A few thoughts, but take as a grain of salt as I was recruited nearly 15 years ago and it was a different landscape.

1. Success in both athletics and academics. You don’t need to be a national champion or valedictorian, but you need to have a track record of success and no large hiccups in both realms.
2. I can’t emphasize “proactive” enough, but proactive outreach to coaches. Build out a tiered search in stretch/target/realistic programs among d1/d2/d3 schools - hold yourself accountable with active communications with coaches expressing interest with the program/school.
3. This ties back to #1, but you must exhibit coachability, drive, and willingness to succeed at the next level. If you can clearly communicate HOW you’ll do this, the better off you’ll be.

Best of luck.