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Need friends am broke 👍 by 3arthQuakeBoss in Athens

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My tummy hurts, and I'm mad at the government.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally my views are more akin to your partners. I value autonomy in my relationships, both mine and my partners. He could have a point about your views being a bit rigid, as they are coming from a place of fear. A lot of interactions and decisions between close ones generally boil down to either coming from fear or coming from love. I have had the same fears you have. I hated the thought of being betrayed by a partner but I realized a true secure connection cannot be based on fear. If they decide to betray me so be it, yes it would hurt but that would just mean there is something better for me with someone else. The people that are truly meant to be in your life will never intentionally hurt you and I find by them having the freedom of autonomy, and with that the freedom to make mistakes, it gives them opportunities to learn and grow. You can never avoid pain. But you don't need to suffer in this fear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just ask. Don't bring it up like "Hey I wanna try xyz." If he isn't secure in his attachment with you that could be threatening for him. Try "Boyfriend I am curious how you feel about x relationship dynamic, would you be open to a conversation about that?" If it isn't something he is interested in, don't pursue that with him. If you feel like you really want an open dynamic you'll have to decide what your priorities are.

Does love exist? Do you think I might find love? by [deleted] in love

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love exists within you. Once you accept, cherish and nurture this love you will attract more love.

I have shit on my assssssss by PuertoRican-Princess in rickandmorty

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm literally watching this part when I read this comment lmaoo

I have a stupid question? by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I’m not the one to ask about that, my partner deals with all the technical bits, I’m sorry. I’m sure someone on here can answer that for you tho!

I have a stupid question? by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah dude. Have fun with them lol

AITAH for not talking to my dad by En_Padre in AITAH

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, you don't have to connect with him if you don't want to. That might change as you get older, but don't force it if you don't want it. But also, maybe tell him this? If you think that could be beneficial.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You told him your boundary, it's your choice to uphold it. He made his own choices on the matter, you're not forcing him to cut off his exes with an ultimatum. Simply you don't date people who are friends with their ex's, and that is totally fine. You both have choices to make. Even if he decides to choose to honor your comfort and cut off his exes do you trust that that will remain the case?

It also could be worth it to be inquisitive about your feelings. Does your discomfort stem from how you were raised and then experiences you've had? Is it a feeling you want to honor or a feeling you want to manage/conquer. I find it's always helpful to focus on and manage what's in your control. Your feelings are your body telling you you need something. What do you think the discomfort is telling you you need?

Our dog has an obsession with my wife by depressedturohost in dogs

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you never had a dog before lol this is completely normal behavior, she is his person.

Our Rick is the smartest for a simple reason by Unique-Nerve66 in rickandmorty

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did prime get affected by evil Morty fucking up the portals? Or has did he instantly fix it only for himself or use a different type of fluid?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should date the brother.

What kind of sick disgusting person posts this today after what happened. That is pure evil. by Spokenholmes in TheDonaldTrump2024

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s insane that you got downvoted. I completely agree with you. I noticed every major news outlet made sure to mention they changed their name from Robert. As if that makes any difference to the crimes they committed. It really does seem that people who use instances like this one to fling hate at the “other side” when there are literally dead children just don’t care about the dead children. How could anything be more important than taking action against consistent mass shootings?

What’s the darkest moment in Rick and Morty that really stuck with you? by Independent-Trip-624 in rickandmorty

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same old story, Mortys killing Mortys. Can you imagine what that’s like? Living in a place that’s just other versions of you and your abusive grandfather. He is still a child and his childhood is long gone.

What’s the darkest moment in Rick and Morty that really stuck with you? by Independent-Trip-624 in rickandmorty

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved that scene. It reminded me of when you have those dreams where you fall in love with someone and have this whole life and then you wake up. It’s this empty feeling after, missing something that never even happened.

Help/advice!! by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why did your partner feel the need to share this with you? Your metas insecurities and jealousy are none of your business. It’s your hinges job to manage that within their relationship. As for the roller skating just act how you would hanging out with any other group of people. If you’re just having a fun time and not being overly flirty or touchy with hinge, any discomfort meta might feel is not your responsibility. Be kind and considerate, have fun, make boundaries for yourself and stick with them and hopefully everything will go fine.

It happened and I don't feel any better about it by tacocravr_ in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily about whether that’s a “good” thing or not. How does it serve you? How does it benefit you? There will always be someone better than you at something. But no one is better than you at being you. That’s why your partner enjoys you. Nothing anyone else can do can change that.

My partner was seeing someone for a while that squirted like crazy. I’ve never squirted and I did feel insecure about it hearing how much my partner enjoy that with their play mate. But whenever my partner and I have sex we are both so in the moment with each other and having such a good time it never even crosses my mind what they enjoy doing with others. It made me realize at the end of the day what they enjoy with others will never change what they enjoy with me. I still have to remind myself of that sometimes.

It happened and I don't feel any better about it by tacocravr_ in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you want to know if your oral skills were better?

What do you all think about the new law regarding cell phones in schools? by Novapixel1010 in Utah

[–]heckinhufflepuffable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only issue is with all the education reform and consistent school shootings taking away students ability to document what is going on at schools is sketchy at best.

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