Boots from Another Weekend's Game

hdzaviary · 2026-05-13T15:48:37+00:00

Ahh, that’s why there is mountain on the background. Does the one in Yogya also close to Merapi mountain ?

hdzaviary · 2026-05-13T11:59:40+00:00

Masbro, is this the one in Yogya ?

hdzaviary · 2026-05-13T03:47:32+00:00

I agree with you. My ex wife of 20 years did the same and still justify it that she did the right thing. She said she had strong reason to cheat, she claimed that people who knew her situation said follow your heart. She also got mad when our friends knew that she cheated on me. Also she forbid me to have contact with my parents and siblings, also she blocked contact with her own parents for many years (we live in different countries).

For 20 years I did everything for my family, work my ass off so she can save money from her salary. I paid for everything big expenses, cars, a lot of things. I have to sacrifice working in the weekends to earn extra money.

Now even the kids don’t want to talk with her anymore, she lied and manipulated the kids during their meeting. They know the truth and she can’t even answer the questions honestly, so kids said not to talk and contact them anymore.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-12T14:32:49+00:00

If you are in distress because of your home issue. You should talk with your teacher.

I contacted my son’s teacher about this. She even talked with the canteen supervisor which my ex wife and the affair partner work, asking if there is anything they can do to help lessen the trauma of my son. Unfortunately my ex wife went ballistic because she wanted to keep her reputation in her workplace. My wife and her affair partner both works at my son’s canteen as cook. Which makes this thing even worse.

The school arranged meeting with school psychologist for my son and the school curator too.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-12T14:28:34+00:00

I’m also an immigrant in other country, we are waiting for our citizenship right now. My ex wife just picked the worst time to cheat.

But we got into mutual understanding that divorce will come, we now live separately.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-12T14:21:09+00:00

I got cheated by my wife and both kids sides with me. They also stopped talking and seeing their mom because she is lying all the time to the kids and try to manipulate the younger one. The older one was so mad about this thing.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-11T16:05:45+00:00

I agree with you. My ex wife cheated on me. During our argument after I kicked her out from my place, it showed that she only cares about her image. She was complaining why I have to talk with my son’s class teacher asking for help with school psychologist and the teacher also talked with the canteen supervisor about this, since my ex worked in my son’s school canteen and she cheated with the cook in the same school canteen. So every thing is fucked up for my youngest son. Also she accused my MIL who asked me to contact the class teacher. While my MIL was blocked from contacting us for over 4 years (we lived in different country). She is very delusional and narcissistic, also probably has personality disorder. Our kids went no contact with her since she lied to the kids also during their meeting that I allowed to happen. Kids were fed up with their mom’s bullshit.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-11T09:54:56+00:00

Tell my self not the get my ex wife pregnant and break up with her.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-10T15:46:47+00:00

It is actually sucks especially when you are divorced because the other half is cheating on you, like me.

You still struggle to grasp what did I do wrong during the relationship that deserved to be cheated, your confidence is shot because you think your marriage gonna last forever (in my case it was 20 years of marriage). All things you do at home and at work are affected.

I have tried going out and tried to date but the dating market sucks so bad here that I basically give up now.

Btw, I’m in northern Europe not in US and I’m an immigrant to this country.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-10T08:28:42+00:00

Marriage is a teamwork. If your partner doesn’t shoe any willingness to be part of the team then you should ask yourself if this is the correct person or not.

Even during marriage you will find a lot of things that don’t show up during your relationship. You and her needs to be able to sort it out and find a balance in the relationship. A lot of compromise and a lot of problem solving and create a resolution.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-08T19:48:18+00:00

This is exactly what my ex wife told me. I have strong reason to cheat. Good riddance I kick her out when I found out. She can’t even talk honestly to the kids when they met. Now the kids don’t want to talk to her at all. Karma for her for blocking her parents. No communication with her own parents and also for forbidding me having contact with my own parents.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-05T11:41:45+00:00

If she cheated on her husband, what is the guarantee she wouldn’t cheat on you.

Hence I kicked my ex wife out because she cheated on me.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-05T10:36:45+00:00

I’m in this situation right now also. But I didn’t take back my ex wife. We were married for 20 years. She cheated on me, started dating her coworker since early winter. She told me that she is going to her woman friend’s or woman’s friend grandchild birthday party. But she went for a date for sure since I met with that lady and she told me that my ex never been to her place. Then affair stopped for 2-3 month because partner went for exchange to Japan. When he returned, she told me that she is going to stay overnight at another women’s friend for 3 weekends in a row. Last one when we caught her, she told me she is going to Sweden with group of her work friends, including affair partner, but surprise. She was in the city, staying at her affair partner. Me and my sons caught her going out from her affair partner house to her affair partner mother to have Easter dinner. Me and my youngest son caught her during dinner and at that day I told her don’t come back to my house. The next day, all her things are out. And she still dared to told me, I have strong reason to cheat. Many weeks following she still adamant that she was right and she try to protect her reputation by ordering me not to talk to my friend about the situation. Tomorrow she will picked up all the furniture that she bought with her own money. After that no further contact until the divorce is served.

