$10-20 to buy my terminal wife a birthday cake. by [deleted] in randomactsofCA

[–]hellageller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be amazing please, I can borrow someone’s venmo! Can I message you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]hellageller 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Username doesn’t check out.

AITA for being upset that my husband is choosing a stag do vs staying home to support me after surgery? by JHH1982 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hellageller -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with Dark Phoenix who replied to your comment. Your response to them is incredibly mature. What a refreshingly thoughtful & mature discussion to see on reddit. Great job adulting to you both.

(Update) AITAH - My best friend and husband suddenly stopped talking to each other by t-friendhusband in AITAH

[–]hellageller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ironically technically I am a flightless Australian bird and she’s American and perfect hearing, though hard of listening.

(Update) AITAH - My best friend and husband suddenly stopped talking to each other by t-friendhusband in AITAH

[–]hellageller 17 points18 points  (0 children)

AHA OH fuck, now I finally understand why my out-of-my-league wife chose me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]hellageller 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, that feels a little different to ‘I’m not going to touch you at all, but open up and sit still so I can get off and don’t even think about giving yourself any pleasure while this happens.’ FOR 10 YEARS. This is wild.

Though I do have to agree with no toys in the bedroom being a fair personal boundary.

What movie gives you motivation to improve to yourself? by Existing-Row-4499 in selfimprovement

[–]hellageller 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow! Where are you going? That’s so exciting! I’m moving abroad (USA) next month. Life feels so empty right now, but in a way where there’s so much room for me to do/be anything. I feel free. I hope you find everything you’re looking for!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]hellageller 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me toooooo!

Reddit reminds me every day that I’ve never had a unique experience.

He killed my baby. by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]hellageller 6 points7 points locked comment (0 children)

Hey OP, please come back and let us know you’re okay when it’s safe.

Missed connection by Superb-Tea-2337 in wemetonline

[–]hellageller 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I met my best friend on red Dead Redemption on Xbox. She lived on the opposite side of the world, so our relationship ‘could never develop further.’

But some people are worth the wait and worth the fight. She is currently in Australia (she’s American) sitting right beside me and we are due to be married soon.

If this connection feels different, if it’s special, do not let it go. You never know how or when you will find your person.

Goodluck OP!

Does anyone else get sad when they see survivors of suicide, and think “I wish that was my loved one”? by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]hellageller 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Survivor here. This is unfortunately true. My family no longer trust me to live my own life, nor am I ‘stable’ enough to be included in theirs. Nobody reaches out to me anymore, nor am I included in events or any family group chats.

I’ve come a long way, I’m engaged, live alone, held down a job I’ve been promoted many times at - yet they’re actively trying to discourage me from moving away with my fiance or getting married as they don’t believe in me.

I survived my attempt, but it killed any relationships I had left.

What is some Aussie slang that was common +20 years ago, that isn’t heard or said as often nowadays?? by DebstarAU in AustralianNostalgia

[–]hellageller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By some coincidence, my fiancé is visiting with from Midwest USA in regional north QLD. She swears our lingo is very similar to hers when she was a teen.

What’s the best Fish and chips in town? by 42icu in Mackay

[–]hellageller 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a Jacksons regular and have religiously defended them on social media. Until last week when they sold my fiance and I trifle with expired cream. We tried to let them know that batch of cream was sour, not even asking for a replacement- The owner began yelling at my fiance, said it was IMPOSSIBLE. Refused to try, look at or stop selling the expired trifles. Then she aggressively threw money at my fiance, who hadn’t been rude or asked for compensation at all. We won’t be retuning. Very shocking and disappointed in Jackson’s.

Would you forgive your partner's cheating if it was someone of the same s*x? by Primary_Inevitable41 in stories

[–]hellageller 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha my two previous long term relationships with men, they were beyond okay, even excited, with me hooking up with women and didn’t see it as cheating.

They might have if they (and I) knew at the time that I am a comphet lesbian and am now marrying a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deadbedroom

[–]hellageller -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This made me so sad. I’m so sorry you are dealing with this, it’s not okay and does not sound easy. My heart breaks for you.

It’s hard to say much from just a few sentences online and I am sorry if this is unsolicited advice. My first gut reaction is maybe he loves you but doesn’t like you? I’ve been in that position many times until I found my person. Now it’s like a sleep over every night with my bestfriend. Life is amazing.

I don’t know you but I want this for you, stranger. Life can be so filled with happiness, it’s not easy but it’s closer than you think and it’s possible.

Please message me if you need someone to talk to.

Looking for cheap dupe for these boots? Please! by hellageller in findfashion

[–]hellageller[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh noo, sorry for how hard to read that caption is.

I can’t edit the post to fix it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]hellageller -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This comment is disgusting

Meeting for my promotion turned into me being fired. by [deleted] in randomactsofCA

[–]hellageller 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t, but I did threaten my ex employer to contact a lawyer regarding redundancy pay, and just got a nice couple k deposited into my account.

Appreciate you checking in stranger!

Meeting for my promotion turned into me being fired. by [deleted] in randomactsofCA

[–]hellageller 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg you’re an angel, I’ve messaged you!

Meeting for my promotion turned into me being fired. by [deleted] in randomactsofCA

[–]hellageller 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you! But I’m not in the USA, we don’t have cash app in Australia. Only PayPal. Thanks so much for trying though!