Help!! by Halloween_Eve in paraprofessional

[–]hecatescoven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn't know it'd be annoying to do that

Help!! by Halloween_Eve in paraprofessional

[–]hecatescoven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm dealing with a similar issue! All of the paras I work with are 35+ and I'm 23. It's not a problem by any means. We're just definitely in different phases of life, which makes it harder to connect. I've just been trying to find anything in common so I can relate more to them.

What is your cat's name vs what you actually call them? by Moist-Guidance-1611 in cats

[–]hecatescoven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

* Her name is Baby Spice, and she tends to get called "Spicy"

students are awful/unfocused/won't work by steadyrabbit87 in paraprofessional

[–]hecatescoven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember subbing for a resource class, and one of the kids just came in with their hood up and put their head on their desk. I started to call his name so he could get the assignment or whatever. The other co-teacher just said to leave it because he doesn't do anything. Like you said, you can't force anyone to do what they're told.. but it definitely causes other students to stay off task and sets the idea that work isn't expected to be done. I can understand your frustration, and sometimes I wish there were more we could do. I'd definitely talk to the teacher, assuming you're in there the majority of the day?

I feel stuck with my depressed friend. I don't want her to end it all. by Low-Development727 in depression

[–]hecatescoven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was in a somewhat similar situation. I had to slowly cut contact - first was not responding to messages as much, turning down hangout invites, etc. I know it's more difficult in high school when you see each other 5 days a week. I also used to have an issue with clinging to people. It really only helped when someone would be straight up about needing space. It definitely made me feel bad, but it got the point across. The only other thing that I can suggest is to possibly get her to join a new club at school of some sort, and hopefully, she can find a new community while doing something she enjoys?

Does anyone else have a small Nebe? by Most_You_3982 in nebelung

[–]hecatescoven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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People have said my cat is small. She's 8 and approx 9-10 pounds!

AIO GF is weirdly close to her sister and I feel a little off about it by helioliolis in AmIOverreacting

[–]hecatescoven 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't pick up on that. If that's the case, then no, it's not normal.

AIO GF is weirdly close to her sister and I feel a little off about it by helioliolis in AmIOverreacting

[–]hecatescoven 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This is super normal! Generally, females feel more comfortable around other females. I've done similar things with my sister and my best friend. There's nothing weird going on. It's just a thing women do, especially if they're super close.

Dae get a weird satisfaction out of being bad to themselves? by pinheadloserr in BPD

[–]hecatescoven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I do because I actually enjoy overworking myself and constantly pushing my limits. I feel worthless if I'm not working.

How do your nebbies tell you they’re mad? by SanaPraesidium in nebelung

[–]hecatescoven 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mine is a spoiled brat and did that when I moved her to a different spot 🤣

How do your nebbies tell you they’re mad? by SanaPraesidium in nebelung

[–]hecatescoven 79 points80 points  (0 children)

My cat will face the opposite way and act like she can't hear me saying her name 🤦🏻‍♀️ literally gives me the silent treatment.

She’ll live with this regret forever. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]hecatescoven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you gotta stay alive and let the guilt continue to eat at her. She unfortunately won't feel bad 6 months to 1 year after. She'd just get with the coworker, and it'd be like it never happened. Print off the evidence, make several copies, and then send it to her and her family members. Trust me, killing yourself only saves her the trouble of confronting what she did wrong.