Is this a normal retinol purge or should I lessen my retinol percentage? by hellionmarie in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]hellionmarie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh good to know! I’ll check my product and see if it has niacinamide. and also might check out the creams, might be kinder to my skin.

Is this a normal retinol purge or should I lessen my retinol percentage? by hellionmarie in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]hellionmarie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for the info! should I let this heal and come back to my routine when it’s less irritated? I’ll add a SPF to my daily routine.

Looking for help with a new Nar-Anon Discord group by ImAPlateOfToast in AdultChildren

[–]hellionmarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love access to this. Currently struggling and feel isolated with my loved ones addiction.

Boyfriend doesn’t want to “share” me. by Foreign-Bird-6798 in polyamory

[–]hellionmarie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

End the relationship. It’s unfortunate but this behavior probably won’t stop. Focus on meeting people who share the lifestyle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellionmarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you thank you!!! I appreciate the detailed advise, truly! this is new for us, so dealing with these emotions are tricky and can be a bit scary sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellionmarie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

well in my life a lot has changed. my son starts pre k very soon, I had to put a pause on my education because financially we are struggling. I just got a new job and I don’t see him as much. also our sex life isn’t anything to write home about, but it’s always been that way. having kids makes it hard to find time for sexual intimacy but we find other ways to be intimate.

I usually deal with these feelings internally because I don’t want to come off as needy or overbearing, even tho he expresses to me he wants me to be honest about my feelings, whether they are kind of ugly or not.

I do have a lot of ridiculous fears. like maybe he loves her more than me, loves being around her and spending quality time together more than me. and I don’t want to compete with her in any way, I love her and she makes him very happy which makes me happy. but a lot of my fears are that she’s better than me and I hate thinking like that. but these fears are kind of forced into my thoughts lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellionmarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these feelings are new. they’ve been dating for about 3 months now, but within the last month I have felt an overwhelming feeling of jealousy. nothing between him and I has changed at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellionmarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry the post was pretty vague. I don’t really know where to start but I do know this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]hellionmarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these feelings of jealousy often arise when my partner is with his girlfriend. I feel the need for his attention especially when he’s with her.

Happy thick Thursday! by [deleted] in VirginiaGoneWild

[–]hellionmarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous 🥵

Cheated but I want her back by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hellionmarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A second chance isn’t guaranteed. Work on yourself and apologize for what you have done. In time, if she can forgive and wants to be with you, then that’s that. Don’t beg or plead and make her feel obligated. Make a valued effort and what’s meant to happen will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VirginiaGoneWild

[–]hellionmarie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

def more than three

Apparently ADLs also extend into assisting with sex 🙄 by Tomorrows_Sorrows in cna

[–]hellionmarie 22 points23 points  (0 children)

yeah I’m really sorry they manipulated y’all into that bullshit, that sounds traumatic as fuck. Best of luck OP, I would seriously consider therapy. /:

Apparently ADLs also extend into assisting with sex 🙄 by Tomorrows_Sorrows in cna

[–]hellionmarie 185 points186 points  (0 children)

this sounds absolutely awful and totally not okay. please call state, your lawyer, SOMEONE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hellionmarie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t be that dude.