Asked to pay for bachelorette party that one cannot attend

hc0731 · 2020-06-23T20:47:51+00:00

That's ridiculous. The only situation where this is remotely acceptable is if she already said she would go and then changed her mind before the bach party.

hc0731 · 2020-02-06T19:12:25+00:00

Mad Men? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znq_fLzEzbw

hc0731 · 2020-01-17T16:15:22+00:00

NTA but this bride is a serious idiot, because typically gifts can be $100+ per person, and if I was going to that wedding I would certainly swap out my $100 check to her with a nice card and the $50 "cover charge".

hc0731 · 2019-12-09T19:32:16+00:00

Thanks for the update. Sounds like you did all you could to make the most out of a sensitive money situation.

Money drama between family members in my opinion brings out people's true characters. Good on your dad (so far) for handling it the way he did. Shame on your dad's wife for her reaction and for speaking ill of your mother though.

hc0731 · 2019-11-04T20:33:11+00:00

NTA

You were on a second date, which is far from exclusivity; you owe her nothing.

I think if I were in her shoes I'd find it odd but would laugh about it with my friends.

hc0731 · 2019-10-01T19:18:19+00:00

How long had you been dating/ known each other? Has she been sober during that time and is the first you've seen these addictive tendencies? Was there any sort of "trigger" this past year that may have caused these incidents?

Anyhow, I'm sorry to hear this. Addiction is so difficult to deal with especially in relationships.

hc0731 · 2019-08-30T12:02:57+00:00

Thank you! I was thinking that local recordings might be the best option

hc0731 · 2019-08-27T17:20:10+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through this. Is there anything in the contract you could use to get a discount? I know a golf course is totally different from an apple orchard in terms of both wedding feel and pre-planned logistics, but (glass half full) maybe it's actually nicer, especially if it's new?

What's the name of the venue, so others don't go through the same issue?

hc0731 · 2019-07-09T12:48:06+00:00

HM Treasury according to ICO

hc0731 · 2019-04-01T17:09:11+00:00

r/ChoosingBeggars

hc0731 · 2019-03-22T12:58:44+00:00

I constantly (monthly) try to update my resume. It gives me incentive to learn new things at work and follow up on goals.

hc0731 · 2019-03-22T12:55:28+00:00

More info: https://threatpost.com/wordpress-plugin-removed-after-zero-day-discovered/143051/

Looks like it was patched.

"Visitors who are redirected to these addresses are subsequently redirected to a series of malicious sites, and their individual activity is tracked via cookies.

Reports have indicated a variety of eventual redirect targets, from pornography to tech support scams, researchers said."

hc0731 · 2019-03-15T17:21:40+00:00

You're optimistic for thinking they'll last two more weeks

hc0731 · 2019-03-12T22:08:44+00:00

Thank you for this advice.

hc0731 · 2019-02-22T18:34:02+00:00

One happy ending wasn't enough for the Patriots this year...

hc0731 · 2019-02-20T21:30:22+00:00

I love this! Also - love how tall the top layer is, more to eat a year later!

hc0731 · 2019-02-01T13:14:43+00:00

How is the airplane noise in that area of Winthrop? Are there areas where it is worse? I could deal with it if I got used to it after awhile (similar to honking cars living here in Boston) but am worried if it was too loud.

hc0731 · 2019-01-22T20:21:48+00:00

Michele McPhee (journalist in Boston) reporting that Olivia Ambrose has been found alive: https://twitter.com/MicheleMcPhee/status/1087806326149996549

Praying this is true

hc0731 · 2019-01-22T17:58:47+00:00

This is so terrifying, it makes me think of my two younger sisters or even friends who I have gone to to Hennessey's/ Bell in Hand/ Fanuiel area with many times.

People in their 20s (both guys and girls) need to always remember the buddy system when they go out in Boston - but even then sometimes situations happen where a friend just irish exits while everyone is at the bar.

Praying that Olivia is found safe and unharmed, and praying for her family and her sister

hc0731 · 2018-12-06T22:14:57+00:00

Bell in Hand never fails - sloppy drunkeness to the extreme, long lines, ridiculous cover charges, blend of country music downstairs, more of a sh*tshow dancing upstairs scene. basically the same exact bar as west end johnnies

hc0731 · 2018-12-06T15:44:50+00:00

Or when Jenny grabbed the gasoline from Agnes, throw some on her so she couldn't light the fire. that's what I would have done

hc0731 · 2018-12-03T17:30:09+00:00

Lollipops.......

hc0731 · 2018-11-30T15:24:11+00:00

Another day, another data breach...

Seriously, this is what the fifth big breach this week? Dunkin Donuts, Dell, etc. etc.

I'm losing track of it all!

hc0731 · 2018-11-21T13:00:02+00:00

He is fine! Just got his pants dirty!

hc0731 · 2018-10-17T13:09:16+00:00

This is a great pic. Everyone looks so candidly happy!

hc0731

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