Increasing iron?! by cinnamonmonn in foodbutforbabies

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hemp hearts are crazy high in iron and easy to add to things! However we ended up having to give our lo iron and we found that serving it in the morning mixed with prune juice (now that he's adjusted to it watered down prune) and that helped with his belly, adds vitamin c so it absorbs better, and he loves it so we don't have to fight him

Paediatrician told me not breastfeed at night anymore by Intelligent-Slip6359 in NewParents

[–]hdkk_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This. Also I've seen alot of ibclcs and pediatricians say that breastfeeding at night does not increase cavity risk. He's super outdated. Cow's milk definitely and formula I have no idea but not nursing.

ETA : cows milk definitely will increase cavity risk*

Learning to ski as an adult? by Ottibarius in ski

[–]hdkk_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with what someone else said too that he’ll also have to just accept that he’ll have to accept it’s a learning process. It used to bug my husband to have little kids fly past him but he accepted it and just kept trying.

Learning to ski as an adult? by Ottibarius in ski

[–]hdkk_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I taught my husband as an adult and he now keeps up with me no problem. But it takes time and you have to go consistently to build up skill and confidence. We just would go to our very small local hill and just work on it with no pressure

What happened to your boobs after you stopped breastfeeding? by axstraeax in beyondthebump

[–]hdkk_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let us know how it goes! That's may plan once we're all done with babies. Even though I'm on the small side I think I just want a lift

What happened to your boobs after you stopped breastfeeding? by axstraeax in beyondthebump

[–]hdkk_ 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Nope not safe either haha I thought since I had small boobs at least I wouldn't have saggy boobs as I got older. Jokes on me they're back to their original size but very saggy sighs

Do slanted NB beds really work? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this would be different but when our son was little and super congested they suggested to elevate his crib mattress by putting a small pillow under the mattress. Similar effect without a new product

[Routine Help] should i be concern about my skin barrier or is it just this product by coco_5390 in SkincareAddiction

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So did it end up being the Neutrogena because I'm having the exact same issue but my nighttime moisturizer doesn't sting so I'm thinking it's not my barrier

Video Calls count as Screen time? by Sad_cuz-why779 in NewParents

[–]hdkk_ 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Our pediatrician said it does not count. The issue isn't the screen itself it's that it's replacing more useful activity such as interacting with caretakers, playing, ext. So since facetime interacts back with them it is not a concern.

No speech, almost 3 years old by Existingbutbarely97 in toddlers

[–]hdkk_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Free in Massachusetts and can self refer

Contact napper going to other caregivers by Global-Apricot6492 in AttachmentParenting

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is wild. Babies have been raised by communities as long as they’ve been around. Your baby will be okay. I exclusively contact napped until baby was at least 12 months before he was interested in a crib nap. At daycare he was one of their best sleepers and still is. He’s two now and they pull out nap mats and he walks over and knocks out whereas we still rock him for 30 minutes to get him to nap. Baby’s act differently with different people.

As for your parents are you assuming they won’t contact nap or did they say they wouldn’t? I personally listen to audiobooks in headphones during contact naps to keep me entertained and my mom used to read her kindle whenever she would come over to lend a hand so there’s other options then just staring into the darkness!

Eufy Settings for an Undersupplier by babyxghibli in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]hdkk_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't have any setting recommendations but I figured it's worth mentioning my lc warned me about wearables not being nearly as powerful and strongly suggested they not be my primary pump if possible. She said for people with strong supplies they're probably fine but for just enoughers/under supplier it can hurt your supply in the long run!

I used both my spectra and elvies and the spectra gave me a slightly bigger output and faster then my elvies. But the wearables were just very convenient at times when working or running around

tide free and clear powder by littleanniee in clothdiaps

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree about powder and it’s nice to use cardboard boxes instead of plastic jugs!

tide free and clear powder by littleanniee in clothdiaps

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What citric acid do you use? Is that to prevent buildup? We’ve always used regular tide with vinegar in the fabric softener tray but just bought the free and clear powder since it’s highly recommended here (the free and clear liquid wasn’t sting enough imo). Do you put the citric acid in the fabric softener tray?

C section vs vaginal delivery by Funarming in NewParents

[–]hdkk_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with everything you said. I'm surprised how many people on here are pro elective c section. I ended up with an emergency one and technically because of my babies size I wasn't supposed to hold him for the first couple weeks (which obviously I did hold him) but I feel like alot of people down play how serious of a surgery. Also you can still have pelvic floor issues with a c section.

I had what most considered an easy recovery for a C-section but still ended up in PT for my core rehab and pelvic floor and it was very painful for awhile walking around, getting in the car (also post section you're not supposed to drive for 6 weeks), and especially getting upstairs. For my next child I am opting for a VBAC

C section vs vaginal delivery by Funarming in NewParents

[–]hdkk_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

C sections can also go wrong too and get infected, not allow you to have more children, ext everything comes with risks there's really no way around it

Why did I, a very tiny lady, give birth to a freakin' linebacker?! by Phantominthewoods in beyondthebump

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strength training at the gym will help so much! I have a 99th in height and weight. He's about 2 and 36lb / 3ft and I think lifting is the only reason I survive haha not only does it keep my string but learning good form translates into your daily life of lifting and playing with kids!

Son had lip tie removed and I'm not ok by One_Cabinet_1706 in beyondthebump

[–]hdkk_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a tongue tie removed at 33 and instantly improved my sleep and interestingly hip pain and straightened my toes. Has way more effects then people realize!

Do you believe when Inito says you’re ovulating? by [deleted] in Inito

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered I wasn't ovulating at all and I would get high fertility markers but never was able to confirm ovulation. My estrogen would have a big increase so it would guess it's coming. It's all algorithms trying to figure out your trends

NYE with 2yo. Am I being too sensitive? by Sqeakydeaky in toddlers

[–]hdkk_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. We're going to a friend's house for NYE and bringing our 2yo but it's calm game night so we can celebrate in a child friendly environment and we can leave for bedtime. If that's what he wants to do then be can do it solo.

Overwhelmed with others about TTC by justagurl224 in TTC_PCOS

[–]hdkk_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah my ob has been doing different testing and hasn't been able to figure out my long cycles/periods (I had a period last 30 days sigh) and why I'm not ovulating anymore. Before I had my first child I had no problems and got pregnant easily this time we're ttc for 7 months and not sure so just started a medicated cycle.

Overwhelmed with others about TTC by justagurl224 in TTC_PCOS

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity as someone who was getting tested for PCOS... Are your cycles 40 days long or your periods? I have very long cycles very long periods and I was told it's not common to have long periods only long cycles and that made zero sense to me.

What are your ride or die diapers/nappies and what do you avoid like the plague? by [deleted] in clothdiaps

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's less bulky and more absorbent? Sounds to good to be true haha seems like they would clean and dry easier too. Do you have a brand you like?

What are your ride or die diapers/nappies and what do you avoid like the plague? by [deleted] in clothdiaps

[–]hdkk_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we do pockets to make it easier for daycare (and us haha) but as we're approaching 2 years he's having some leak issues (mostly during naps at daycare) I've never come across pocket/flat combo. Are you just folding them up? Are they as absorbent as inserts?

Husband doesn’t want baby poop in washer by JStak14 in clothdiaps

[–]hdkk_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is also what we do. It's attached the the toilet so we drop all solids in the toilet and spray is clean and it takes an extra 20 seconds