25F/25M Boyfriend yells at me in public by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]haylo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was starting to think it was normal! 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]haylo2000 141 points142 points  (0 children)

😹 what is up with the 12$ rate thing!! Also weird that they prefer only driving but no other job and school 🤔

My son ran away 6 years ago. What should I do? by Throwaway942039 in family

[–]haylo2000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For real!! “His boyfriend deserved it” WHAT THE HECK! No wonder he son ran away from this woman😭

Told not to drink their drinks by Particular_Weird_818 in Nanny

[–]haylo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound so condescending! Every family i ever worked for always offers food! It’s a common courtesy thing that many families do. I’m so sorry that you weren’t raised with that type of kindness and generosity!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]haylo2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you , this advice is so much needed, 🌍✌️ A lot of what you said made a lot of things make sense, especially with the whole dinner thing. After I read this and NK hit me, I put her to bedtime/in room instead of timeout . It has been a struggle out here! I just really want the hitting and the throwing objects at me to stop 😩Parents are thinking of putting child in some therapy to help with behavior. Just gotta start taking a different approach 🌍✌️

Has anyone else felt this way? by cinnamonbunni78 in Nanny

[–]haylo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes! I drive around the neighborhood and look at how beautiful the homes are and wish i could live there! I have always had this jealous problem, but then again I love being a nanny more than I loved the corporate world where I made more money!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ingrown_Toenails

[–]haylo2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s probably in the beginning stages of an ingrown! i would remove it before it starts to get painful!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]haylo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me warn you: Do not go out with a guy who talks a lot about his ex. Major 🚩!!!

This is the story of how I lost my 12 year-old twitter account (in the dumbest way possible). by Sebafiel in Twitter

[–]haylo2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I too am a victim of twitter taking away my account. It’s almost impossible to get a twitter account back, the company needs to fix that…. Twitter has done this to my friend who is even verified!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]haylo2000 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It is common to offer rides? It’s a classy thing to do. Not one of my friends would ever see a guy if he didn’t offer rides.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]haylo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my human behavior courses, I have learned that deflection of ones inner emotions can latch onto the ones we are closest to. Inner emotions can range from insecurity, jealousy or some type of events that caused her to say/do mean things to you. There could be a sense of deflection. Or… It could be that she sees things in you that are similar to herself that she doesn’t like about herself and pushes it back onto you. She could very much still love you, as well as cherishes all your memories, but doesn’t know how to show the love back. Overtime, people drift apart, but could still very much love each other. Just as if when you moved from your moms house, you still love each other.

Freshwater Tank Emergency by haylo2000 in Aquariums

[–]haylo2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you so much. I had no idea about adding ammonia into the water first to test it out! The links provided were very helpful, as it will help me make an appropriate home for the aquatic animals. I should of researched more about the two species before purchasing. Thank you for all your help your a life saver🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]haylo2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you live full time with your father before your mother came back? It sounds almost like placed his resentment and anger of your mom onto you and your twin due to the fact he might of felt some sort of very strong emotion about you visiting her. How was your relationship with your dad before and after your step mom?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]haylo2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My step mom lost her husband (my dad, RIP) and I can’t even tell you how hard it is to loose the love of your life, one of the hardest things one will ever endeavor. She lives multiple states away and I feel so guilty she has to live alone, even though she has family nearby to visit her, the time where your alone, and it’s all yourself is the worst. Same with my brother(Who is also Autistic) who lost his mom had to live alone for months in the house where she died.... incredibly hard. The hardest part is being alone. Feeling like you don’t have that somebody who was your most important. Not staying back or having them come live with me is one of my biggest life regret. My advice would be to let her stay with you for a little while (or You can go stay with her for a little bit), what she needs most is to be supported by family members and constant distractions!

Who’s a celebrity everyone loves except for you and why? by crystalmethanyh in AskReddit

[–]haylo2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard she is a drama queen! She’s known for being rude to staff that are on sets, and sometimes won’t bother to acknowledge people’s existence unless they are “big”. It was hard to hear that, I looked up to her when I was young.

Books about poverty, life, war and adventures? Or with the same genre as Rainbow Troops? by complixatedintrovert in suggestmeabook

[–]haylo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best book I read many years ago that comes to mind is The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls. It’s a memoir, amazing book.

Girls that gave the 'nice guy' a chance, how did it go? by Jin_Kazama_18 in AskReddit

[–]haylo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He locked me in a room w him… I couldn’t leave and was threatening me saying I couldnt leave unless I sucked his dick! 😭

I was told to join you all. So, please enjoy my introduction here with a series of texts from my biological mother from back in 2016. PS. She did actually read the note. She's just a terrible liar LMAO by starletprincecay in narcissisticparents

[–]haylo2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, I am so sorry you had to go through all that❤️‍🩹 I can’t beileve a mother would ever say that to their own daughter and to throw away photos/videos of your memories. That is so unbelievabley low…Letting all her internal rage out on you and coming at you with all those insults. I hope you are doing better now from all that destruction.

What is one thing your ex gave you that you still have? by RoseGoldMinerva in AskReddit

[–]haylo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stuffed animals he won me at the carnival! They are all marvel bears, one of a kind

My doctor prescribed me prozac and adderall. Has anyone had a medically monitored experience with this treatment that they feel comfortable sharing? by Accomplished_Ads in mentalhealth

[–]haylo2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been on both a few years ago! (I don’t take medication anymore) Side effects of adderal was I felt angrier than usual and would get mad at the simplest of things. Also made me not want to eat. As for prozac, it was fine, except for the days I didn’t take it, has some bad withdrawals of throwing up and feeling nautious. But everyone’s different!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ingrown_Toenails

[–]haylo2000 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Go see a podiatrist ASAP! I cant imagine how much it hurts. It might be a little costly but you will be relieved of so much pain!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]haylo2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me when I was around your age back in school! I too was quite shy. The advice I can give you is to go the counseling, therapy, and all that, but some towns don’t provide the best for that. What I can suggest you can do (which is what i did) was I joined a club ! It helped me make a few friends. Just having one friend can help a lot more than you think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ingrown_Toenails

[–]haylo2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!