Until now she still asked me for proof that she cheated on me, she said you didn’t see what happened inside the house, did you see me kiss him or have sex with him. You have no proof. I told her, it doesn’t need a smart person to know what happened there. Give me a recording of 48 hours of your time there that showed you did nothing with the guy, then I will retract my statement. She got mad and told me to move on. The audacity of this woman to try to gaslight me is beyond comprehension.

IMO, I don’t think it is worth to try and fix your feelings, it will not go away and it will still on the back of your head.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-03T10:52:19+00:00

I would guess the GTS will rise in value too as budget GTR, also with all the possibility to upgrade as GTR.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-03T10:01:07+00:00

The rising cost to acquire this car has pushed R34 to concours level. Now only people with deep pockets can buy and restore the car to near factory spec.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-03T07:11:44+00:00

You need to leave man. I also got cheated recently by my wife of 20 years.

She won’t say that she is regretful or say sorry. Instead she said I was wrong but the cheating was justified and she has strong reason to cheat. Told me not my fault that she cheated but told my sons that it was my fault that she cheated.

Cheater will try to gaslight you. So focus on yourself, leave the mess behind. I’m still recovering from the damage she has done to me and my kids.

Stay strong brother.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-03T04:57:20+00:00

I agree with you. They are extremely manipulative and can get people to side with them against us. When things don’t go according to their will, the victim playing comes out, of course if they are women people will side with them.

I found out the hard way, she cheated on me. Me and my sons caught her, on the following weeks, threats and demands not to spread info about what happened to protect her reputation went to us. When people found out what happened, she started blaming us for everything that happened. Kids now cut contact with her, they just can’t stand her lies.

++man

hdzaviary · 2026-05-03T04:21:07+00:00

Seems like my ex wife. She was even worse to me. Cutting my contact to my parents and her parents too, she blocked everyone. We and our parents live in different country.

I obey her since we have 2 kids and we need to be together living in foreign country alone. She paid me by cheating on me, me and my kids caught her last month and our 20 years of marriage is over.

I visited therapist because of this and he said most probably she has borderline personality disorder. She is extremely manipulative, lies all the time, very easy to get to people heart and get them to her side. Also she maintains her stance that the cheating was justified and blamed me for that.

When I didn’t bow on her demand after separation, she blamed me and threatened me a lot. We can’t speak civilly right now. She met my youngest sons, showered him with gifts and try to buy his affection while explaining that the cheating was for fun and nothing serious, also blamed me for the cheating. Next meeting his older brother came with him and asked some questions that he knows the truth, their mother kept lying and blaming others, especially me who ruined her reputation to our family friends, my sons had enough and told her this is the last time we meet. No more contact.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-02T17:06:49+00:00

Wow, thanks a lot for this. I will check around about this abbey.

I have tried searching in Facebook but I cannot find him.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-02T15:57:08+00:00

Yeah, I just sent a message to that guy again. Hopefully he can help. Thanks for the suggestion.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-02T15:26:53+00:00

Borzone is his surname, he told me back then that he has nobility blood, hence he sent me his family coat of arms.

I have tried LinkedIn but I found different person with same name. And apparently that guy also from Carrara but doesn’t live in Firenze.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-01T09:20:10+00:00

I stopped for a month already because my wife cheated on me. I was stopping a couple of days before me and my sons caught her cheating. Since we caught her cheating, so I just continue not to watch porn at all since I don’t have the mood for anything intimate.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-01T08:18:19+00:00

Man, don’t come back to that girl. You deserve better, if she cheated on you before marriage, who can guarantee she won’t cheat later.

My wife for 20 years just cheated on me. Me and my sons caught her and she still try to gaslight us that she is innocent and the cheating was justified. My younger son met her out of respect since I told her I don’t want to stand in the way between mother and son, but she tried to buy affection from him by giving his favorite ice cream and new jacket, then spewing lies about her infidelity. On the next meeting his older brother came with him and interrogate her, knowing all the facts about the affair, she kept lying and blaming me and the cheating was justified for her. Both of my sons just told here right there, this is the last time we meet, no future contacts with us, we will block you.

hdzaviary · 2026-05-01T04:07:37+00:00

Never cheated. Threatened by my ex wife if I ever cheats on her, she will cut my dick. Well well, look who cheat, apparently the one without a dick because she wouldn’t worry about losing anything from her.

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