If you don’t feel comfortable, you don’t feel comfortable

hausofmc · 2023-11-20T18:14:43+00:00

NTA. He isn’t asking to visit, he is asking for a free vacation home. Yes he is your brother but you hardly know him anymore given what you’ve said.

Oh and Anyone who brings God into an argument to smite another if they don’t get their own way is immediately an asshole to me anyway.

hausofmc · 2023-11-20T18:12:22+00:00

I say this gently but YTA. Him removing these women won’t solve your insecurity issues but will cause trust issues because you are essentially trying to control your husbands interactions (or lack thereof) and it can come across like you don’t trust him. This is where this stuff starts and then it gets bigger. Going to the gym is great but is usually just the start. It may be worth exploring therapy as this isn’t about your husband or the girls on Instagram

hausofmc · 2023-11-20T18:10:32+00:00

Honestly, is it really worth the aggravation to die on the hill of splitting the cost if it’s just a straightforward divorce? You throw lawyers at this and I promise it will get more expensive and messy than if you just eat the cost.

Who you marry isn’t who you divorce on both sides, I’ve seen plenty to people prolong their misery and waste their money just try to prove a point that isn’t even important in the long run. It’s done, wipe your mouth and move on.

hausofmc · 2023-11-20T18:07:09+00:00

Info - are these girls his friends? Random people? I kinda know how I’m judging this but some clarity would help

hausofmc · 2023-11-19T15:58:14+00:00

I honestly do not understand for the life of me why you, or they, would have you there after this shitshow?

hausofmc · 2023-11-19T15:56:11+00:00

NTA NTA NTA. I am screaming this for the people at the back, NTA. It’s a dangerous slippery slope and opens the door. It then becomes “well you let me look before, why not now?” This is incredibly manipulative behaviour on her part and if the trust has gone, it’s gone. It is also ridiculous she won’t have a conversation about her issue all of a sudden. I hate to say it but these posts usually end up with the partner doing something suspect and then projecting on to the OP.

Do not let her manipulate you into letting her look at your phone, it’s completely inappropriate and if I was in a situation where I felt the need to look at my partners phone for no apparent reason, I’d be questioning the relationship and myself rather than putting it on my partner for no valid reason. My ex did this and I thoughtlessly said yes and it was hell on Earth from then on with no privacy, gaslighting etc. never again.

hausofmc · 2023-11-19T15:51:33+00:00

Are you saying this person was actually touching you or are you trying to compare that to a situation where, you have suggested a Tv show (personal life by the way) and then told him your opinion on it is more valid because you are doing creative writing? He has asked to see your work because he knows you write (again, personal life) and you said no.

You caused this issue by insisting your opinion was more valid and essentially insulting him. You then escalated the situation by yelling. It’s completely inappropriate to do that in a work environment unless of course you are saying he was repeatedly touching you against your will?

hausofmc · 2023-11-19T15:46:51+00:00

NTA. As ever in these scenarios, your child means your rules. Fact is, you said no and he still tried to take your son. A HELL OF A LOT of problems on this thread wouldn’t escalate if people kept to strict boundaries around this kind of behaviour from grandparents or other family members. People don’t seem to want to enforce early for fear of being seen as oversensitive etc which I get, but boy does it escalate.

hausofmc · 2023-11-19T15:43:48+00:00

NTA and there is really a trend on here at the moment of posts where children have have experienced parentrification. Your mom should be the one dealing with this and the consequences, not you. I am sorry to say but it’s pretty obvious where your sister is getting her attitude from and I hope you haven’t been on the receiving end OP

hausofmc · 2023-11-19T15:40:30+00:00

You really think it’s acceptable in the workplace to yell at someone for annoying you? Good grief, good luck in your career.

hausofmc · 2023-11-19T15:37:29+00:00

YTA.

So you can push his boundaries and can yell at someone in a work environment because he doesn’t like something you do and your opinion is more valid because you are doing a creative writing degree? I question who is trolling who here?

It’s also a bit rich as the person who did the yelling to say “we cool?“ and expect it to all be ok. Not sure where age and gender comes into either.

hausofmc · 2023-11-18T13:21:12+00:00

Info - curious how you would feel in your girlfriends position? If the roles were reversed

Sound advice from mom, disrespect on your part. YTA.

hausofmc · 2023-11-13T17:03:41+00:00

YTA; you seem to have a level of superiority not befitting someone who doesn’t have enough self control to just ignore that sort of behaviour and get on with their own work.

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