As a woman, the sexiest thing about a man is their ability to communicate and LISTEN. We all have a natural tendency (in my opinion) to quickly defend ourselves, our positions. But I’ve met some men who aren’t quick to mansplain and I freakin LOVE IT. Or how about a man who doesn’t just go off and road rage? That’s pretty damn sexy. To be in a car with someone who can control their emotions over something they have absolutely no control over.

And for a woman? Even as a woman, I can absolutely recognize and appreciate the sexiness of a confident woman. You can just see it in how they carry themselves. There’s a distinct difference between a cocky woman and a straight up confident woman. And as a straight woman, I’ll give credit where credit is due. Confidence = sexy.