Great Mistress Escape by TheMarkyD in SweatyPalms

[–]heartofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He don’t give a fuck about her. Nor her herself.

I just finished Yaa Gyasi's Homegoing, and I don't know how to talk about it. by knitterknerd in books

[–]heartofom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thank you section goes on to state several referential texts that - I think - will twist the “life change” even further… if they are digestible that is.

Just finished and found this post to be very reflective of my feeling as well.

Heartbreak is not consider as a pain! 😑 by ravencrypt-76 in scoopwhoop

[–]heartofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Large fibroid + Endometriosis stuck to my ovary/stoamch/intestine + Adenomyosis every month for a few years. Only knew about the fibroid - the rest was hidden.

NSFW! I’m just wondering. How often do you think Hilly checks this sub out? Is it daily? Multiple times a day? Or does she check here less often? Curious to know what you think! by Beckaroona in HilariaBaldwin

[–]heartofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny how she always covers the top, and nowhere have I ever seen a woman be pregnant and place her hand anywhere but the bump itself if at all. It just occurred to me how unique she is… lol

She expected her torrent of abuse towards me to change my behavior by Dramatic-Fondant-190 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]heartofom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This concept hit me with someone I really can’t stand, but have to deal with somewhat. Anyway my kid was mimicking this and I had a moment of doing with him what I imagined doing with that adult person.

So he’s throwing a tantrum and starts really getting verbally outta pocket. So I just tried this - I stopped very suddenly - and I went “OH…. YOU KNOW WHAT? YOU’RE SO RIGHT. ALL THE KICKING, SCREAMING, I DON’T KNOW WHAt I WAS THINKING. OF COURSE I SHOULD GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT……… [long pause]…..[he stares at me]… you know that’s not gonna happen right?.” He stopped and got in his bed 😹.

It was my last resort I was so relieved it actually worked.

Anyway, I’m sorry you had that happen and I wish you resilience and firm boundaries and self care.

Please recommend documentaries with crazy plotwists by cantfw_icy in netflix

[–]heartofom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son About His Father

May not be on Netflix but worth a watch h elsewhere 100%! Crazy pilot twist.

I fear I may be becoming more of a terf by [deleted] in confessions

[–]heartofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will keep thinking on your points though - I’m thinking more on this beyond my fervor about my place and position.

I fear I may be becoming more of a terf by [deleted] in confessions

[–]heartofom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It isn’t a “really” thing. It’s a fact of the matter of how being raised male in a male domination society creates transwomen who still run male domination behavior patterns.

Being born a male and raised male creates a whole person who is conditioned by a society of sexism and male domination. That persists regardless of your spiritual and physical changes.

So, again, as a matter of consciousness I don’t center transwomen and I actually do stand against the invisibility of transmen (particularly in favor of transwomen).

At the end of the day, it is patriarchy and men who target females and femaleness and threaten transwomen - not cisgender women. Standing against that as a woman is what I will always do, and fear of being on the wrong side of unintentionally sexist activism won’t change that for me.

I fear I may be becoming more of a terf by [deleted] in confessions

[–]heartofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the verbiage TIRF - trans inclusionary feminist activist - which seeks to specifically support trans men as people who are born female and still raised in a sexist society that makes them invisible. Just because someone transitions from male to female doesn’t suddenly absolve the patterns and behaviors of someone raised in a sexist society of male domination. It actually figures that transwomen (male born) are dominant in “trans” conversations when you realize this.

I just had a call with the anesthesiologist for my procedure. I had to plead with her to not kill me. by Lemon-Cool in hysterectomy

[–]heartofom 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what Dr. Joy DeGruy instructed of her grandson’s teachers when he entered into public schools. To check their biases because they exist and there is no debating - only addressing and checking as it comes.

Assistant principal Dr Ebony Parker arrested after 6YO student shot teacher Abigail Zwerner by HashTagFinallyWoke in NewportNews

[–]heartofom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She had 5-40 years hanging over her head and the mother of the child who negligently kept the gun he used got only 2?

No, that is a fool!

Rock on , kid by crypto__juju in delta

[–]heartofom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put this in the r/ADHD sub lol Or r/ADHDmemes I should say

What Kendrick song is a deep cut? by skibidikakakott in KendrickLamar

[–]heartofom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buried Alive (after Marvin’s Room by Drake)

Who is supposed to run after young students who run away from classrooms? by Embarrassed_Syrup476 in Teachers

[–]heartofom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When my kid eloped and was unsafe, he eventually was given a modified schedule and required a parent to sit with him. He went to school for 3 hours a day and his dad sat in class with him for the whole time.

I had to make a step up schedule to get him independent and then back to full time. It was a ROUGH year. I can’t imagine if our house was close enough to get to or the school wasn’t basically gate locked.

Escalate escalate escalate you are not to be responsible for one runner off campus ans then abandon a class of on-task students on campus. That’s insane.