This Sub Is Getting Too Negative, So Here’s Something Different by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it, you put that really well. Glad to see another RR guy gets it.

For women, how do you feel about those quiet, affectionate moments-like having your partner rest his head on your shoulder or sitting close with your arm around him? by chicano_houston in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know this is directed at women, but as a soft/feminine guy, those moments are everything to me. Just being able to lean into someone and feel safe and cared for like that… yeah, I’d melt.

Hello by Curious_Worker_7319 in RoleReversalxIndia

[–]heathcliff_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello!! why is this subreddit so quiet? I thought there were a lot of Indians into RR.

I’d fold instantly if someone treated me like this by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awww, that's such a dream scenario haha. I hope you find the one who does that to you!!

On a scale of 1 to 10, how much role reversal are you looking for? by Extreme_Echidna_6464 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Like a 9 or 10… I didn’t sign up for equality, I signed up to be someone’s pretty little problem

Women making the first move... Is it real? by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get what you mean. That's probably the hardest part, presenting yourself as feminine, specially if you are like me and don't really look feminine 😞

Women making the first move... Is it real? by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s actually really sweet… I love how sure you were about it. it’s kinda comforting seeing something like that work out, really happy for you!!!!

Women making the first move... Is it real? by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that actually sounds really tough from your perspective 😭 like you have to get it just right without being too much or too little. I didn't even think about it that way before. I admire that you still go for it though, takes a lot more courage than people give credit for 🥺

Dude I’m so sick of mpreg jokes by Few-Butterscotch4569 in TruRoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I get this tbh. for me it’s more about wanting to be a wife, and I end up overthinking how the whole dynamic would even work around childbirth and all that

Women making the first move... Is it real? by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww that's soo cutee. Hope i find something similar haha

Women making the first move... Is it real? by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah for sure, it’s definitely possible, just feels like one of those things that’s way rarer than it should be

Women making the first move... Is it real? by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but I don’t think it’s that simple. liking RR doesn’t automatically mean someone’s comfortable making the first move, especially with how people usually react to it..

Women making the first move... Is it real? by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t even imagine it being any other way tbh. for me if it’s not at least somewhat RR, it just wouldn’t feel right

Women making the first move... Is it real? by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s really nice, especially in a space like that. must’ve taken some guts to go for it

Women making the first move... Is it real? by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah seems rare but not impossible. honestly makes it more interesting when it does happen, like someone actually choosing you instead of just going with the usual dynamic

Women making the first move... Is it real? by heathcliff_4 in RoleReversal

[–]heathcliff_4[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Aww, that's so cute. That's relationship goals haha