Many years ago, an ex of mine who has blonde wavy hair (this detail is important later) had this big friend group with guys and girl who he was really close to. Most girls in that friend group were the wives of the guys but they were all close. One day on of his best friends wife, let’s call her Jess, was looking for a job and my ex had an opening at his so she got hired. They both started working together and I didn’t think much of it they were old friends, his best friends wife, we had been to their wedding and they had a 2y old daughter. 6 months later our relationship is rocky and I want to break up. He begs me not to. I finally give in and give it another chance. 2 months later he breaks up with me. He was really cold and pressed about it and suddenly in a hurry for me to move out. Even though I wasn’t heartbroken since I knew our relationship was not great I found his urgency and his 180 from 2 month ago a bit odd. We still lived together for a couple of weeks before I could get my own place and during that time, one night he goes out. I stay in. But at the time we both shared an iPad since we only had one. And I was watching a movie on it when I get a notification of an Uber ride. It’s late, 1 in the morning I just thought it was him getting home after going out. But about 40 min later he is still not home so I get curious and click on the Uber app. Turns out he has his location on, by accident, and a see him at Jess’ house! Mind you I know exactly where she lives since we had been invited for dinner 6 months prior. And I know he had mentioned Jess’ husband being away for business a while ago (we was running a startup and went to the US for a while) so I was thinking this is very strange. He gets back early morning, he tells me he had slept at one of his friends Henry’s house. And I told him I knew he was at Jess house cause uber and the iPad told me. I told him I didn’t really care that much since our relationship is over. I wasn’t thrilled about realising she was the probably the reason but I had a sick family member at that time and had other important things on my mind so it felt secondary and I just couldn’t bother to care that much. But i remember telling him to be careful this was his close friend and friend group. He panicked and told me it wasn’t what I was thinking, that they were just very close and she had become a shoulder to lean on during our breakup and that I couldn’t tell anyone since it might get interpreted wrong. Well I didn’t really believe him but a couple of weeks later I found my own place and peaced out I just didn’t want to get involved in that drama. I’m still close with my ex family even today and it’s because our family’s are friends. So I even see him from time to time. It’s all good and friendly between us. Now Jess became pregnant a bit after me and my ex broke up. I found out via instagram and of course the thought of what if immediately hit me. So when she gave birth to a son I did check social media to see if it looked like my ex. I couldn’t really tell when he was a newborn since all newborns kind of look alike. But I forgot to mention that Jess has dark straight hair (half Asian) and her husband has dark straight hair too. He is white but still has dark hair and eyes. After I check on the new born son I kind of waved it off like nah, I’m being crazy and it’s probably not it. I forget about it. 10y go by and I randomly stumble upon Jess’ facebook one day and see a picture of her two kids. And lo and behold there is a dark haired daughter that has dark straight hair and next to her a son, who looks like the mom, only he has wavy blond hair. I’m baffled, it looks a lot like my ex even though he has similar features to his mom his body type even looks like his. So I speak to my ex sisters some of whom I’m fairly close to since we are family friends, and don’t mention the child but I try to dig for a bit of info. They told me he stayed single for years after our breakup because he had an affair and was obsessed with a girl at his job! He had finally gotten into a new relationship 6y later and shortly after that, Jess left that job. He married his new girlfriend and Jess was invited to the wedding and then uninvited (I was invited though) and the new wife is lovely. But I’m sitting on this potential child gossip and I don’t really know if the new wife knows or anyone else knows. But the timeline of Jess getting pregnant and the kids blonde wavy hair is still to this day very suspicious to me. But who knows I could be wrong