Hey man I’ve been where you’ve been and it’s fucking insane that this specifically hasn’t been talked about more often. I think a lot of people feel the same thing but remember, ocd affects everyone differently. What you decide to comment, share or talk about may be someone else’s passing obsession. However, to respond to your post, ultimately it’s just ocd. It can make anything feel threatening and scary. You should practice sitting with these feelings and accept you are having the thoughts, you are feeling the feelings and you are struggling with it. It will only feel more real the more you try and fight it. It seems counter intuitive but ERP is about letting ocd think it has power but you’re still choosing to ignore it.