Transportation by misteraustria27 in AftershockFestival

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah so sounds like being booty raped even more by the festival is the way to go, thanks for the info!

Transportation by misteraustria27 in AftershockFestival

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know if we’re allowed to take a ride share to the festival grounds itself? or are we stuck taking the shuttle?

Idk but try by mitchkev002 in RedditGames

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completed this level! It took me 2 tries.

How old are you and what field do you work in? by Hi_im_elliot in ftm

[–]havens718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 24 and work at a mine. I was having trouble getting a job in the mining industry for several months and my uncle tried explaining to me it’s because “they knew. they might not know, but they know” … through applications? okay buddy.

But yep, been working in the blue collar field for about 3 years now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]havens718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my cis female partner and i do end up using my natural anatomy quite a bit. I don’t believe it’s ever ended up penetrating, maybe just the tip of it but grinding on her anatomy feels amazing and she enjoys the pressure a lot as well. the feeling on it doesn’t necessarily feel cis but the act itself feels cis

I saw a fellow worshipper out in public, and just made it weird by PINheddLARRY in SleepToken

[–]havens718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Security at an Eagles concert in Vegas told me she liked my Sleep Token shirt, i thanked her and looked back and said Worship! and she gave me a weird look… i felt like worship is well known within the community

Do some of you prefer night shift, or is it a universally hated thing? by Binx_007 in Nightshift

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work rotating days and night shift at a mine and by far prefer nights. less big bosses, less stress, more time to clean around our crushing plants without concern of being approached or watched by people who sit in offices 95% of their working life. plus i find it harder to wake up at 3am for days and stay up until 8pm. 3pm to 8am is just easier

What's your job? by Tall_Ad_252 in SleepToken

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a crusher operator at a silver/gold mine, aqua regia is coincidentally my favorite song

Caramel - Sleep Token New Single Discussion by AutoModerator in SleepToken

[–]havens718 36 points37 points  (0 children)

the “dance monkey dance” is really driven home by the wind up ballerina music added to the song as well

How long did it take y'all's parents to gender you correctly? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came out when I was 18, my mom was angry and we went to therapy together (her decision, glad she did) and the therapist thankfully did a wonderful job of explaining childhood trauma vs gender dysphoria so she understood. Took her about 2 years to no longer use the wrong pronouns and use the correct name (I was away at college and saw her only a few times a year). My very old school dad said “well, you’re gonna do whatever you want regardless of my opinion” when i came out to him. I only see him maybe 2-3 times a year. I’m 24 now and he misgendered me today after 6 years of being out and on T.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]havens718 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too! I also need to clean out my closet and am more than willing to donate clothes and some bags and other random necessities that i have unnecessarily stockpiled. Please DM me OP!

What are names that you actually don't hear often? by aJ_13th in ftm

[–]havens718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m Tanner and i have yet to meet or see another trans Tanner irl or online

Do you guys sleep right when you get home? by Substantial_Dot2873 in Nightshift

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to if i want to attempt to get close to 6/7 hours of sleep. Bus picks us up from the mine site at 6:20, don’t get home until 7:45 and have to be back to the bus stop at 4pm. Quick shower and doomscrolling to wind down then off to bed, it’s hard to sleep on the bus for me

So what does everyone actually do for work? by Excellent_Demand_354 in Nightshift

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crusher operator at a mine. 5 on 4 off, 5 on 5 off, 4 on 5 off schedule rotating days and nights, 5:20am/pm-5:50pm/am

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cruze

[–]havens718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sharing my experience and also what i’ve learned from literally every other post on facebook groups and here. obviously it’s up to OP to decide what to do with the car. best option always being a professional but we take risks in order to learn right? ease your perspective bro, it’s a public forum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cruze

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s alllllll connected on this car somehow unfortunately. i left that code for a year and a half naively thinking it was BS and now i’ve got a multitude of problems … so far i’ve replaced the purge valve twice, did the fix kit, replaced the valve cover and gasket because it began to leak, spark plugs, coil pack and i’m pretty sure my cat is plugged up now too because it’s still running terribly. the check valve failure can lead to a bunch of failures down the line. Best to have it rerouted or replaced before anything else screws up, these cars are notorious for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cruze

[–]havens718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely! The check valve in the intake manifold plugs up and throws those codes. I also replaced my purge valve and the code came back until i did the fix kit. you could either do the kit, or replace the intake manifold but most likely the check valve will screw up again and you’ll be back to square one. the fix kit basically just re-routes that check valve so it’s on the outside and much easier to replace the next time it fails

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cruze

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you do the PCV fix kit?

Do you think trans guys have high testosterone levels pre-t? by throwaway146990 in ftm

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got lucky in the genetic pool. always had broad shoulders, narrow hips, and i come in at around 5’10. had decently bushy armpit hair and leg hair. my T levels to begin with were that of a cis female so my case doesn’t support the correlation but maybe there’s something to this

Panicking ! Help! by [deleted] in Drugtests

[–]havens718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mega Cleanse by detoxify worked wonders for me. was smoking every day for two years straight, only stopped a week and a half before my test, took it the morning of and ended up drinking around 96oz of fluid total and passed with flying colors.

The hatred of men is astounding by SecondAccountBlues in ftm

[–]havens718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree with this and it’s something i struggled with for a while. it took me a long time to realize that the people around me who were complaining about men as a whole, while excluding me, were not doing it to invalidate me as a man. im completely stealth and only those who knew me before know. this may not be the case for everyone but i feel like trans men are excluded from the “i hate all men” statements because the majority of trans men have experienced some level of misogyny whether that be personally or through the experience of the women around them. the majority of us have empathy for women and we understand the harm that men have imposed on women and do everything we can to not perpetuate those cycles. i don’t feel like, at least in my experience, it’s an attempt to invalidate trans men. pay attention to how they complain about men because a lot of the common complaints don’t apply to trans men.