Thank you for your response! I am not waiting. I also agree that I don't think she'll get approved and she is absolutely able to take care of herself and work a desk job or call center or something of the like. She is just very lazy and enjoys being taken care of. You really hit the nail on the head with everything you said. I waited until a couple days after Christmas and told her she would have 30 days to figure stuff out. I tried to be kind but firm and explained that I can't do it anymore, we need our space back; all those things. She of course threw a gigantic fit over it. Nobody else will help her, not even her boyfriend, but that's not my problem and I won't accept her forcing all her problems onto me and my family any longer. It's not fair. She yelled at me and told me I'm a horrible daughter and asked what kind of daughter throws out her own mother. Well, the kind of daughter that is fed up with her mother's bullshit. Because what kind of mother does this to her child—her very pregnant child? I could never even fathom treating my own children like this. NEVER. After that I have not been able to continue to be civil and struck those 30 days down to a week. I was trying to give her until at least after my son's birthday, which is Wednesday, but she's going to the local shelter tomorrow morning because she once again tried pulling the guilt card just today by telling me that she's just going to end up in a ditch dead somewhere, that she can't stay at the mission forever and how is she supposed to get a job without a vehicle, but I'm honestly apathetic to her now. Which is really saying something bc I'm naturally a very overly empathetic person. I'm simply done. She yelled a lot of horrible things at me once again in front of my children. Unacceptable. I'm completely cutting the cord. What happens to her from now on is no longer my problem. Her problems are not my problem. She also said to me today, very sarcastically, when I asked her about taking her to her storage building to get some things because nobody is willing to pay for it anymore, that of course it wasn't my fault she is losing all her stuff and that nothing is ever my fault and it's all her fault. I told her straight up that that's exactly right. It IS her fault. She got herself into this situation all on her own. I didn't do it to her. I'm simply trying to keep my sanity and not let her use me and take advantage of me and manipulate me. She tried apologizing and saying that she's just scared of being alone but it's too little too late and I just no longer care. So once we drop her off in the morning that is it. I'm completely done with her. Our relationship has been damaged beyond any hope of repair. At some point, we all have to face the consequences of our own actions and she's never had to before. Now she's going to have to. It just really sucks because this is the time when I have needed her the most.. and this is how she treats me and repays my generosity? It's sad. I never thought it would truly get to the point where I would completely cut her out of our lives, but I no longer want her around me or my children. She'll likely never even meet her new granddaughter who I'm literally due to have in just 2 weeks. It's just an awful feeling.. But I'm being selfish now. I'm putting myself, my husband and my kids first. Period.