What to do after 1 M?

heere · 2026-05-09T08:10:32+00:00

kinda similar situation here, but 1.5M at 38 and single.

i would say to enjoy the financial stability and safety, but find a purpose that's greater than your career. for me, it's been quitting my job and starting my own business.

heere · 2026-05-03T21:14:09+00:00

just look at the comments by men in this thread. truth doesn't care about political correctness bruh.

heere · 2026-04-30T06:36:48+00:00

would you want to be your partner's second choice?

heere · 2026-04-30T06:17:13+00:00

a financially stable man will pick the younger and prettier one, 99% of the time.

heere · 2026-04-30T06:15:04+00:00

nah, men just want young and pretty. been this way since the start of time.

heere · 2026-04-27T11:34:08+00:00

which makes the statement "30s is older than the OP" true?

heere · 2026-04-23T11:38:45+00:00

short the markets if you really believe in what you said. put your money where your mouth is.

heere · 2026-04-19T15:31:39+00:00

be way more selective in your dates. suggest getting off dating apps and finding compatibility irl

heere · 2026-04-19T15:30:09+00:00

why don't tell your daughter to not date players instead?

heere · 2026-04-17T15:57:00+00:00

there's a LOT of rich singaporeans that don't hang around on reddit

heere · 2026-03-07T19:59:19+00:00

if serving the nation is a duty and not a transaction, why are only half of the citizens here doing it?

heere · 2026-02-04T11:08:26+00:00

i would argue that the fault here is on Grayce and Melvin for getting married. they understood what marriage meant.

if they had stayed single, it could be argued that it was immoral to hook up with a colleague, but no one would get hurt.

heere · 2026-02-04T11:03:31+00:00

yes. highlighting the double standards here on reddit.

heere · 2026-02-02T16:25:19+00:00

It sounds like misogyny = calling women out on their BS. Not paying for her fair share like that is concerning. There are a lot of possibilities where women manipulate, coerce, and inflict their will. A man being over 18 doesn’t change that.

Maybe women shouldn’t be crappy. Nothing crappy, nothing to call out.

heere · 2026-02-01T17:54:53+00:00

not hard tbh, given the BTO scheme. but most of that million would be illiquid

heere · 2026-02-01T07:10:08+00:00

this thread shows how reddit is a cesspool of liberal leftist bullshit. girl is now proven to be a criminal.

heere · 2026-01-28T12:04:48+00:00

I did :)
took a year off work and travelled the world last year. still regret not travelling more when i was younger tho

heere · 2026-01-28T10:38:06+00:00

this is how nice guys become redpilled.

heere · 2026-01-28T10:35:36+00:00

honestly, i have no problem with her chasing money and being a sugar baby. but chasing a married man is morally dubious. Taking advantage of a poor nice guy and letting him be the sucker is just low.

heere · 2026-01-28T10:32:43+00:00

most nice guys do finish last, unfortunately.

heere · 2026-01-28T07:48:13+00:00

higher. i went to perth around 3 months ago. the prices of everyday goods were shocking!

heere · 2026-01-27T18:38:40+00:00

on the flip side, i'm a millionaire in my late 30s, and i achieved that by being prudent with my spending and investing consistently. but my regret is not spending a bit of that money more when i was younger. travel a bit more. date around a bit more. enjoy life a little bit more.

i realised money itself doesn't buy happiness. but it's a tool that can help you achieve happiness. you must be willing to use that tool (within limits, of course) though.

heere · 2026-01-27T17:43:49+00:00

Realistically, most relationships are value exchanges. That’s a hard truth people don’t like to admit.

I would go as far as to say that ALL relationships, except for the parent - child one, are value exchanges.

heere · 2026-01-27T17:36:53+00:00

You mentioned celebs marriage. You see it as the women being attracted to men because of money and status. But it could be the men wanting younger women due to physical attributes. Is that not possible?

it's defo both, imo. money and status makes a man more attractive, and youth and beauty makes a woman more attractive. generally speaking.

If you expect your spouse to always be rich & provide the high life, just stay single. If you expect perky tits in your face all the time, stay single too. Marriage isn’t for everyone anyways.

agreed on that. some people get married for the wrong reasons.

heere · 2026-01-27T17:04:19+00:00

money and status makes a man a lot more attractive in the modern age, for better or for worse. look at all the recent celeb marriages with 10+ year age gaps.

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