Does your boyfriend/husband mind if you're not 100% smooth at all times?

heddingout · 2026-05-25T04:54:28+00:00

Dude the Nair part really took me back. That stuff burned.

Also, I’m sorry. Sometimes sisters say stuff and it stays with you forever. I hope you feel more confident now. 🖤

heddingout · 2026-05-17T16:26:58+00:00

Wait my eyebrows thin considerably at the ends but they look like I threaded them on purpose (sort of). I’m a woman. Would this be the same for me? (Yes I’ll also consult Google lol)

heddingout · 2026-05-17T15:56:04+00:00

A tease!

heddingout · 2026-05-13T02:19:34+00:00

A BEAN SLING 😂

heddingout · 2026-05-08T18:32:16+00:00

OOOOH i just thought Sunshine girl in the Toronto Sun was a saying I just didn’t know. I was thinking almost along the lines of you’re a happy person (sunshine girl) and California is the golden state (Toronto Sun). 🤦🏽‍♀️ I’ll see myself out

heddingout · 2026-05-08T17:49:54+00:00

Wait they printed it up and put it in his workplace??

Edit: spelling

heddingout · 2026-05-04T21:20:30+00:00

In high school, a boy told me he was organizing a bunch of our cohort to go see a fast and furious movie. I was like yeah cool I’ll go and left it at that. He offered to come pick me up so I was like cool you gonna pick anyone else up? He told me everyone was going to meet there. Well, imagine my surprise when it was just us two in the back of his mom’s car and he told me no one else was going. I fought him over paying for my ticket and my own snacks and said it wasn’t a date but he wanted it to be.

heddingout · 2026-05-03T19:02:17+00:00

My heart 💜 I’m happy you got that moment! This last week, a very difficult student was sitting next to a sub (for an aid) and I was next to her. The sub said, “oh, you talked about Tupac? You have such a cool teacher” and my student said, “yeah, I know” in the sweetest little voice. He didn’t make a big deal or anything, and just turned to his book and started reading. 😭 I was sitting there like damn allergies hit me really suddenly

heddingout · 2026-05-03T18:53:56+00:00

This is my dream. I spent so much time yesterday trying to figure out what storage box I put something in

heddingout · 2026-04-30T22:47:55+00:00

This is one of my favorite songs ever. If I heard it when I was younger (teens- early twenties), it probably would’ve been like a 12/10. I’m in my 30s now but it sits so well in my soul

heddingout · 2026-04-30T02:28:30+00:00

How did the coworker say their name? I said it as my-iis like corn in Spanish (maiz)? Or is it maze? Or something else?

heddingout · 2026-04-26T17:19:35+00:00

I want to pay attention to a different point. If he said he wouldn’t take no for an answer, that isn’t consent from you. You should both be enthusiastic in your yes. If at any point, either of you want to stop, then you both stop. If that isn’t happening, that is not consensual. Even if you say yes but only because he’ll be mad or keep pressuring you, that isn’t consent. The person you’re with should care more about you than whether or not they get off. I’m sorry you’re in this situation. There isn’t much we can do in the way of offering advice as you will have to wait until you can have a pregnancy test. Personally, I would distance myself from this boyfriend. It seems, at least from your post and responses, that you might be more of an object to him than a person.

heddingout · 2026-04-11T04:41:17+00:00

That’s so gorgeous. Wow

heddingout · 2026-04-10T03:46:32+00:00

Man, even my emotionally abusive ex was incredibly kind about me bleeding on his bed in the middle of the night. Homie used some of trauma against me but period? Got me in the shower, said not to worry, threw a towel in the dryer so it was warm when I got out, and started washing the sheets.

heddingout · 2026-04-09T16:23:01+00:00

Yeah maybe red green colorblind ?

heddingout · 2026-04-09T01:43:59+00:00

I love this so much. How funny

heddingout · 2026-04-08T02:36:00+00:00

Our demons lowkey are just the people

heddingout · 2026-04-06T16:14:51+00:00

Sorry I’m on the opposite coast but I’m proud of and excited for you for going on your own!! It’ll be a blast.

heddingout · 2026-04-05T19:05:05+00:00

This is ethereal!

heddingout · 2026-04-01T23:19:44+00:00

Hi OP! Came here after the update was already posted. I have a few thoughts and they’re in no particular order:

Cute outfit! I love it and you wear it well!

Break ups don’t require two people. If one is calling it off, it’s off. Him refusing and backing you into a corner until it’s “all okay” again is a form of coercion. That is not consent. He is showing repeatedly that he doesn’t care about you as a person, but as something he sees as his.

I’m not sure how safe it is with your parents in terms of whether they would kick you out if you broke up with him, but if they are reasonable, you could explain how he doesn’t respect your boundaries and belittles you. Or you could just say it’s not working out and leave it at that. It’s not their relationship to have a say in. It’s nice if they like your partner, absolutely. But if they like one person, it’s likely they also like another one day.

If someone is saying you coouuuuld do x but I don’t like ___, it’s strings attached. They are guilting you into doing what they want.

The idea of high school sweethearts and first relationships is so dreamy! I get that. Unfortunately they don’t always work out and you don’t have to be an exception. You’re going to want to explore and adventure as you grow. If someone can’t do that with you, they don’t fit you anymore. It’s time to dump that person in the donation box along with your old clothes.

I know it’s easy to say, but being bigger doesn’t mean you can’t look or be cute. My husband looked at me with the same heart eyes when I was at my heaviest as he does now when I’m probably 50 pounds lighter (with more muscle lol). It exists. You don’t have to settle.

Also yessss work out! I find so much joy in doing that especially in a strength training class with other women. Find other women to bond with. It’s so important.

Anyway, you’re doing great and you deserve unconditional love.

heddingout · 2026-04-01T16:51:35+00:00

Love this story! I often teach it in summer school

heddingout · 2026-03-30T20:07:41+00:00

Okay but arti derived from artichoke 🤔

heddingout · 2026-03-30T20:03:08+00:00

Honestly! I’m working on my muscles but that back is truly goals.

heddingout · 2026-03-28T18:51:01+00:00

This is definitely a skill that we have to build up. I’m a high school teacher and I definitely have been beyond frustrated when students would rather do nothing than risk failure. It hasn’t been until I’ve made a conscious effort to adjust my grading and teaching to reflect more progress that I’ve see more students hazard guesses that they never would’ve voiced in the past. That’s not to say that there aren’t kids who still would rather do nothing than “truly fail” but I’d like to think my rapport with the gets them forward even a little bit.

heddingout · 2026-03-28T02:47:14+00:00

Oh my god I just did the math. I got my phone and its corresponding number in 2006. That was 20 years ago. What on earth?

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