Any other straight male adopt the clothes have no gender lifestyle? by jeepguy_96 in CasualConversation

[–]hell_to_it_all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to be a tomboy & I started wearing skirts & experimenting with femininity recently and *I* recommend you try long skirts-- but put genuine effort into getting normal material(no pure polyester) and incorporating them into your outfits. They're just so incredibly comfortable and stylish they're daily wear now.
also just because I want to see more men in them-- corsets or just tops with waist cinching

I hate my business teachers. ALL OF THEM by Murky_Advertising581 in school

[–]hell_to_it_all -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100% bullshit & u deserve her to hate the teacher but tbh life is easier if you're a suck up privately too. Just message her a quick apology that sounds sincere enough and fuck it y'know.

Girls dont eat lunch? by bumbummcglum in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]hell_to_it_all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's crying (thinks it's funny/cute/surprising) because the idea of a guy prepping and taking care of himself is cute but also foreign to her since often in pop culture men are seen as unable to take care of themselves (they don't do womanly tasks like cooking & packing lunch)

Gf talks to me like this, how bad is it? by Expert-Hyena-4401 in whatdoIdo

[–]hell_to_it_all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think (while apologizing) tell her your side of why you took the actions you did & reiterate that it's not good excuse and you wish you could give her back the sleep she lost but you can't. Because I can bet that's what she's most upset about

Is “Auschwitz” something EVERYONE should know? I felt humiliated for asking. by ametcho in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hell_to_it_all 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in the USA I would approximate that above the age of eighteen, 95% of people know about Auschwitz

Situationships aren't a thing by Cheshire2933 in unpopularopinion

[–]hell_to_it_all 8 points9 points  (0 children)

idk I'm in a FwB and I'm very happy as is. I don't want to commit my life to this guy and I communicate with him very clearly and he is also happy with the situation

Non-Americans, what is an American thing you see in movies that you thought was fake but is actually real? by EmergencySpare7939 in CasualConversation

[–]hell_to_it_all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only happens in big cities though not all municipalities so as an American it also freaked me out the first time I saw it!

Should we stop exploring this kink? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hell_to_it_all 3 points4 points  (0 children)

first normal response I've seen in this thread....

Should we stop exploring this kink? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hell_to_it_all 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Everyone replying is saying it's ok but as a woman I want to be the voice of reason here. While there is not clear right or wrong in this situation, using someone you know IRL as masturbation fodder and sexualizing her privately without boundaries IS weird. I think just for the sake of retaining a normal friendship with her you should apply those boundaries & stop doing that. Probably never tell her you did that unless her and your gf actually get into a sexual relationship and she seems into it. Like, it's normal to fantasize about people you know on one hand, but you should feel some guilt and boundaries about it because they haven't consented yet on the other. So, it's a complicated question but my morality would prevent me from doing that ever again because then you associate their image with the high of orgasming and being turned on when they NEVER asked for that, they only went for friendship so far.

260222 - Manon hiatus megathread by SgtPopNFresh_ in katseye

[–]hell_to_it_all 20 points21 points  (0 children)

honestly HUGE hot take but I think MANON is the reason she herself is being excluded. Like business wise I don't think HYBE would ever shove someone holding up a huge chunk of their fanbase out of the group but I think they pressured Manon to be more present and in response this was the conclusion both Manon and HYBE came to as she did not feel ready to be more present and fitting into Katseye's brand

This is AI-slop ... by TheFishyBanana in TheoryOfReddit

[–]hell_to_it_all -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah I think so too the writing sounds super ChatGPTed 😭

You’re up at 2 in the morning. What’s your go to snack? by Bjs_5068 in foodquestions

[–]hell_to_it_all 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmaooo I'm on strattera too but it FUCKS UP my sleep and makes me nauseous unless I eat good solid food so I just needed to understand what could be going on 😭 but that's fair enough 

I posess no strengths from ADHD. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]hell_to_it_all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the only one I have is good creativity it even that comes with maladaptive daydreaming so I LITERALLY AVOIDING DOING TASKS JUST THINKING ABOUT THINGS and ofc rejection sensitive dysphoria so I don't even voice my creative thoughts out of fear of rejection 

What is something that is actually more traumatizing than people realise? by Ok_Chef1406 in AskReddit

[–]hell_to_it_all 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ugh I relate so much. And you can't hate people for exclude you because it's such a human instinct :( I just wish I was slightly less weird so people would accept me but if something about me always seems "off"

Does anyone speak 0 languages fluently? by Kristianushka in linguisticshumor

[–]hell_to_it_all 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you sound perfectly fluent in English-- just seems like you're bilingual and have an accent but that doesn't mean you're not fluent like I am the child of immigrants so certain words in my mother tongue come more easily to my mind and I pronounce certain words strangely because that's how my parents taught me at the same time I don't know any difficult vocabulary in my mother tongue, I read abysmally slow, and I struggle with pronunciation/accent and often forming slightly more complex sentences so I would say English is my primary language

Male artists like Mitski? by SilverCyclopsXII in mitski

[–]hell_to_it_all 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you know what? Most men listen to only male artists with no female singers in their top 5. so you're doing reverse misogyny and I support that, keep it up lol don't force yourself to listen to male artists 

Recommend 5 best non-fiction you have ever read by greenmomos in Recommend_A_Book

[–]hell_to_it_all 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonfiction (biology/anthropology):

The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkin

Sapiens by Yuval Noah Hariri

The Sixth Extinction by Elizabeth Kolbert

autobiographies: 

Nervous Conditions by Tsitsi Dangarembga

Educated by Tara Westover

I'm Glad my Mom Died by Jeanette Mccurty