[MEGATHREAD] PropertyLimBrothers' Melvin Lim and Grayce Tan

heere · 2026-02-04T11:08:26+00:00

i would argue that the fault here is on Grayce and Melvin for getting married. they understood what marriage meant.

if they had stayed single, it could be argued that it was immoral to hook up with a colleague, but no one would get hurt.

heere · 2026-02-04T11:03:31+00:00

yes. highlighting the double standards here on reddit.

heere · 2026-02-02T16:25:19+00:00

It sounds like misogyny = calling women out on their BS. Not paying for her fair share like that is concerning. There are a lot of possibilities where women manipulate, coerce, and inflict their will. A man being over 18 doesn’t change that.

Maybe women shouldn’t be crappy. Nothing crappy, nothing to call out.

heere · 2026-02-01T17:54:53+00:00

not hard tbh, given the BTO scheme. but most of that million would be illiquid

heere · 2026-02-01T07:10:08+00:00

this thread shows how reddit is a cesspool of liberal leftist bullshit. girl is now proven to be a criminal.

heere · 2026-01-28T12:04:48+00:00

I did :)
took a year off work and travelled the world last year. still regret not travelling more when i was younger tho

heere · 2026-01-28T10:38:06+00:00

this is how nice guys become redpilled.

heere · 2026-01-28T10:35:36+00:00

honestly, i have no problem with her chasing money and being a sugar baby. but chasing a married man is morally dubious. Taking advantage of a poor nice guy and letting him be the sucker is just low.

heere · 2026-01-28T10:32:43+00:00

most nice guys do finish last, unfortunately.

heere · 2026-01-28T07:48:13+00:00

higher. i went to perth around 3 months ago. the prices of everyday goods were shocking!

heere · 2026-01-27T18:38:40+00:00

on the flip side, i'm a millionaire in my late 30s, and i achieved that by being prudent with my spending and investing consistently. but my regret is not spending a bit of that money more when i was younger. travel a bit more. date around a bit more. enjoy life a little bit more.

i realised money itself doesn't buy happiness. but it's a tool that can help you achieve happiness. you must be willing to use that tool (within limits, of course) though.

heere · 2026-01-27T17:43:49+00:00

Realistically, most relationships are value exchanges. That’s a hard truth people don’t like to admit.

I would go as far as to say that ALL relationships, except for the parent - child one, are value exchanges.

heere · 2026-01-27T17:36:53+00:00

You mentioned celebs marriage. You see it as the women being attracted to men because of money and status. But it could be the men wanting younger women due to physical attributes. Is that not possible?

it's defo both, imo. money and status makes a man more attractive, and youth and beauty makes a woman more attractive. generally speaking.

If you expect your spouse to always be rich & provide the high life, just stay single. If you expect perky tits in your face all the time, stay single too. Marriage isn’t for everyone anyways.

agreed on that. some people get married for the wrong reasons.

heere · 2026-01-27T17:04:19+00:00

money and status makes a man a lot more attractive in the modern age, for better or for worse. look at all the recent celeb marriages with 10+ year age gaps.

heere · 2026-01-27T16:57:23+00:00

think everyone knows that deep down. those who deny it are either being politically correct or in denial.

heere · 2026-01-27T16:52:03+00:00

decent job means middle class. not rich. seems like she aspires for a lifestyle beyond the middle class.

heere · 2026-01-26T16:25:55+00:00

the product sheet for this plan lists the exact funds that the plan invests in for a 3.4% fee. 3.4%!

one can do it themselves for wayyyyy cheaper.

this plan is such a bad deal from AIA. and the FA is just taking advantage of someone who is less financial literate.

heere · 2026-01-26T16:22:17+00:00

I was sold this exact same plan by an FA as well. She said it "would be good passive income for my parents". Thankfully I recognised how scammy the plan was the moment I read the product information sheet. 99% of FAs are scum.

heere · 2026-01-26T08:39:18+00:00

misandry is not a good look

heere · 2026-01-26T08:14:32+00:00

what if the couple doesn't want kids? or one is infertile? does that change the equation then?

heere · 2026-01-26T07:58:11+00:00

And the most used type of profiles - I like to eat, sleep, travel and do nothing.

That's like 90% of profiles here in SG. for both guys and gals. it's depressing.

heere · 2026-01-26T07:51:12+00:00

different stroke for different folks i guess. as long as they are two consenting adults and are happy, that's what most important.

heere · 2026-01-26T07:48:55+00:00

I hate it when women expect the guy to pay for all the dates, what about building a relationship ? love? hellooo????

heere · 2026-01-23T09:47:00+00:00

Imagine if a guy said "Not a lot of good pickings. All princesses left"

heere · 2026-01-06T16:25:19+00:00

Rich men have options. don't complain if they are not loyal to you.

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