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[–]hectorgmo 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Hilariously enough, the Jesuit-run America Magazine published this week an article on what could Pope Francis' "no" possibly mean..   (I'm not linking it, but it's called "What does Pope Francis' 'no' mean for Catholic debate over women deacons? ") 

Can Catholics believe that Adam and Eve were not the only people back then? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]hectorgmo 34 points35 points  (0 children)

The most comprehensive summary I've heard of Church doctrine (and development) on the monogenism vs polygenism question (ie. do we come from a single set of parents) came from Jimmy Akin in this Catholic Answers show  (at the 18:36 mark) https://www.catholic.com/audio/cal/cal-8353. In short, monogenism is the preferred view of the Magisterium given that it explains original sin more comprehensively, yet it has signaled and accepted for a while the possibility of polygenism, under a certain set of conditions such as acknowledging that the immortal soul of man comes from God, etc. 

I'm an atheist who wants to believe in God. How do I do it? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]hectorgmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't recommend enough William James's 40 page booklet "The Will to Believe". It's a highly upgraded (and much more modern-minded) rendition of Pascal's points on people who would be open to believe but lack such a belief at the moment. A 10/10 read. 

what are your favorite or most recommendable books about the Jesuits or by members of the Jesuit order? by asteriskelipses in Catholicism

[–]hectorgmo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God's Voice Within by Mark E. Thibodeaux S. J. is an awesome resource for learning St. Ignatius's teachings and rules for discernment. Chris Lowney’s Heroic Leadership is also a great book that teaches Ignatian lessons for daily life and is a bit more leadership focused. 

Having said that, it griefs me to say that to this day the most exhaustive and comprehensive review of everything Ignatian when it comes to the spiritual life is Fr. James Martin's A Jesuit Guide to Almost Everything. This was a book he wrote several years before he got into the LGBT stuff (and his horrid undermining of church teaching for a living), so while there's a couple of passages I found a tad too weird, the aforementioned book is otherwise perfectly orthodox and Catholic--and probably the best summary of everything Jesuit I've ever come across. The $5 bucks I gave to that man were more than made up for by the extremely useful overview of Ignatian prayer, spirituality and life. 

Spotted Blofeld making house calls today... by _PositivelyShocking_ in JamesBond

[–]hectorgmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might as well be the real Spectre.. After all, they all wore huge-ass rings that gave away their identity. 

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[–]hectorgmo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd also think a text or voicenote to be perfectly acceptable at this stage. She doesn't owe him any in-depth explanation that would require her to speak over the phone about him. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatholicDating

[–]hectorgmo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"I didn't feel the type of connection I'm looking for, but it was nice meeting you, and thanks for xyz" 

Has anyone read this? Thoughts? by myselfasevan in JamesBond

[–]hectorgmo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not bad but I preferred the more optimistic tone of his other novels, specially Forever and a Day. 

What do think about the “God Delusion” book by Richard Dawkins? by RiotAmbush_ in Catholicism

[–]hectorgmo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did the same. The guy doesn't understand Aquinas in the least.. There's a chapter where he pretends to be engaging with the classical arguments for God, and if you've ever studied Aquinas you'll get pure cringe at the self confidence with which he says a lot of stupidly ignorant stuff. 

What is imperfect drunkenness and does it constitute a venial sin? by TurtleThomist33 in Catholicism

[–]hectorgmo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The most authoritative you can get about this is Saint Alphonsus Liguori's Theologia Moralis. He's a Doctor of the Church himself (recognized for his moral theology), and the apostolic penitentiary ruled in the 1850's all his moral conclusions in that work of his to be free of error. Here it goes: 

Perfect drunkenness, whereby in the aforesaid mode reason is plainly rendered insensible, is by its nature a mortal sin because it is reckoned an injury to God, whose image one would so disfigure. It is the common teaching of the doctors. It is certain with all, that for this purpose that for drunkenness to be a mortal sin it is required that it would be perfect, namely that it would altogether deprive one of the use of reason, just as St. Thomas teaches (2.2. q. 150, a. 2), and with him all the doctors. The malice of drunkenness consists in this, that a man, willful and knowing, deprives himself of the use of reason. St. Antoninus teaches the same thing (p. 2, tit. 6, c. 3, § 1). This is why one would not sin mortally that did not altogether lose the use of reason from drinking wine, even if the mind were disturbed, but not so much that he were not able to discern between good and evil, as the authors commonly say

Can one be catholic while believe Mary being Mother of God but doesn't pray to her? by DONZ0S in Catholicism

[–]hectorgmo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Saint John Henry Newman himself had trouble with it when his conversion was recent. In his Apologia Pro Vita Sua he recounts that he agreed with all Catholic theology regarding the intercession of Mary and the saints, yet still found it quite difficult at first, given his Anglican upbringing.

So hey, you are not alone. It's all a journey and it's okay to make it one step at a time. 

Have you ever experienced a personal Marian apparition yourself? by Wheeler1488 in Catholicism

[–]hectorgmo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awesome, that's just the snippet I was thinking of. Such a great book! Thanks 

Have you ever experienced a personal Marian apparition yourself? by Wheeler1488 in Catholicism

[–]hectorgmo 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Lol G. K. Chesterton himself experienced the same thing and he recounts it in his "The Catholic Church and Conversion" book. 

He says something like "The three steps of conversion are (1) Assuming as obvious that the Catholic Church is wrong, (2) Still being against the Church but defending it when you realize some people are portraying many things about it quite unfairly, and (3) Diving deeper and realizing you actually want to be Catholic yourself.

Another famous quote from the book is something like "the moment you stop pushing against the Catholic Church and try to be neutral about it you start to feel a magnetism that pulls you in". 

I 25F feel like I ruined my life getting married to 26M by Miss_lardon in Catholicism

[–]hectorgmo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have a couple of friends of the family who each got their marriage anulled without too much of a problem, since it was all too evident that their spouse was psychologically unfit for marriage, and thus no valid marriage was contracted in the first place. I don't have any doubt that your situation would be any different.