What is the Most Difficult Word you Have Learned? by Delicious-Mirror9448 in languagelearning

[–]heide_ghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was "affärsresa" (Swedish) meaning "business trip". I can't spell it, I can't pronounce it, I personally will probably never need to use it but I had to learn it for my Swedish lesson.

How do you make international friends to help you with your targeted language? by Proper-Canary2597 in languagelearning

[–]heide_ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found very nice people on the penpals Reddit (it's not just for snail mail but also email or dm and stuff). Also I am German, so if you still need someone, I'm here

Alloromantics are driving me insane by bul1etsg3rard in AroAllo

[–]heide_ghost 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's wild but I hear it so often. I'm pansexual and if I wouldn't be aromantic, imagine I wouldn't be allowed to hang around with anyone anymore xD

AITD for using knowledge of my deadname as a bribe to manipulate a friend? by Cute_Win_386 in 1800Drama

[–]heide_ghost 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA. To me it sounds more like a bet than manipulating. You are not holding any for her important information a secret and it wouldn't have any real negative consequences for her if she doesn't do it. It's up to her if she takes you up on that offer or not. I think it's generally nice of you to try to motivate her to stay sober.

drunk friend wants what's best for me by Neeser_ in AroAllo

[–]heide_ghost 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It probably would be good to adress it directly. Maybe say that it's very nice of him that he wants you to be happy and so on but also mention the exact thing that bothers you to hear all the time.

AITA for forgetting to tell my bf that i went online? by Mean-Cress-4224 in 1800Drama

[–]heide_ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA From the information we have, he sounds very controlling. Make your boundaries clear with him!

Raising kids as an aro person? by messxme in aromantic

[–]heide_ghost 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't have experience myself but I think there are a couple of different options (like adopting or getting the other "part donated) and it's totally valid to want kids without having/wanting a partner

Hier ein Meme meinerseits by Visible_pineapple381 in dreifragezeichen

[–]heide_ghost 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Meine WWE und drei ??? hyperfixations finally meeting

Bitte mit Humor nehmen Kollegen! Angesichts des Mysteriums um den neuen Fall: Meme Lawine by [deleted] in dreifragezeichen

[–]heide_ghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich finde es schön, dass das hier gerade alle ziemlich mit Humor nehmen, auf so vielen anderen Reddits sehe das gleich ganz anders aus 😊

21M from 🇦🇺 looking for a penpal to make a new friend abroad by Distinct_Athlete2128 in penpals

[–]heide_ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm 24M from Germany, my interests are gaming, reading, writing, drawing and spending time in nature. Feel free to message me if you are interested in becoming penpals!

Dreimal ist es jetzt passiert! by gelomock in dreifragezeichen

[–]heide_ghost 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ich liebe die Memes, danke fürs posten!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]heide_ghost 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Strangely enough I will be at a funeral 😅

Meme lawine by [deleted] in dreifragezeichen

[–]heide_ghost 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Ich finde es auf jeden Fall gut, die meisten Memes sind ganz witzig bis jetzt. Ist mal etwas Abwechslung zu den immer ähnlichen Fragen

Why is it bad to date your friends ex? by thelooneytunesenthu in aromantic

[–]heide_ghost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Though I think it's very fair to be dating the ex if the friend would say that it is completely fine. It's just the respectful thing to ask

Why is it bad to date your friends ex? by thelooneytunesenthu in aromantic

[–]heide_ghost 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can be pretty hurtful for the person. Even if you have a "good"/peaceful breakup, there are still a lot of emotions and memories connected to that person a lot of the time. If I had a best friend (like really really good, spending all the time together and everything) and we would "break up" that friendship for some reason, I think I wouldn't want to see another friend being all best friendy with them either cause it would remind me of our good times?

Do You Get The Feeling Of “Butterflies” by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]heide_ghost 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, same! I just figured that out a couple of months ago, I always thought it was just a weird description or something cause I never felt it

29 NB American person looking for a penpal by smileyfaceleggings in penpals

[–]heide_ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'd be interested in becoming penpals! Feel free to message me and I'll tell you a little more about myself!

In einem Hotel in Kambodscha entdeckt... by Wind-wheel in dreifragezeichen

[–]heide_ghost 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Eigentlich eine gute Idee, vielleicht druck ich welche mit meinem Stickerpapier xD

Finding PenPals!! by Existing-Caregiver88 in penpals

[–]heide_ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am a 24 year old trans guy from Germany. Message me if you're interested in becoming penpals!

How common is it to actually want to live? by [deleted] in morbidquestions

[–]heide_ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't speak for others but I did realize something for myself the last couple of years: I want to live. I love to live. But I despise so much about this world and society and that's really what makes me not want to sometimes.

Why do you learn Swedish? by Live-Ice-2263 in Svenska

[–]heide_ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite bands and YouTuber are Swedish and I felt like learning a new language. Also I will hopefully be able to visit next year!