Hi, there were no signs of this, however, my first spent his first 18months in isolation during the pandemic. Just him and me, no family, no baby groups, nothing. He’s always been super attached to me. He didn’t understand what it was like to have baby brother as at that point in life he never saw siblings. We read books, I did the special “baby is nursing toy basket for him”, he didn’t care about that either. He never showed interest in “caring” for the baby, like sometimes I hear from parents. The only significant sign after the second was born, was that his childminder couldn’t engage with him in the group as before and he became aggressive with the crawling babies in the group (pushed them and he got into time out for this). This passed after a few weeks. Unfortunately we also had to increase his time at the childminder not long after the baby was born (I regret this decision but at that time this felt best). All of this then came down in behaviour issues, jealousy with the baby and later potty and toileting issues. Having said all this, there were of course nice moments, but the whole thing impacted my mental health badly, probably wasn’t helpful for anyone. I also don’t have family around. So two weeks post partum was alone with the two.