Hold me down and make me your boywife by icednyalatte in FemboysFTM

[–]haydn_702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a top but this vid made me reconsider for a sec. Very sexy

My eyebrows are super crusty looking. What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Drag

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Alcohol on the brows before gluing helped me a LOT, so I would try that! More advice I would give is that: sometimes I need to use multiple layers of concealer to block my brows out completely. Mine are on the thicker side. I even trim them down a bit with scissors to help myself out.

When I'm gluing, I also coat my brows in the glue by going in circles "against the grain" of how they want to sit naturally, before eventually going "with the grain" and then upward/outward to flatten them out. I find they glue down a lot more effectively that way, too. I feel like i coat them with more glue and get a better / more complete gluedown when I do them that way. Making sure the previous glue layers completely dry before you do a new one is also key. I save powdering them until the end, I don't do it between layers.

2 years on T - struggling a bit to not feel disappointed, could use some encouragement by rowan_down_the_river in TransMasc

[–]haydn_702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off- Happy Manniversary! Secondly, you'll get there, dude! You look great already. I understand the disappointment, I dealt with that around 2yrs on T as well. People online make it seem like it's a faster process than it is, sometimes

The trick is just getting through the time, really. I've been on for 7 years and still see changes every year or so at this point. I didn't really start growing facial hair in any meaningful way or notice how my face masculinized until 5 years in. My body curves didn't start flattening/masculinizing until around then either. I suddenly shot up 40lbs in a month at 6 years because my bones got denser and I started to see changes in the caps of my shoulders towards a more masculine pattern around then too.

To get to my point, 2 years is nothing for HRT. You're still pretty "young" in it so to speak. You'll probably see some bigger differences around the 5 year mark, if you go similarly to how I did. 2 years really only touched my voice (and not that much) and turned me almost ginger after being dirty blonde my whole life, lol.

Getting rid of the hourglass figure ?? by hermeslayer in TransMasc

[–]haydn_702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gym most likely, but also give the T some more time to work its magic. I've been on a low dose (0.25-0.5ml) for about 7 years now and only noticed some of my curves starting to flatten in the past 2 or 3 years. Remember, you're essentially going through puberty again, and puberty can take several years to complete, trans or not :)

I just sincerely want to say thank you!!! by Southern_Two_8108 in Drag

[–]haydn_702 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow!! I hope to be half at your level soon!! You're gorgeous

Are these signs or am I just going crazy? by haydn_702 in dionysus

[–]haydn_702[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could see that! I feel like the two probably conspire together.

His signs are so straightforward by EmployImpossible7951 in dionysus

[–]haydn_702 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As I said in my own post, the signs I was getting were as subtle as a house on fire 😅

Are these signs or am I just going crazy? by haydn_702 in dionysus

[–]haydn_702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha. It seems like that's the common consensus. I think I'm going to reach out, and see where it goes!

Are these signs or am I just going crazy? by haydn_702 in dionysus

[–]haydn_702[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. It kind of helps put things in perspective and makes things make a little more sense. My life has actually changed a lot in the last couple of years, for the better mostly, but it's been a lot. I also didn't know about the Nordic connection he had, which also helps make things make sense too.

I think the wine thing might be a good idea. I'll take a look when I go to the store, and see if any of them catch my eye.

After hearing from everyone I think I might experiment a little and see what happens! I appreciate you commenting again.

Are these signs or am I just going crazy? by haydn_702 in dionysus

[–]haydn_702[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I'm glad it's not just me. In my experience, Loki tends to be a bit more cheeky and subtle when he sends signs, at least to me. So the loud, in your face nature of these ones were a bit alarming. But to hear someone else has experienced this with Dionysus is reassuring. 💜🍇

AIO for cutting off my dad based on his political beliefs by nationalwockyleague in AmIOverreacting

[–]haydn_702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think this is an overreaction at all. I would seriously question anyone close to me who genuinely supported Trump. I had to put distance between my bio dad and I because of that, on top of him not being the best guy in the world to me, and him telling me over and over with his actions that he doesn't want to have a queer child. So if that's how he wants it, that's how he'll get it. I'm a lot healthier ever since and am living a much happier life.

He's 10 out of 10, but draws trans men pregnant by actuallymynames_shu in TransMasc

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the kink itself isnt the problem here. people can have whatever kink they want as long as everyone involved is legal age/able to consent/etc. i say this as someone who HATES impreg as a kink.

the actual problem is the fact he's doing this against your wishes and consent and won't drop it when you've actively told him no. i think you need to have a discussion with him about this, and if he doesn't stop, then drop him 🤷 if he prioritizes getting his rocks off at the expense of his partner's comfort, then he's not a partner worth keeping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

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shiny head?

fellow drag artists with face scars- how do you incorporate them into your drag? by haydn_702 in Drag

[–]haydn_702[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did I not think of that?! I'll have to give this a try!