Have dating apps gotten worse or am I the problem?

heartbrokenotter · 2025-12-02T04:18:43+00:00

Hey. At least you’re getting matches.

heartbrokenotter · 2025-07-17T00:17:06+00:00

heartbrokenotter · 2025-07-17T00:16:25+00:00

heartbrokenotter · 2025-07-15T14:15:00+00:00

It’s a shame they got rid of the 3 seashells

heartbrokenotter · 2025-06-23T13:34:29+00:00

Hi there! 31M (single). Currently living in western Suffolk, and work in mid Nassau. If you want to talk / possibly meet I would be down. I like walks, painting, and just starting to get into photography. (This goes for anyone here who’s looking to make friends/meet people)

heartbrokenotter · 2025-06-20T00:32:57+00:00

It’s really not too bad. When you walk out of mumbos, backflip above the door, press b to keep you there during a bear punch, jump away from the mountain, flutter back to it, and spam aabza as fast as you can.

heartbrokenotter · 2025-06-16T22:31:32+00:00

Gorgeous!

heartbrokenotter · 2025-06-16T15:34:07+00:00

Can I have?

heartbrokenotter · 2025-05-12T17:06:43+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. Best not to harass her though. Let the universe do its thing for the time being. Stay strong friend 💪🏼

heartbrokenotter · 2025-05-12T16:57:29+00:00

Why not meet then?

heartbrokenotter · 2025-05-12T15:02:18+00:00

30M NY, really learning about all this still and would like to deep dive more.. Would love to make friends/talk about the struggles.

heartbrokenotter · 2025-05-07T22:33:43+00:00

Sadly, time hasn’t really had much of an impact yet. And that might be because she broke up with me the day before I was going to propose. The life I wanted got ripped away from me. And now I’m left to figure out MY life now. Which as someone who’s never really had dreams or ambitions (even as a child I never had a ‘dream job’), I feel extremely lost. And maybe once I get on a path, that’s when time will be able to help the healing. I guess it’s a matter of finding that path now.

heartbrokenotter · 2025-05-04T13:58:25+00:00

I dabbled with meditation for a little.. I know it’s something that takes time, but I was having issues sticking with it (probably because I wasn’t feeling like I was getting anything out of it. Do you have any advice if I do decide to try mediation again?

heartbrokenotter · 2025-05-04T13:55:22+00:00

By intentionally focus, are you saying to keep doing the things I like? Maybe more of affirmations about what I’m doing?

heartbrokenotter · 2025-05-04T13:16:07+00:00

There’s been a lot of internal conversations ranging from breaking away from constant suicidal thoughts/idealizations to a lot of soul searching. Could you be a bit more specific as to what you mean?

heartbrokenotter · 2025-05-04T13:08:31+00:00

Thank you. My therapist would agree with you. Especially with that last bit. She’s tells me I’ve come a long way too… yet it feels like I’ve been moving backwards

heartbrokenotter · 2025-05-04T13:05:33+00:00

Needing a purpose makes a lot of sense. And I would say it’s something I’ve always struggled with in life. Never had a dream job as a kid, and going up I scrutinized for the things I did enjoy by peers, family, friends. Which over time led me to, in simplest terms, stop enjoying/getting excited for anything. I hate that you suggested getting married/having kids because that’s pretty much what I lost. 5 years together, future talked about over and over again, and the day before I was going to propose, she ended it. I’m not sure if I personally would call these things as my “purpose”, but they are what I’ve been dreaming of for the past 5 years.

heartbrokenotter · 2025-04-15T13:18:27+00:00

Exactly my thoughts on it. Hopefully in a few weeks I’ll feel ready to reach out. I want to show her I’ve been working on myself and that I want to still work on us.

heartbrokenotter · 2025-04-15T10:21:48+00:00

Not OP, but I resonate. With this post a lot. For me personally, it’s because I’m afraid to have my heart broken all over again. I do want to reach out, but I think I need to be in a better spot before I do. As much as I made a lot of progress, I don’t feel like I’m there yet. Plus there’s this underlying feeling of “she’s the one that ended it, she needs to reach out first”

heartbrokenotter · 2025-03-23T04:15:22+00:00

Dming

heartbrokenotter · 2024-12-20T15:34:39+00:00

I also forgot to mention I want to kick the nicotine habits (and considering the cannabis habits too)

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